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SARS & Police Brutality: Seun Okinbaloye Writes On How To Fix Nigeria
~1.3 mins read
Seun Okinbaloye, Channels Television's Political Correspondent, writes on SARS, Police brutality and his to fix Nigeria. Seun Okin writes on Twitter: #endsars #endpolicebrutality Dear Friends, On a rather deeper look at things, Police brutality is the topmost of the agitation but the anger and fury is deeper, bottled up for many years. An oppression our fathers have endured and the children now say No More, Enough is Enough! In the context of the current scenario “SARS” has become a metaphor. “SARS” in our society today represents all the inefficiencies, corruption, structural imbalances, faults and All the shenanigans of the Political class. If this present fury does not inspire an overhaul of the Nigerian system, then we may be headed for another restless round of 60 year of disastrous merry go round. This Nation needs a RESET NOW!! It’s a good time to negotiate the fixing of this great Nation. How long do we keep singing; Nigeria has great potentials? Let those potentials start working for good If we must tell our selves the bitter truth as a people we urgently need to fix these; * A drastic cut in cost of governance * Federal Ministers shouldn’t be more than 10. * Remove the lofty attraction in public office * Reduce the powers of the centre and decentralize reasonably * Fix our defective constitution * Reset the civil service * Create regional economic/developmental competition * Allow states to explore their resources/endowment * Resort to Unicameral Legislature * No state should have more than 6 Commissioners and 5 aides to the Governor’s office * It’s either Local council works or we forget about grass- root governance * Very stern and severe punishment for stealing public funds The Political Leadership that fixes this nation will be a hero, the people that push for the change will be happy for generations to come. We can then begin to flash our identity as a real great people that we are!! ‘Seun Okin https://twitter.com/seunokin/ status/1317409091250212864?s=19
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Sabiunique720
Make Your Man Worry About Losing You
~4.3 mins read
If your man never experiences any fear or worry about losing you, he will never fall deeply in love with you. If he never worries that you could leave him or that he could lose you, he will never value and appreciate and love you the way that he should!

Do you feel your man is underestimating or he's not generally indicating you the adoration and consideration that he once did? 

Or then again do you feel neglected and you need to help him to remember your worth and significance in his life? 

#1) Let Go Of Your Anger And Stop Talking About Feeling Unappreciated 

This one is hard to do yet significant. At the point when you feel like he's underestimated you or that he doesn't welcome you, it's normal to feel hurt and even furious about it. It bodes well to converse with him about it yet in some cases that will just incidentally make something happen. In any case, if things don't change, grumbling consistently really exacerbates the situation. It resembles he considers you to be the person who's continually whining and bothering at him. 


So you should not bring this theme up once more, in any event not yet. I know it is difficult to do, however, in the event that you keep on bringing it up, you could destroy your odds of making something happen. So notwithstanding how you're feeling, you should not tell him that you're vexed or tragic or stressed. Rather, after you do these means, he will the one missing and valuing you and he will bring it up himself. 

#2) Prioritize Your wellness 

It's normal for couples in a relationship to put on some additional pounds. So on the off chance that you've increased a couple of pounds and don't have a similar hourglass figure that you had when you met your man, getting once again into shape is something that he will positively see and appreciate. So join a rec center or begin following a specific exercise program and focus on it. 

Ensure that he sees how significant this is to you and that you have specific wellness or size objectives to meet. Presently, he ought to be glad that you are rolling out these improvements, but at the same time, he will that you will be more alluring to everybody, other men notwithstanding. 

Try not to be astonished in the event that he inquires as to why you're attempting to look so great. In the event that your physical wellness hasn't changed at the sum total of what since you've been seeing someone, can at present impart to him an expanded degree of energy about your wellness and afterward do the following tip. 


#3) Glamourize Your Looks 

When in a relationship, it's basic for individuals to get so agreeable that they let their appearance blur. In the event that this impacts you, it's an ideal opportunity to begin glamorizing the way that you look when you're with him and when you're not with him. So dress well and ensure that your hair and your skin is shining and put your best self forward. 

