Most guys think it takes a lot of work to woo a lady and many relationship sites do not help matters by making guys believe it’s rocket science. But this belief isn’t true and most times you really don’t need the big things…it’s simply the little things you do for her that matters.

1. Care. A lot. And Show It:
If you want to win a woman over, especially if it’s early in the game, you need to show that you care, deeply, about her health and welfare. “Before my husband and I started dating, when we were just, well, sleeping together, I somehow ended up telling him that I had to go to the doctor to have a biopsy done on my cervix because they were concerned I had terrible lady-cancer. He got off the night shift, stayed up until I had to go to the hospital, and then drove me to his place where he set me up on his couch with his pajamas, his bathrobe, a bowl of my favorite cereal, and Lord of the Rings extended editions. Then he went to work, and brought me ice cream when he came home. He stayed awake for 36 hours to make sure I was okay and had everything I needed, and completely pampered me while I recovered. Before we were dating,” says Colleen, 29. “When I was out once with a guy I was seeing named Mike, a random man was bothering my friend Lindsey. Mike stepped in and said “Excuse me sir, she doesn’t want you touching her or bothering her so please leave her alone.” I thought it was cute that he stood up for not me, but my friend. Also this guy was a lot bigger than Mike — and very drunk,” says MS, 26. “We were dating, I fell off a set of stairs and broke my leg. We weren’t anything official yet he took time off work to come and take care of me. What guy does that? He won me over, realized he was a keeper,” says Ruthie, Facebook..

2. Don’t Be Afraid To Be Quirky:
Women like men who don’t exactly conform to the ma$$es. Being cool is great, but if there isn’t some strangeness in there, then it’s kinda “meh.” It’s important to let your quirk shine. “Last Christmas, my boyfriend’s gift to me consisted of multiple components, one of them was a harmonica. I was thinking (and actually said out loud), ‘…the f*ck’” to which he responded, ‘Get it? A harmonica for Monika!’ It was pretty endearing,” says Monika, 26. “The guy I was casually seeing, who lived out of town at the time, flew in as a surprise and had someone deliver a hilarious ransom note to me while I was at work. The ransom note was from my beloved stuffed animal frog, Lawn. I spent my whole shift hoping it was he who had done this. It was, and he won my heart with that… then broke it very similarly years later,” says Dana, 33.

3.Pretend To Be Someone Else:
While being yourself is always recommended, it’s OK to stray from that if it means getting someone’s attention. “I got asked out while riding a bicycle once which was super awesome. He had to get my attention by pretending to be a bike cop wanting to give me a ticket for not wearing a helmet, which, for Berkeley at that time, was not uncommon. I thought it was so clever so I went on a date with him,” says Cortney, 30-something.

4. Sacrifice Your “Manliness”:
I think we can all agree that any man who can show his sensitive side is the kinda guy a lot of women will go crazy for. So, why not really push the limits? “I had to practice some make-up techniques, and he let me use his face as a canvas. At that point, I was like ‘yeah, I’m totally into this guy for playing along,’” says Amber, 25

5. Fake The Same Interests:
Sometimes you’ll find yourself sitting across from someone whose interests vary from yours. There’s nothing wrong with pretending you’re interested in something … even if you have no clue what it is. “On our first date, Scot asked me what kind of music I liked. I told him I was into indie music, as in the independent music scene. He said he was too, although he couldn’t name a favorite band because he ‘loved them all.’ Several months later he admitted that he had no idea what indie music was and a$$umed it was from India. It was adorable. To this day, he still says he listens to indie music, although he knows what it is now and actually doesn’t,” says Jennifer, 34.

6. Play Hard To Get:
It’s true that sometimes we really do want what we can’t have, (but hey, so do you) and it’s only when we don’t have something or lose it, that we realize we need it. “It’s like every story you’ve ever heard: he wanted me, I wasn’t interested so he moved on, so of course I wanted him after that. Turned out his new girlfriend was made-up and just a technique to serve the exact purpose it did. We’ve been together for almost five years,” says Elizabeth, 28. “After a long, flirtatious conversation, a guy I liked left the party without asking for my number. It made him seem mysterious and desirable. The next time I saw him out I was determined to talk to him again. We ended up dating soon after that,” says Stephanie, 26. As you can see, there really is no strict formula to getting a girlfriend. It just takes being yourself, but not being yourself, a couple of white lies, some caring and the occasional ransom note.

