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@solaadio; Lol! There is no advice here.
Marriage to her is just a poverty alleviation program (PAP).

The dangerous thing about marrying this kind of women is that they will drop you like it's hot for a richer man or when they have siphoned enough money from you. She needs to know God first.

@Oluomoofderby; One of the biggest decisions we're all going to make in our lives is choosing the person we marry.

No situation is permanent in life and your 40+ man can get broke as well.

Are you going to divorce him once he goes broke?

Aunty you don't love your man but you love money.

@Adonisee; Have the 28+ discussed marriage with you? Are you in his plans for the future?

@Nairalander your contribution is important.

If yes , then respectfully decline 40+ offer since you love your man.