Opinion: Why I Want To Divorce My Husband As Soon As Possible
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I got married two months ago. I am 7 months pregnant my husband didn't tell me he had a child from his previous relationship and the child has a disability celebral palsy. Her mother came to dropped her off in my house saying she has done enough and she's tired it is now hubby turn to take care of her.
The child can't do anything for herself she can't sit, talk, walk and she does toilet in her clothes. I can't do it anymore I love children because I have taken care of my own nieces and nephews before I would have taken care of her if she was normal but taking care of a child in this question is hard and if her own mother has had enough she abandoned her and why would I kill myself taking care of her in my condition.
I want to divorce and go back to my village I have told him i am leaving next month. He is pleading with me not to leave him that he will take the child somewhere else but the place is not free he has to be paying like 200k monthly for them to take care of the child and he doesn't even have that amount of money because he is not financial stable.
I will stick to my decision but I want to know what will other people do in my situation.
A Double Wedding Took A Dramatic Twist When One Of The Intended Grooms Ran Away Moments Before The Ceremony – And A Guest Stepped In To Marry The Bride.
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A double wedding took a dramatic twist when one of the intended grooms ran away moments before the ceremony – and a guest stepped in to marry the bride.
Two brothers, Ashok and Naveen were set to be married in a village in Tarikere taluk of Chikkamagaluru district in Karnataka, India on Sunday, January 3.
Sure enough, Naveen tied the knot, but as the ceremony began his brother Ashok was nowhere to be found.
It turned out that Ashok had a secret girlfriend who had reportedly threatened to turn up to the wedding venue and drink poison rather than allow the young man to go through with the ceremony.
Ashok's heartbroken bride-to-be, Sindhu was left sobbing in the wedding venue.
Surprisingly, reports the Bangalore Mirror, Sindhu's family managed to locate someone willing to step up and give the young woman a wedding to remember after all.
After some discussions, one of the wedding guests – a man named Chandrappa, who works as a conductor for the Bangalore Metropolitan Transport Corporation – agreed to marry Sindhu.
Amazingly, the dramatic soap-opera plot is nothing new. In 2019, another Indian bride, from Sironj city of Madhya Pradesh, eloped with the man who had been hired to conduct the ceremony.
The priest, a man named Vinod Maharaj who was already married and had two children, didn't just take the 21-year-old bride. The couple eloped with jewellery worth 150,000 rupees (just over £1,500) and 30,000 rupees (around £300) in cash.
An investigation later revealed that the runaway bride had been in a romantic relationship with the priest for two years.
We have all been teenagers ourselves, if we're not yet teenagers then we have seen teenagers, we have lived with them, some of us have raised them and if we'd all be sincere we'd say that they are not the easiest set of people to deal with.
The teenage years of any child is the most frustrating years for the parents. It is the stage where chocolate cakes and fried rice do not make the child excited anymore, it is the stage where you begin to question your parenting skills and start checking back into the tears to see if there is something you have missed along the way because your once happy child is no longer happy.
But dear parents and guardians the problem is not you. It is the transitioning from child to adult that causes all that changes in them. It is the age where a child believe he/she is old enough to make their own decisions and that is the stage where they are very disobedient because they feel they are right and the world is wrong. So they could even despise their parents if they feel like they do not understand them.
Many parents on noticing these changes start becoming very tough parents and the religious ones take the children for deliverance believing that they are possessed. But the truth is that is the stage and time where you should let that child walk alone for a while, do not be too pushy. The teenage years is the time where a child is trying to see their own reflection. Trying to find themselves asking themselves why they are in the world and what is the essence of life.
The best thing to do for someone looking to see their own reflection is to find a mirror for them. In other words make sure you become a worthy role model to them. Be someone they can look at and see themselves.
Parenting is a life long responsibility, it is a constant struggle to remain relevant in the life of your children. If your child sees you as unimportant to their course, they will never come to you. The the space between you and your child would turn into distance. You will find it hard to connect with them.
The best thing to do for a teenager is to hold on. If they see how you hold on, they'll hold on too.
When they see how you persevere and keep your chin up no matter what, they'd imitate that too.
When you as a parent cannot deal with pressure, they would start seeing you as a poster child for weakness and everything they do not want to be. They would aviia you because they do not want to end up like you. They would resent you for being weak.
In the journey of self discovery, your child needs you.
Elon Musk's Transgender Daughter Is Changing Her Name To DITCH Musk
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Elon Musk's son Xavier, 18, files petition to change their GENDER to become a woman named Vivian Jenna Wilson and says it's because 'I no longer live with or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape or form'
• Elon Musk son Xavier, 18, has filed to legally change their gender from male to female and lose their last name
• They filed the petition in April to take their mother's maiden name and want to be called Vivian Jenna Wilson
• Xavier wrote in the California court filing they do not want to be tied to father Musk in 'any way, shape or form'
• Entrepreneur Musk, 50, had Xavier and twin Griffin with his first wife, Canadian author Justine Wilson in 2004
• A hearing on the petition is scheduled for Friday and will take place before a judge in Santa Monica, California
By HARRIET ALEXANDER FOR DAILYMAIL.COM
PUBLISHED: 00:58, 21 June 2022 | UPDATED: 14:25, 21 June 2022
Elon Musk's 18 year-old son has filed court documents seeking to legally change their gender from male to female and lose their last name, stating: 'I no longer live with or wish to be related to my biological father in any way, shape or form.'
Xavier Musk, 18, filed the paperwork in Santa Monica, California, on April 18, seeking to be known as Vivian Jenna Wilson. The transgender teenager explained that they wish to take their mother's last name to distance them from their dad.
They have not commented on whether they receive financial support from their dad - whose $213 billion dollar fortune makes him the world's richest man.
Musk was married to Vivian's mother, Canadian author Justine Wilson, from 2000 until 2008. Their first son, Nevada, was born in 2002 and died of Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) at 10 weeks. The pair went on to have twin sons - Xavier and Griffin - and triplet boys: Damian, Kai and Saxon, now 16.
The five teenagers have kept a fairly low profile, despite their father having joint custody. Musk also two other children, X Æ A-Xii and Exa Dark Sideræl, who goes by Y, with Canadian singer Grimes.
It is unclear what is behind Xavier's rejected of their father, in such a public way. Musk has yet to comment, and it is unclear if he was aware of Xavier's plan prior to the court documents being filed.
Musk has been vocal on various transgender issues and last year he complained about people using their own pronouns. He also said he was a fan of Florida governor Ron DeSantis who has been condemned by the LGBTQ community for his bill preventing discussion of gender identity and homosexuality in classrooms for children in kindergarten through third grade.
Nigerian Man Celebrates Sallah With His 3 Wives And 19 Children (Photos)
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A Nigerian man identified as Baba Lawal, has gotten people talking on social media after celebrating Sallah with his 19 children and three wives.
The polygamous man shared photos of his wives and children on Sunday, July 10, on the occasion of Eid-El-Kabir celebration.
It was said that the photos went viral on social media platforms and has generated thousands of likes and comments from many Nigerians.
It was reported that Baba Lawal recently shared pictures of his three beautiful wives and 19 children, in celebration of Sallah event.
Meanwhile, he is currently a teacher at Umar Bn Khattab College of Education Kaduna, he grew up in Kwara State.
According to his Facebook bio, the father of the 19 children was a Secretary to Kaduna State Hisbah.
The amazing pictures which he shared on the platform showed him posing with his beautiful family. The man and his son's wore same attire, while his daughters and his wives rocked the same attire.