How much money do we need before we get into relationships? 

I will say “just enough”. Just enough to deal with “immediate” worries. Just enough to meet your needs. Just enough to meet the needs of the one you hold dear. Just enough.

When people say the reason they are single is that they don’t have enough money, I am tempted to ask “what is enough money?” Can money be “enough?”. As our finance grows, so does our needs increase. I don’t think there’s “enough” money out there for one to be satisfied with before he/she gets into a relationship. For when you get that money, you’ll want more. 

When money becomes the unit for measuring affection, then I think there’s a problem. Finance though very important should not be the SI unit for love. Things like compassion, trust, honesty should be the bedrock of relationships and money, an addition.

Everyone needs finance, life itself needs finance. Finance is an integral part of our lives, but should it define what we do with our emotions? Should we let the lack of adequate finance cage our ability to love and be loved? Should a man who hangs on a bus screaming Oshodi from morning till night not experience the warmth of love because he’s not controlling money like Adenuga? Should a lady who sells popcorn by the walk-over bridge at Iyana Oworo not laugh at her partner’s jokes because her account does not read 6 figures at the end of the month?

Everyone has his/her own level of romance. Lounging in Santorini is someone’s reality. Talking deep into the night in a one-bedroom apartment is another person’s reality. The value is the same depending on how you want to look at it, the feeling just the same, only the finance varies. With human beings, our feelings of pain, love, disgust, anger, resentment, happiness or comfort are the same though our financial levels might vary. 

I think we should give people the liberty to feel their feelings and not imprison their feelings because they do not have the finance to express their feelings. If we are waiting to have enough money, when will we have enough? When will we rest and feel our feelings? Do we really have it all? At what point in our lives do we love and be loved? Will we chase money intending to have it so we can love?

There is love for everyone, plenty of money or just enough money.

Painful Exit: The Story Of The Boy Who Shot Himself After Been Falsely Accused Of Rape 

1. His full name is Izuchukwu Madubueze  was the victim of a self-inflicted gunshot wound on July 16, 2020,”

2. He Lives in Tampa Florida and he is a well known enterpreneur and fashion designer as you can see in his picture. 

3. Trouble started when he came online to see that a Nigerian girl in twitter has added his name to a list of people who tried to rape her for no just cause! 

4. Izu Reached out to the girl in many efforts to get her to take down his name but she refused. According to izu friends Izu turned the girl down weeks ago so this might be her way of getting back at him. 

5 . Izu did a long video with a sucide note where he tried to explain to the world that he was innocent. The video is available online. Go watch it 

6. Many people reached out to him privately but were afraid to speak out for him. They were afraid of getting dragged online by angry feminsist so they all kept mute even when they knew he was innocent. 

7. Izu was found dead on the 16th of july where he apparently shot himself. His family are inconsolable about the loss of their son. 

8; izuchukwu happens to be the sensitive type of humans who are very emotional and so therefore he couldnt cope with the burning pain of being falsely accussed. 

9. RAPE is a very serious Crime, It deserves all the attention it gets. Our society should do more to end rape, 

10. But then , Do you agree with me that False Rape Accusers should also Go to Jail! ?