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12 Things You Must Know About Bad Parenting
~3.4 mins read
Probably the hardest undertaking to accomplish is to have a decent and steady child rearing style. There are occasions of terrible child rearing that can have enduring outcomes on kids. Most guardians utilize their own childhood as an outline for child rearing, which isn't prescribed because of development of society and social climate. It is demonstrated that specific acts of child rearing are more destructive than they are advantageous to your youngster. 
What is Bad Parenting? 
Terrible child rearing is a progression of activities that can truly hurt the youngster's aura and brain science. Terrible child rearing isn't limited to a solitary demonstration; it is an assortment of these demonstrations that are typically what adds to an unsafe impact on the youngster. Most poor child rearing may not be deliberate, however this doesn't lessen it's negative effect on the youngster. A few guardians don't know about the results of these activities and some probably won't give it a second thought. Awful child rearing may come from not realizing that enough generally will be a superior parent or from an overall absence of lack of care to learning the correct way. 
Terrible child rearing can have numerous antagonistic impacts on your kid. With our ways of life being as relentless as they are today, it may appear simple to simply instruct your youngster. In any case, you should recall that your youngster is a person who requires care and sustaining from you. Make an opportunity to join child rearing gatherings and discussions and raise any issues you may be confronting. Have a fair discussion with different guardians and tune in to any counsel they may have. In the event that there are any indications of the impacts of poor child rearing in your kid, it may be ideal to counsel a kid therapist. 
Indications Of Bad Parenting 
There are a few activities and frequencies that could make you an awful parent. Here are a couple of instances of terrible child rearing that you should maintain a strategic distance from no matter what: 
1. Reproving the Child Excessively 
On the off chance that your kid accomplishes something incorrectly and you censure or chasten him unnecessarily for the misstep, it can affect your kid. This training can have a more regrettable impact if your kid has shown trustworthiness and has admitted to committing an error. 
2. Restraining the Child in Front of Everyone 
You may become upset and admonish, holler, or even hit your kid before others. This will seriously affect your youngster's certainty, and the sentiment of disgrace emerging from this technique for order will be difficult to shake off. 
3. All Advice, No Encouragement 
You apportion exhortation about everything, from brushing teeth to picking the correct garments instead of empowering your kid with help. 
4. Retaining Affection 
You don't give your kid embraces or state 'I love you' to your kid frequently. This will cause your kid to feel genuinely disengaged from you. 
5. Not Setting Rules 
Youngsters need structure and limits so as to grow up to be sound people. In the event that the youngster doesn't develop with discipline, at that point he/she will endure in circumstances outside the home climate. 
6. Absence of Support 
Kids need uphold, particularly during upsetting circumstances such as an exhibition at school or assessments. You could be more worried about your work, and this may leave your kid feeling restless. 
7. Looking at Your Child 
You continually tell your kid that he/she ought to resemble other kids and imitate their positive attributes. This is an indication of terrible child rearing. 
8. Not Proud of His/Her Achievements 
You never acclaim your kid for his/her accomplishments and don't show pride in difficult work. 
9. Utilizing a Criticizing Tone 
Keep a Watch on Your Tone When Talking to Your Child 
Utilizing a tone that shows dissatisfaction with regards to all your kid's activities will leave a negative blemish on him/her. 
10. Not Respecting His/Her Feelings 
You don't set aside the effort to have a discussion with your kid and get his/her sentiments. At the point when sentiments and emotions are ignored and not tended to in a solid way, it could unfavorably influence kids. 
11. Being a Poor Example 
Your youngster will get on the entirety of your propensities and practices. You should consider why and where your youngster has gotten a specific conduct from. 
12. Not Giving Him/Her a Choice 
You don't give your kid a decision and rather anticipate him/her to accomplish something since you have said as much. 

