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A marrige is no child's play it requires a lot of sacrifices for things to be smooth but majority of African man don't like giving their all to make their marriages blossom. They just being the head of the house. They always want to be in control and dishing out commands without considering the feelings if their wives thus provoking them to do regrettable things like cheating.

While it's common for married men to cheat and boast about it, many people don't ever imagine a married woman cheating. But the truth is that even the most innocent looking wife can cheat if her husband keeps doing these annoying things.

Loneliness have pushed many married women into the arms of another man. Dear man, making money is important but never make your wife feel lonely. Loneliness kills a relationship.

Marriage is not all about providing accommodation, food and expensive things for your wife then abandoning her for months all in the name of a business trip. By the time your wife meet a stranger online or bump into a long time friend that showers her with attention, She may fall and before she knows it, she is cheating on you.

Married men please don't starve your wife with loneliness or else another man will feed her with attention.

Abuse can occur verbally, mentally, and psychologically.It is not just the physical version, also known as "domestic violence. You might be the most gentleman on earth who doesn't hit his wife but she can cheat on you if you abuse her verbally or emotionally.

Using terrible words like "Good for nothing" , "Fat Fool " at the slightest provocation kills your wife self esteem and makes her cry silently. By the time she comes on the social media and some men shower her with sweet words, compliment and care, she might be tempted to explore something with this new person who makes her feel so good.

How does your bedroom engine look like? Bushy or neat? Many men think the shaving stick is only meant for women to be clean down there. Many women complian about their husbands bedroom engine and how much hairy and dirty it looks like.

Sometimes the hair down there would change from black to gray due to bad hygiene. This dirty habit can prompt your wife to hunt for fresher blood.

If you are not being intimate with your wife at home, don’t be surprised if she goes looking for it somewhere else. When your wife feels you no longer want her sexually, she may feel deprived and uncared for, causing her to cheat.

Many women tend to cheat on their husband in the name of revenge. Your wife can cheat because she wants to get back at you who might have cheated. She loves you but she is cheating on you to prove that she is still desirable.

Women what would you do if you found out your husband is cheating? Will you revenge by cheating on him?

I'm sorry to bother you all this early morning with this my story.

Apologies for any blunders spotted, and sorry for the lengthy post.

I have a niece who unfortunately the mother died when she was barely a month old, and her mother was my only sibling as my mother gave birth to two of us, remaining only me now. Her death was really painful to us, but i thank God for consoling us especially my mother.

During her pregnancy, she never made mentioned of the person responsible for her pregnancy inspite of my mother's threat. When the inevitable happened we had no other option than to adopt the child. We were praying earnestly that the child survive, glory to God she did survive though it wasn't easy, as at now she's 14years old and currently in SSS1.

Last week my mum called me that my niece says she's coming to Uyo were i am staying to stay with me since there's no school for now, which i obliged to it immediately. Prior before this call, my girlfriend whom i intended to marry was staying with me. I informed her immediately that my niece is coming to stay with us for a short period of time, immediately i told her this, her countenance change through out that day. I keep on asking her what the matter was but she keep on saying nothing.

Monday last weekmy niece arrived my place.

My dears ever since my niece set her foot in my house, this girlfriend of mine whom i intended to marry turned to something else. She stop cooking, washing and sweeping, all she does is to ordered my niece around as her house help. I was so hurt seeing this that i confronted her thinking that she will change, but she went from bad to worst.

Yesterday morning i overheard her telling my niece to wash the toilet and mop the floor before thinking of eating. My niece replied that she's too tired that she won't be able to do it(I was actually happy inside when i hear this)

What follows next was a sounding knocked she gave to my niece and the poor girl screamed and started crying.

Truth be said, i was so furious that came out of the room. I didn't asked her anything i just told her your cup is full today. I dealt with her seriously. The beating i gave to her was out of this world, that she was bleeding, though later in the day i took her to a nearby clinic for treatment.

I have learnt alot this few days. Men should be careful of the type of women they intend to settle down with.

As some of them will manipulate you that you start hating your family members or stop them from coming to your house for no reasons if you're not strong.

I want her to get well after that i will put an end to the relationship, all marriage plan cancel, and no going back and no regret.

Imagine if I've gone ahead to marry her. Is this how she will be maltreating my niece? obviously i will forever leave in regrets.

If you ask me if i feel sorry for beating her, truth is, there's no atom of regret in me, and i will never feel sorry for her. If she has the mind to maltreat a poor girl whose mother is late, she's capable of anything.

In the photos shared by a man identified as Gyan Formula, who is said to be the son of the groom, the groom and bride were seen dressed in beautiful kente and dancing to Wendy Shay’s Akokora Gangster.

The Old/Young couple was surrounded by a group of other people who had come to witness their union.

According to Gyan, the two have been together for about 12 years and have four children with the eldest being 11 years old.