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PortableRjay
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Ups And Downs In Marriage
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This thing called marriage.
No one talks about the unnecessary arguments. No one talks about the irritations. No one talks about the sudden disgust for everything your partner does. No one talks about the nagging, the complaints. No one talks about how the person begins to piss you off.
No one talks about how he or she doesn't look attractive anymore. No one talks about how it feels like you have a stranger in your house.
No body talks about how he or she can't provide the usual anymore, and how we can't cope with it. Nobody talks about the storms that come. The sickness, the brokeness.
So we don't prepare for these things. And when the storm comes, we believe it to be the end.
But there's always a calm after every storm.
There's always imperfections. There's always that strangeness. There's always time for everything that I mentioned. The hurricane is strong enough to carry you, but when you and your partner are well prepared, you'll be stronger and you'll win.
Eunice Idowo
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Charly Boy Apologizes To His Lesbian Daughter, Princess Dewy Oputa
~2.8 mins read
Charley Boy, aka Area Fada, has written an open letter to apologize to his daughter for the way he treated her after she came out as a lesbian, IgbereTV reports.
Charly Boy had shared a post last week, saying he's proud to have a lesbian daughter and he supports her completely. But his daughter, Dewy Oputa hit back, stating that her father doesn't pick her calls and she was rendered homeless after she publicized her sexuality. She accused her dad of using her to chase clout as father of the year online, while caring nothing about her in real life.
Charly Boy has now responded. He said he was amused by his daughter's public condemnation because it's the same way he and his father - former Supreme Court justice Chukwudifu Oputa - butted heads before he was able to be independent.
"Lion no fit born goat, " he added.
He asked Dewy to forgive him and promised to allow her tell her story and to respect her perspectives.
He wrote:
"My Dear Dewy,
I know the last few days may have been tough for you flowing from my Friday post
“For Parents Only†on my Instagram.
I apologize if my post rubbed you the wrong way, for this I am deeply sorry, my bad.
Forgive me.
But Honestly,
I was talking to parents trying to get them to understand that they-can only give good advice or put their children on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.
I came into parenting the way most of us did — knowing nothing but trying to learn everything, becos, who no go no fit know.
The journey of parenthood is an emotional roller-coaster, filled with happiness, sadness, worries, frustration, pride, excitement and much more. Parenting is an amazing adventure.
When people dey yab me say you dey tackle me for social media, I just dey laff.
I dey laff because Na so I tackle my papa before I collect my independence. Lion no fit born goat. Never forget that the Oputa’s are very special people, and in you I see me.
Since Saturday morning I have received thousands of phone calls from parents and young people who feel disconnected with their parents. Their testimony has been quite insightful.
I was only able to offer a listening ear and soothing words, but I feel taller because our story inspired thousands.
That’s a good thing.
My darling, I promise to allow you tell your story like I have been able to tell mine. I respect your perspectives and I understand. I brought you all up as Global Kids and not as timid village champions.
Let’s just go back to the friendship we have been working on.
I love you and no one can contest, not even you.
My Charly Girl
Princess Dewy
Daddy’s Totori"
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Married Woman Reveals She Pays $80/Hour To Hug A Professional Cuddler In US
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A married woman has revealed that she spends $80 an hour to visit a professional cuddler. Saskia Larsen, from New York, says her husband doesn't mind that she meets up with another man just to spoon, and is '99 per cent sure' he doesn't get jealous. The actress uses a service called Cuddlist and hires people while she is away from home to pursue her acting career.  A married woman has revealed that she spends $80 an hour to visit a professional cuddler (pictured together)  Saskia Larsen, from New York, says her husband doesn't mind that she meets up with another man just to spoon, and is '99 per cent sure' he doesn't get jealous. She is pictured with the cuddler Speaking to Instagram page, Love Don't Judge, Saskia explained: 'Many people would think that it's odd that I access cuddling services because I'm married. 'But screw it, I don't really care what anybody else thinks. I love affection and I love how it makes my body feel.' Speaking about her husband she added: 'I'm 99 per cent sure he does not get jealous of cuddling because I check in with him, and talk to him about it. 'He's more protective of me than jealous so as long as I'm safe it's good.'  Speaking to Instagram page, Love Don't Judge , Saskia admitted that many people' find it weird' but she 'love affection and doesn't care what people think'  Saskia is pictured being cuddled 'I would recommend every single person try cuddling because it makes you feel human, 'I'm not breaking an agreement with my husband, I'm not breaking the law, I'm just having something that's really yummy and great.' Her husband Arthur added: 'Saskia and I have a monogamous relationship but I don't feel like cuddling violates the integrity of that.  The cuddler himself says the business has 'never done better' and he gets 200 requests a week for his services. 'Saskia likes a lot of contact and she's very comfortable around other people and she's very affectionate. 'When we're together we cuddle all the time so I can understand why she would need that human contact.' The cuddler himself says the business has 'never done better' and he gets 200 requests a week for his services. He said: 'I have all kinds of clients that are all kinds of ages. 'Men, women, older clients, younger clients that are there for personal touch and human interaction and that's what I value about it.' |
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