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Ayoabbey
Choosing Enjoyment Meant Leaving My Husband
~6.9 mins read
The subject of today’s What She Said is a 34-year-old Nigerian woman who grew up getting everything she asked for. She talks about constantly pursuing enjoyment, and how that led to her leaving her cheating husband and raising her two children independently.What was it like growing up?I had a pretty happy childhood. I am the 12th child out of 21 and was the last girl till I was 12 years old, so I was kind of everyone’s favourite. I grew up with a lot of people in the house: cousins and aunts inclusive. I was never short of people to play with.The earliest memory of my childhood is from when I was about four years old. My daddy’s important friends came, and they gave me two bundles of five naira notes. I made my mum take me to the shopping complex to buy a red spaghetti strap dress with a fancy bolero jacket.Your mother did not “hold” the money for you? Must be nice.Whenever I got money like that, I sometimes gave my parents to keep it for me, but I have always loved being responsible for my own money.The downside to being responsible for your own money is that sometimes you’re deprived of things other people have. If I protested, my parents told me those people used their savings to buy it. There was a year I almost did not get Sallah clothes because I had used all my savings at the snack woman’s place. After crying for hours, they finally gave me the clothes.The thing is, I was adorable, smart and liked. I was everyone’s little bride at their wedding, always the house princess for inter-house sports, and always represented the school at primary school events. I was spoilt, overindulged and was used to having my way with almost everything. I loved it, and it did a lot for my self-confidence and self-esteem.What’s it like being a confident adult?I look at people who don’t like me like they don’t have good taste.When I was younger, I did not handle being rejected well. There was a time a guy said he liked me but didn’t want to date me. I was stunned. Like how dare he? Why would he allow common sense to derail him from enjoyment? I am a big believer in enjoyment, so this did not make any sense to me.LOL. What do you consider enjoyment?Food is my kind of enjoyment, but I despise cooking. I love food cooked by other people. That was why when I started making money, the first thing I did was hire a cook. After a few months, I sent him away because he was doing nonsense. Now, I have someone that does well and cooks for the house.The house?The house includes me, my children’s minder, the help, my two children, and my nieces.Tell me about your kids.They’re amazing children, and I love them very much, but I don’t recommend children to anybody. They take your body, your energy and your money. All for small hugs and kisses? The return on investment is poor.But then you have not just one, but two. Why?I was 23 and so very young and foolish. I felt that having children was expected of me after getting married, so I did just that. I got married and pushed out two children without putting much thought into it.I had my first child for my ex-husband and the second for my first child because I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life entertaining her. Now they can entertain themselves and be friends.Did that work?Yes. They do everything together and love one another so much it gets me upset sometimes. The boy who is two years older than his sister said to me the other day: “I get upset when I see my sister crying, and I feel like slapping someone, but since you are the one making her cry, I will just go and tell her sorry.”She was crying because I scolded her for finishing some paper in the house and not letting me know to replace it.The thought of them gaining power and throwing me out of the house has crossed my mind, but I know they love me too much. They also understand that sometimes I love one child more than the other, and they don’t mind.One day, my children told me, “You can’t love two people the same way at the same time. There are times when you love my sister more, and times you love me more, but we don’t care. We know you love both of us and will always take care of us.”Stuff like this makes me feel like I’m winning in the parent department.Continue reading: https://www.zikoko.com/her/choosing-enjoyment-meant-leaving-my-husband/

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Xmo
Bawa: EFCC Has Recovered $20m Worth Of Cryptocurrency From Fraudsters
~1.5 mins read
Abdulrasheed Bawa, chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC), says the commission has recovered $20million worth of cryptocurrency from cybercriminals.

He said the commission sees cryptocurrency as an “avenue where criminals launder proceeds of crime”.

He said this on Sunrise Daily, a Channels Television programme, on Tuesday.

The Central Bank of Nigeria (CBN) had issued a directive that banks should close accounts of persons or entities involved in cryptocurrency transactions within their systems.

“As it is today, there is nowhere in the world where cryptocurrency is being regulated. The EFCC is looking at cryptocurrency as an avenue where people are laundering their proceeds of crime,” he said.

“Where people are receiving proceeds of crime and that is our worry. We have seen again and again how cybercriminals are using it as an avenue to get their proceeds of crime.

“Before, it used to be through money transfer agencies like Money Gram and Western Union. Now they have gone E.

“They will defraud somebody and get gift cards, and exchange in dark webs, and use the proceeds to buy crypto. And then of course get it into their e-wallets and they can sell and get their money.”

[b]“As it is now today, we have about $20 million worth of cryptocurrency because we also created our own crypto wallet to recover cryptocurrency. We are now recovering the proceeds of crime.[/b]

“We are in support of what the CBN has done because it has reduced the ease for which these criminals can get cryptocurrency and get naira for it.

“I believe we will not be left behind when it comes to ensuring that laws and regulations are put in place to checkmate the excesses of cryptocurrency.”

Bawa said within January to June 3, 2021, 1,436 suspected cybercriminals have been arrested across the country.
“From January to June, according to the statistics, the EFCC has arrested 1436 suspected cybercriminals across the federation,” he said .

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