Love often wears off, and both couples, especially the men only feel bounded to their wives because she is the mother of his children. I'm sure you don't need me to remind you that this shouldn't be so. Love should last!

The inability for some married men to find solace or romance in the arms of their wives have made them resorts to extramarital affairs.

 

1. One of the main reasons why married men keep girlfriends is because how most of them always eventually find their wives less attractive. After years of marriage and, the hustle and bustle of child birth, their wives, especially the one that are not disciplined enough to look and take good care of their body, by minding what they eat and exercising often, usually tend to look unattractive. Some even some times look older than their husbands.

As a married woman taking your time to look very attractive for your husband should be top priority. Else you might just have to share him with a sexier lady.

2. Some married men don't have intention to keep girlfriends or cheat on their wives. But their friends persuade them into doing it. Evil communications they say corrupt good manners. As a wife, it is very important to watch the company your husband keeps. Advise him to stay away from men who womanize. Else he might get initiated. 

3. Some wives are so career minded that they forget their duties to their husbands. Having a good career is good, being successful is great! But you cannot abandon the sexual needs of your husband and get away with it. Not when a lot of ladies out there are looking for men to cling to, whether married or not. There are ways you can balance all duties. Having a successful marriage also counts.

4. The ability to have self control, or restrain one self from doing somethings that are not so right eludes some men. It only takes the grace of God for chronic womaniziers who eventually venture into marriage not to keep girlfriends. It's a life style that's hard to quit. These sets if men have a way if landing themselves good and obedient wives whom they usually put through hell. This is why as a young lady, it's very important for you to meticulously assess your suitors and pick the most suitable one.