Presently, in case you're an individual who's continually putting your best self forward, consider rolling out an improvement in the manner in which you look. Maybe you could change your hairdo, your style of attire, or your cosmetics. Simply ensure that it's a sufficient change that he will see, make you look hotter and more charming. This will incite only a smidgen of dread that another person could have his spot. 

Don't intentionally attempt to cause him to feel desirous or take part in a manipulative game. No, these tips are totally founded on centering looking and feeling stunning and advising him that he's with an astounding lady and he should attempt to guarantee he keeps you inspired by him. 

#4) Resurrect Your Social Life Outside Of His 

Make and keep arrangements with your lady friends and keep your timetable occupied. Take up another side interest or accomplish something that you appreciate. Act naturally and focus on yourself. This powers him to remember you're autonomous and that you're not simply sitting by the telephone hanging tight for his calls. 


Keep in mind, one of the most significant things that men find alluring in ladies is freedom. He must realize how full and complete your life is. Also, in the event that he turns out to be essential for your life, this is on the grounds that you WANT him to be important for it, NOT on the grounds that you NEED him to be important for it. So ensure that you are staying aware of the existence you had before meeting him. 

So when he calls you a minute ago to make arrangements, 'Oh no, grieved, I have plans'. This will cause him to organize and design his experience with you. At the point when he feels an impulse, he needs to win back that high need status. 

#5) Connect With Him on a genuinely Intimate

I'm stating that you make a sheltered space for him to be sincerely personal. Recall when you felt truly close and associated with your accomplice, or when you felt that you could confess your accomplice your most profound insider facts and it would be completely acknowledged. We as a whole need that profound association with somebody and those profound and magnificent sentiments of closeness thrive in an air of wellbeing. 

We open up when we have a sense of security. So make a sheltered zone for him to be openly expressive, to act naturally. That implies being an individual who is tolerating and mindful and sympathetic. At the point when he's associated with you on a sincerely personal level, he will unquestionably miss you when he feels detached. All things considered, you need him to be desolate for you. 

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Winneronyinye
20 Courageous Acts That Make You Bold And Fearless
~5.0 mins read
There is no small act of courage. You can't compare the courage it takes to battle cancer with the courage it takes to become a doctor.

Both are very brave acts. You can't compare the courage it takes to become an Olympian with the courage it takes to raise a physically or mentally challenged child.

Both are incredible feats. You can't compare a firefighter who saves a life to an eight year old child who consistently stands up to a bully. Both acts are heroic.

Most of us don't think of ourselves as brave people. Yet that's exactly who we are. If you reflect on your life, one decade at a time, and write down your bravery, I'm sure you'd be surprised.

I think every brave thing we do in life counts. It's time we claim our bold and audacious selves.  

It's time to celebrate our fearlessness. As we do, we can begin to think of ourselves as bold people who are sometimes fearless instead of fear-filled people who try to be bold.

Everyday acts of courage to practice and celebrate:

1. Apologize.

It takes courage to admit when you are wrong. It's a bold act to admit when you make a mistake. Apologizing takes you out of your comfort zone and enhances your relationships. That's big. 

2. Be yourself.

Don't imitate anyone. Take off your mask. Allow yourself to become vulnerable. Share your flaws with others. See perfection in your imperfections. Who you are is a gift to the world. Allow yourself to shine.

3. Take responsibility.

You are where you are in life because of the choices you make. If you don't like what you see, change it. One question I ask myself often is, "Is this the life I want to create?" If you don't exercise, make a change. If you need to get out of debt, spend less. Responsibility brings freedom.

4. Keep your commitments.

Write down everything you say you are going to do. Write down the promises you make to others. When you keep your promises, you build self-respect. Others respect you as well. 

5. Rock the boat.

Speak up. Make a difference. Share your feelings when you witness an injustice. Practice sharing your opinion. Don't allow someone to take advantage of you. Learn to say, "no." Refuse to hold back when your gut says to move forward.

6. Let go of the past.

Stop wallowing over what could have been. Forgive yourself. Forgive your parents. Forgive everyone. What happened is over unless you keep it alive by reliving it in your mind. When we know better, we do better. It takes courage to move on.

