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5 Things Ladies Hates In Men
~5.7 mins read
Every man at least once in his lifetime has tried to know the things women dislike in men. If you want to know what kind of behavior turns women off and how to avoid a breakup with them, you’re quite lucky as today we will reveal:
5 things women dislike in men
Avoid these things and you will have her fall in love with you like no other. Thank us later for these solid relationship tips. There you go!
1. Empty promises
If a man makes empty promises and raises false hopes, it can push a woman away .Promising things you can’t do does not only reduce trust, it destroys respect for you. Long-lasting feelings depend on trust and respect.
Women want someone they can rely on. If you can’t keep your word, they can’t trust you! It’s simple.
Don’t make promises if you’re not sure that you can keep them.
I’ll do my best – this is the correct answer, which implies “I don’t promise to do it, but I’ll do what I can”.
Don’t talk. Act. Don’t say. Show. Don’t promise. Prove. It is your best interest to remember this.
2. Excessive Jealousy
Women like it when a man shows healthy jealousy. She’ll feel important. But when jealousy takes control, the result will be rejection. Jealousy has no bearing on love.
On the foundation of love, there is a conscious preference for loyalty and responsibility for your chosen one.
The basis of jealousy is the fear of losing what you love. Usually, this feeling comes from a lack of confidence in yourself and your relationship.
Constant outbursts of jealousy only mess up love and turn your relationship into suffering and distrust. It can lead to a breakup.
If you want to stay together, learn to trust your woman and work on your self-esteem. In men, we feel a man’s power and confidence, and this is what we find particularly attractive.
When I say power, it doesn’t mean you need to rule the world. Your power comes from being in harmony with yourself. It will bring balance into your love life.
3. Lack of attention
Women forgive mistakes. The man’s indifference and his lack of attention don’t count as mistakes. We consider them a crime.
The woman changed her hairstyle. Maybe she changed the color. She is wearing a new dress. If you fail to notice these, for a woman, it feels like as it feels for you when you repair something with your hands, and she doesn’t see it.
The secret desire of a woman is always to be attractive to her man!
We long for your attention, admiration, and care. It is essential for us to know, feel, and understand that we are loved and desired.
In the absence of attention, women begin to look for it elsewhere.
Show your attention to her affairs, to her moods, what she thinks, what she dreams, what are her experiences.
Compliment her. Talk to her about your feelings.
Learn to show your interest in her talks even if it seems chatter to you at times. When she has your attention, she will provide you with her affection and love.
4. Indecision
Indecision may cause disappointment, failure, lost opportunities.
When a man can’t decide on the expression of feelings, his actions, or when he has no opinion, he will look insecure and dependent in the eyes of the women.
We love confident men who define priorities, formulate thoughts, and act. These traits make a man attractive to a woman. Do you want to know the reason? If you are decisive, she feels safe with you.
I want you to be that man for her.
Think positive, trust yourself, face the obstacles that life throws serene without panic, seek the things that you love, act, learn and grow.
And what if you feel scared?
Nothing. It’s not about never being afraid. Do you remember the Cowardly Lion from the Wizard of Oz? He asked Oz to remove his fear. He didn’t understand that he was already the bravest member of the story.
Being confident doesn’t mean you are never afraid or you never feel that you make difficult decisions. It’s the opposite. It means you make the decision even when it’s difficult. If all decisions were easy, there would be no confidence in making them. See?
Choice and responsibility nourish your relationship. It is a choice – to be or not to be. And if it is to be, it’s also a choice, how.

5. Stinginess
Don’t be stingy. Buy her gifts and shower her with affection. Take her out to nice places. We’re not saying that you should spend all your money on her but creating new experiences and giving her nice things are the grease that keeps the relationship going.
Good luck!
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6 Things To Consider Before Going In A Relationship
~5.4 mins read
Being in a new relationship is very dounting as there are so many things that one has to take into consideration. It is easy to fall head over heels in love with your new partner and loose ones sane and rational mind.
It is true that when a person is in love it is as if they have been intoxicated with substances. Before agreeing to the new relationship ask yourself these hard questions about your partner. Have a self introspection and do not hold anything back. Be frank and honest with yourself to these following questions.
Ask yourself these questions when starting a new relationship.

1. Does your partner love you like you do.

It is easy to be in love alone and the feelings are not reciprocated. Be with a partner whom you know that they love you dearly just like how you love them. Do not find your self in a situation whereby your love is unrequited, you are dating the owner of the relationship. One way to see if your partner loves you the way that you love him is check how they treat you. Are they making you a priority in their lives and making concerted efforts to make time for you guys.

2. Will your partner motivate, inspire, encourage, support, help you in all areas of life?

When choosing a life partner make sure to choose some one who has your best interests at heart. Someone who will be your top cheer leader and tell you if you are on a wrong path. They will be an all rounder that will awaken the sleeping giant in one area of your life.Will your partner add value to your life? Likewise the same measure or standard that you are using you should measure it against yourself as well.

3. Will your partner be there when you are terminally ill.

One needs to think about the future as many unpredictable things can happen. You should know if your partner can assist you when you are vulnerable, when you loose your job. Do not be with someone who loves you based on what they see currently.
Be long term thinking, that should you pass on your children are in safe hands with your partner. They will receive the best care, love and support from your partner.

4. Will your partner be there through your failures, downfalls, struggles, mistakes and life's challenges?

Choose someone who will give you unwavering support throughout all the trials of life. Someone who will weather the toughest storms with you and not disappoint you. When thinking about such this will a deciding factor if you want to have children with this person.Will he be there for me emotionally, physically, spiritually, mentally and financially.

5. Will your partner still love you the same way if you become disabled?

No one wishes to be born disabled to to be disabled in life. Significant life tragedies can turn ones world within a blink of an eye. When deciding if you and your partner are compatible you can test the waters in a jokingly fashion by asking him or her if they would still be with you should you loose all your teeth? Their response will shed some light if looks of paramount importance to you guys. Ask yourself if your partner will your pray for you everyday?

6. Check if your partner is physically, emotionally, mentally and financially abusive.

Do not under no circumstances subject yourself to any form of abuse. Equally do not be a perpetrator of abuse of an instigator of abuse. Avoid being involved with people who see nothing wrong in hurting others. Red flags will be there, make sure you will not regret the decision of being with your partner. A relationship is supposed to be enjoyed not to be endured.
In this day and age it is becoming challenging to have a partner who genuinely love you for who you are and not for what you have. When starting a relationship never ever make intimacy your first priority on the list. We found intimacy here in this world and we will leave it here. There are more better things than sex you need to look at. 
In sum pray for the spirit of discernment so that you can know if your partner is the right one for you or not. Other people can be the greatest pretenders, have eyes that can pierce through the veil and see the character of your partner.

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