A woman tends to be more demanding in a thousand spheres. Despite being outrightly demanding, she also features natural ways of being deliberately vague when making demands or asking for something. So since you are considering how to get what you want from a woman, let’s look at some possible solutions.

On the other hand, we have the man; a different being.

A woman could embody that which a man so desires, but he is unable to go for it! This, therefore, indicates a problem; the problem of a man getting what he wants from a woman.

If your mental stance on this issue subscribes to the belief that men’s attitude is natural, you need to be revamped. Again, if you’re seriously in this school of thought, don’t subscribe to it anymore because the society is the body influencing you.

STEPS TO GET WHAT YOU WANT FROM A WOMAN

Let’s assess it chronologically so that you may undoubtedly understand well-enough, how to get what you want from a woman despite how the society made you.

1. IDENTIFYING HER WEAKNESS

As men, we make our weaknesses very obvious, but our women, they’re very irregular beings and unpredictable.

Do you know the best way to identify the blueprint on a woman’s mind? Her friends! Do you want me to scream this again? I love being very natural people; I mean, I like to expose realities. The best way to decipher a difficult woman is through her friends.

I feel you have to know this because sometimes, the woman you want to get something from maybe one of the dreadfully difficult women. Some women are very vulnerable, knowing a thing or two about them becomes easy, but most others aren’t. You may consider going through a woman’s friend, even if she’s your spouse to know her even more.

2. BASE YOUR CONFIDENCE ON HER WEAKNESS

On knowing what form she is, let your confidence grow substantially from whatever her weakness may be. For instance, some women love fine-faced men. Any fine-faced man they come across causes a kind of butterfly in their tummy. I don’t know this expression to the fullest, but it is something like this that women often say when they see a man that damns them.

If she loves sport, be a sportsman.

Is it humility that downs her? Then build on it!

There is no basis to this; it could be anything that seems like a loophole in her life.

3. INITIATE A DISCUSSION

Engage the woman in a very intense talk from time to time. You may not even require more than a one time talking with her.

While in discussion with the woman, be sure that you;

Constantly make eye contacts.

Engineer the conversation.

Don’t bore her (your girlfriend, spouse, stranger, neighbor. name it).

4. DRIVE HER MIND TOWARDS THE SUBJECT

One of the pathways on how to get what you want from a woman is to allow her to decipher what you’re up to. Since you want something from her, especially severe needs like her trust or the stuff of this kind, it is best to drive her mind towards the subject. Don’t be obscure in the conversation. Be understandable, focused, and straight to the course.

Let’s say it’s money you need, convincingly talk towards the direction of money. You know, women love all you love and even more than you. You don’t want to mess up any bit or end up missing out and arriving on the wrong end of her decision; when she says ‘no.’

 

5. BE SUBJECT-EMPHATIC

Already, she understands the reason where you’re headed. She’s human, of course, with a very high thinking faculty. Or, do you gestate she won’t be aware? Even after a line or two from you, she already understands what’s up. All she requires, just like you would expect is how well she can be convinced into giving in.

Being subject-emphatic helps to retain the course of flow. Once, I eavesdropped on my best friend trying to sway a girl. I felt like taking the drugs for his illness because he was blowing hot and cold.

The plan was to win her into joining us into an indoor party. Who knows, had he won, he could have had a sweet cuddle with her after that. My best friend failed; he wasn’t subject-emphatic after clearly putting out his reasons for being there. I think he was shy.

Don’t be another of my best friend, don’t hover in the conversation either.

6. QUESTION HER SERIALLY

Still, on how to get what you want from a woman, questioning is usually very effective. If you question her, you’ll better understand her, and when you better understand her, you may win flawlessly.

I’m already thinking of what to get from a random woman after rereading all of this.

Questioning a woman as a mean on how to get what you want from a woman awakens a burning desire in her. How? Every question you ask makes her want to have another from you. She does not want you to keep any of the items from her; she’s desirous of all the things in.

7. LOSE THE NUT

If you don’t loosen the nut, she’ll have nothing to a sleepover with. That woman will only keep replaying the conversation and will not be forced to think deeper because she hasn’t what to ponder over. When she’s able to confirm her content of cognition, her thoughts, she’ll, first of all, applaud your confidence. At this point, a thousand lot is sauntering her mind; she’ll be like, “Wow, I wasn’t expecting him to say it!” She’ll further add, “Well, since he did, it’s my turn to play hard to win over.”

Have you ever gotten what you wanted from a woman? Let me hear your thoughts in the comment section.