7. Grow.

Learn something new. Step into the unknown. Change the way you do things. It doesn't matter if you get it the first time. Try again. Give yourself permission to be a beginner. Seize the opportunity. Growth brings new opportunities. 

8. Listen.

Listen to people who disagree with you. Listen to family members who think you are wrong. Listen to the elderly person in the coffee shop. Listen when you only want to speak and give advice. Listen and thank the other person for sharing.

9. Help others.

Help someone who doesn't help you. Help others when you don't have the time. Help someone who can't pay you back. Help someone when you are the one needing help. Learn to be of service. That's why we're here.

10. Love.

Turn the other cheek. Overlook annoyances. Be kind to each other. Be truthful. Accept differences. Love is a verb. Spend time together. Act like a loving person. You can love difficult people as well. Forgive them and wish them the best. Let them go with love.

11. Practice gratitude. Count your blessings. Tell the people in your life "thank you." Be grateful for the people you love and for the people who love you.

12. Choose to be happy.

Make a decision that you will think happy thoughts, speak kind words, and spend time doing things that bring you joy. Have a good attitude. See the glass half full. Look at the bright side. Expect the best. Choose to focus on what's good. 

13. Learn from your mistakes.

Reflect on what went wrong and what you could have done better. Look for your lesson. Choose to grow forward. Be gentle with yourself. Make a new plan. Try again. Refuse to give up.

14. Relax.

In our intense and fast-paced world, it's easy to feel like you're missing out or being left behind. You do too much, work too much and miss the joy of everyday living. It's bold to step back, take a break and relax. 

15. Follow your dreams.

Take action daily toward your goals. Ask for help. Network. Research. Plan. Take more action. Adjust your plans as you go along. Be open to something even better. Never give up. Adjust. Push on.

16. Enjoy the small things.

Take time to revel in a flower blooming, the taste of a glass of cold water, the different shades of green, a child's smile or an elderly person's worn hands. Enjoy the smell of clean clothes and the taste of a fresh slice of bread. Enjoy a brisk walk, a quiet morning, or a star filled night. 

17. Go the extra mile.

Allow someone to go in front of you in traffic or at the grocery store. Do more than what is required of you at work and at home. Hold a door open. Surprise someone. Don't keep score. Leave a big tip and help someone believe the world is a generous place. 

18. Ask for help. When you are stuck, addicted or unhappy, seek professional help. Hire a coach, a therapist or join a support group. When you are overwhelmed at work, ask for assistance. When you don't understand something, ask for an explanation.

19. Put family and friends before stuff. If you value your loved ones, make them a priority in your life. Work less and play more. Laugh. Create traditions and rituals. Find hobbies and activities that everyone enjoys. Have fun. Experiences bring more meaning than needless shopping.

20. Love Yourself. Accept your imperfections. Be your own best friend. Show yourself compassion, understanding and respect. This is the most courageous act of all.
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Chisomifedilimuo
Days After Welcoming David Umahi To Aso Rock, See Who Buhari Met Today That Got People Talking.
~1.5 mins read
The present government has had lots of critics. The present administration led by General Muhammadu Buhari has been in the mouth of lots of people. However the government can actually boast of some schemes which has really benefited lots of Nigerians. Example of those schemes are trader money, N power and the survival fund which people just benefited from few days ago.
In the political world, there's a defection that is really on people's mouth right now. The governor of Ebonyi State David Umahi defected from the People's Democratic Party (PDP) to the All Progressive Congress (APC) and he has been blasted by lots of people.
According to Buhari's media aide Bashir Ahmed, he posted a northern traditional ruler Emir of Bichi, Alhaji (Dr) Nasir Ado Bayero who met the President in the state house, Abuja. Furthermore, days after welcoming David Umahi to the Aso Rock, the president has welcomed Northern traditional minister to the Aso Rock today and it got people talking.
Let's not forget that the banditry in the north is really at a high peak and I believe that would be one key topic they would discuss. Let's see some reactions from people
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