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See What A Bricklayer Wife Did To Her Husband (Video)
~1.7 mins read
When I watched this video this morning, tears ran down my eyes. It is extremely emotional. This construction worker comes back home, exhausted after a whole day at work and meets this surprise put together by his wife and kids. He is a construction worker and his job may seem mean and makes him look dirty, but to his wife and kids, he is the best man on earth. Your superhero may be the richest man on earth or the man who walked on fire. That does not mean he is better than my cleaner superhero. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TlH_-loxFr8 Be careful how you treat people. Everyone has someone looking up to them. That guard, that gardener, that driver, that trash guy, that mechanic, that man who does the meanest of jobs is someone’s hero. When you disrespect them or treat them badly just because you pay them or you think you are better than them remember that he too is another woman’s husband. He too has kids that look up to him. How will you feel if someone treated your father in that manner? How will you feel if someone disrespected your husband? How will you feel if someone treated you the same way you treat him? The lady who cleans your home, takes care of your baby, sells by the roadside, serves in the restaurant etc. is someone’s wife and mother. She means the world to someone and deserves to be respected. How will you feel if someone treated your mother the way you treat her? How will you feel if someone spoke to your wife the way you speak to her? How will you feel if someone disrespected you the same way you disrespect her? The same respect you want to be accorded is the same respect you should give to others. Do not respect people based on their social status. Respect them because they are humans. Just because life offered you a smile does not mean you are better off than other humans. |
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7 Things You Should Never Say To Your Child As A Parent
~3.7 mins read
Being older requires responsibility, even when it comes to word choice. Unintentional phrases can change a child's worldview or cause him to develop bad morals.
Here are phrases that negatively impact the mental development of children and changed them for the better.
7. "You need to listen to adults."
When the child hears this, he thinks, "All adults are sensible and good. I must do as they say." This phrase is dangerous because the child begins to trust all adults, including strangers, and expects nothing bad from them.
The correct phrase: "You must listen to your parents." It helps the child to develop critical thinking and a healthy distrust of strangers.
6. "Stop crying."
When the child hears this, he thinks: 'It's bad to show emotion. I'm just being scolded for tears. ' He might be quiet and withdrawn. Latent emotions will sooner or later manifest themselves in aggression or tears.
The correct phrase: "Tell me what's bothering you." "Why are you crying?" If the baby falls or gets bruised, try "Are you crying because it hurts, or are you scared?" This will provoke a conversation that will help the child identify their feelings.
5. "Do not be greedy!"
When the child hears this, he thinks, 'I have to share everything. There is nothing that is mine. ' Over time, these thoughts will develop in the victim's behavior. He does not protect his own values ​​and possessions and thinks he is not worthy of them.
The correct phrase: "Do you want to let this boy play with your toys a little?" "Would you like to exchange toys for a while?" Give your child the opportunity to control their own things. Do not insist if he does not want to share.
4. "Who taught you that?" (about an evil)
When the child hears this, he thinks, "My parents do not know that I came up with this." Such a child would think that he could go unpunished after expressing the blame on others.
The correct phrase: "Why did you do that?" This will help you find out if the child did it themselves or after someone's encouragement. Give him the opportunity to explain his actions.
3. "Look at this sweet girl."
When the child hears it, he thinks, "I'm worse than others. It makes no sense to try something. It does not work." By comparing him to others, it affects the self - esteem of the child and makes him believe that he will never achieve anything.
The correct phrase: "I love you. You can do that too." Point out your child's abilities and show that you believe in him. Remember, your child is unique and has his own talents.
2. "We talk at home."
When the child hears this, he thinks, "My parents can hurt me. They do not like me. I do not want to go home." The parents are no longer loving but threatening and the home becomes a place where the child expects punishment.
The correct phrase: "Let me tell you what bothered me." When the child hears your point of view, he learns to consider your emotions when considering his future actions.
1. "You're too young to think about it."
When the child hears this, he thinks, "I want to know. I want to ask someone else!" If your child asks you unpleasant questions but does not receive information, he will receive it from other sources - much less competent.
The correct sentence: "I am not ready to answer now. I need time." Do not fire the child. Try to answer it when he asks you a question. This way you will remain an authority in his eyes and not lose his trust.
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Marriage Lesson
~1.8 mins read
RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE LESSON.!!!
DEAR QUEENS,
Not every man who approaches you is actually ready for a serious relationship leading to marriage. Many are only seeking for fornication partners to keep them busy till their life partners turn up. Don't let societal pressure push you into scam relationships.
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DEAR KINGS,
Not every woman you meet is actually ready for a lasting relationship. Some only just need a financial bailout. Don't let your loose hips lead you into something that will sink you.
Now let me advice you Nobody is going to marry you because you spend your money on them
Nobody is going to marry you because you did abortion for them
Nobody is going to marry because you dated for 10 years or more.
Nobody is going to marry you because he took your virginity.
People will only marry you because the genuinely love you.
Because you impact their lives positively, outside money.
They will marry you because you are a great additional value to them.
Because you people are compatible.
Relationship breakups are not a bad thing.
No need of raining curses and abuse on anyone that breaks up with you..learn and move on.
If you like, go and be doing abortion up to and down for a man,
Give your kidney.
plug your eyes out
Spend all your life saving
That won't make any woman or man marry you
Did anybody force you under gunpoint to spend money or abortion?
Relationship is not a business where you expect to get a return of investment.
As yea all is going into relationship go with your brain and not only your heart...
And if you are not ready to use your brain and heart at the same time, better tell your heart to stop the love thing and maintain its original function which is to pump blood till you are ready.
Finally Ladies listen, men don't marry because of beauty, you can date a guy for ages and give him sex each and everyday but when it comes to marriage, men look beyond sex, boobs, big ass and beauty. Your charisma will send you far but your character will bring you back.
So the question is, do you ve what it take to keep him under your command, everything have a price to pay.
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