*The brutal truth about life after marriage* 

Many people will advise you to get married, but no one will tell you the brutal truth after marriage.

1. It's very sweet to just get married, but the endless housework and daily chores are cruel.

2. After marriage, there will be no freedom. You can't go out drinking and dancing with good friends and heterosexual friends just like when you are single.

3. With common property, if your spouse is not generous, you will be in financial distress. Whatever you buy, you should consider your spouse's thoughts.

4. During pregnancy is actually very hard, your body will become fat, no longer slim and light, the body shape will change a lot.

5. After the baby is born, you have to take up the responsibility of raising the child. Most of the time, you are happy to have a child. This is the angel sent to us by God. But you have to admit that you will be imprisoned at home by the child. Although you are very tired, the cry of the child will break your heart.

When he grows up, you will continue to worry about his study, growth, love and so on. When you can finally breathe a sigh of relief, your life will soon be over.

6. It's not all sweet between you and your spouse, and there's going to be arguments. Now, if there's domestic violence, listen, honey, you can't forgive it.

7. Maybe your position in your partner's heart is not so important, after all, his life has his own work, interests, games.

8. After marriage, you should pay attention to whether your spouse is tired of yourself in life and go to a third party. How many failed marriages are due to the disappearance of love between each other.

9. But the cruelest thing after marriage should be that two people love each other for a lifetime. The one we are used to and the one we depend on deeply have to leave us because of force majeure.

The only thing left for the living is loss, loneliness, helplessness and regret.

But even if there are more cruel truth, love and marriage will still be the beautiful things we are willing to pursue in our life.

*DON'T WAIT......TREAT YOUR SPOUSE RIGHTLY*

1. Don't wait until your spouse is sick, for you to serve him/her

2. Don't wait until your wife is pregnant, for you to help her in the home 

3. Don't wait until your husband is rich, for you to appreciate his contribution 

4. Don't wait until you are caught, for you to stop having an affair 

5. Don't wait until your spouse serves you divorce papers, for you to start fighting for your marriage 

6. Don't wait for you to lose your spouse, for you to start valuing your spouse

7. Don't wait for others to praise your spouse, for you to notice how amazing your spouse is 

8. Don't wait to have an accident, for you to start listening to your spouse's warning about driving while drunk 

9. Don't wait until you get into a huge mess, for you to finally seek for advice and help from your spouse 

10. Don't wait for your parents and spouse's parents to sit you down and lecture you, for you to start taking your marriage seriously 

11. Don't wait until someone else starts to give your spouse attention, for you to start treating your spouse special 

12. Don't wait for the pastor to preach hundreds of sermons of rebuke, for you to love your spouse right 

13. Don't wait until your children move out as adults, for you to remember your spouse 

14. Don't wait until the people you are having an affair with dump you, for you to go back to your spouse 

15. Don't wait for your spouse to die, for you to wish he/she was still alive for you to love better 

16. Don't wait till it's too late, to be the best spouse 

Choose to love from your personal and internal conviction, not due to external pressure

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