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WHY I HATE MEN

~4.4 mins read

"Why did you do it? How could you think of killing your dad?"

"I mean, you walked up to a store and asked for a substance that could be harmful to one's life?" She asked.

My name is Maria, I am 22 years old.

I am a graduate of the prestigious University of Nigeria Nsukka(UNN).

I lived the last 10 years of my life in misery.

Every day I would ask myself 'Is this life?'.

I slept in pain, woke up in pain and spent every hour of the day in pain.

I never anticipated the dawn of a new day.

I found solace only in my sleep and always wished I could sleep forever.

People were scared of death, but I was ready to embrace it.

Growing up, I lived with my dad and siblings.

I was the second of three children- two girls and one boy.

My parents were divorced and so it could be said I was from a broken home.

We were cut off from communication with our mum.

I wonder how much more nature could be unfair to me.

I was once a happy child until I was 12 years old.

My joy as a child was cut short the night this monster laid his filthy hands on me.

It was about 3 am and I could hear footsteps approaching my room.

My first thought was a ghost. I had read and heard a lot about them.

I brought my sister up to my bosom and held onto her tightly.

She was fast asleep and had no idea what was going on.

I could hear the door open gently. Quickly, I pretended to be fast asleep.

I felt a tap, 'shhhuuuushh' he said trying to silence me.

The voice was familiar. I looked up and behold it was my father.

I felt relieved but wondered why he had snuck into the room.

He held my hand and asked me to walk gently so I didn't make any sound.

He led me to his room. I could see him turn the door knob and it was locked.

He came to the bed, lifted my dress and rubbed the surface of my genitalia.

"Sweet" he muttered, wearing a face of excitement.

He put his hand into my genitalia and I felt a sharp pain.

'Ahhhhhh' I screamed in pain.

He covered my mouth with his hands so no one heard my voice.

He forcefully stole my virginity. He raped me!

I was humiliated. I cried but he threatened to kill me if anyone ever found out.

This went on every day for 10 years and I lived in this pain because I was scared.

Every time school closes, he would send my siblings on holiday to my cousin's house.

He always kept me back with the guise that I was wayward and needed to be kept under watch.

I wondered when this would come to an end.

He also warned me against other male gender. He didn't even want them as friends.

I already hated men and so it was very easy to stay away from them.

I got pregnant at 16 and he asked me to terminate it.

On one hand, I didn't want to. On second thought, I had to.

I knew the pain seeing the child would bring me so I had to take it out.

I didn't mind losing my life in the process.

The termination was successful. He decided to let me be.

The pain of the past nights haunted me. Sometimes I would hear the cry of a baby.

I thought it had ended but my brother rekindled the pain.

I kept blaming myself because I was beautiful with attractive physical features.

But could it be it?

I was barely 12 without these curves so why?

I wondered why the people that were to protect me brought me so much pain and hatred.

I didn't let all these affect my academics.

I found little peace at school and was dedicated to having good grades.

I was a loner in my world. I had no friends.

What did I ever do to deserve this?

I wanted to end it. I couldn't continue to live in agony.

I thought about ending my life.

But first, I had to deal with the monster who had made my life a living hell.

I succeeded in getting his food poisoned.

Luckily, he called out for help and got answered.

He lay unconscious in the hospital. I wished he could just die.

The doctor called me into her office.

In her, I saw a friend and a beautiful soul.

I explained my ordeal to her and she sympathize with me.

She asked that I see a therapist.

In her words 'you have been through a lot and need healing'.

My father later passed on and my brother was arrested for some crime.

It felt like nature finally smiled at me and I am getting justice.

I am currently undergoing therapy and I must say; it is not easy because I can not erase the past.

The people involved might pass on, but the memories remain forever.

This is the story of a girl who has gone through a lot.

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YOU SHOULD BE A MICHAEL BECAUSE WHY NOT?

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Do you think you are on the right career path?

It was a thing of Passion; Micheal loved teaching. Every day he got back from school, he would convene children in the neighbourhood to teach and help with their assignments.

His Zeal for teaching made it seem as though it was an easy task. After each class, his face was filled with uncontrolled happiness.

"Chidubem! Chidubem!" His mum called out.

"Ma" he answered.

"I would like to have a brief discussion with you", she said.

Kedu ọrụ ị họọrọ (In Igbo) "What is your chosen profession?" She asked.

"Mum, I would like to be a teacher. I love teaching because it connects me with a large number of people all over the world.

Teaching goes far beyond educating the younger ones. Teaching is a thing of rubbing minds together. When one teaches, they do not only give out information but also receives information.

Teaching is not limited to any age; I interact with both old and young. Through this interchanging of ideas, everybody learns and it is a win for us all." Micheal answered.

She replied, "I love how you expressed yourself but that is not the career I want for you. I want you to be a lawyer. I want people to respect you because of your career.

When people refer to you, they'll address you as 'Barr Micheal'. Doesn't that sound classy to you?"

"I love the sound of that but it's not what I want. I don't want to choose a career because of the title or the pay. I want to do something because I love it and have a passion for it. Besides, people still get paid for teaching." Michael said.

The conversation ended with Micheal insisting he would pursue his teaching career.

The summary of this story leads us to the topic of today- CHOOSING A CAREER.

WHAT IS A CAREER?

A Career is an occupation undertaken for a significant period of a person's life and with opportunities for progress.

“The Oxford English Dictionary defines the word "career" as a person's "course or progress through life (or a distinct portion of life)".

To Choose a career, you must first identify your skills and interests. This is because you need to be motivated to enjoy your work and fulfil your potential.

Next, you explore career ideas. This is the time to regard work experiences. It will give you an insight into the areas you are interested in before committing yourself to a certain career path.

After you must have gained a few experiences, you make a decision. To help make a decision, ask yourself the following questions:

Will I enjoy doing the job every day?

Does it meet most of my preferences?

Do I have the right skills?

If you still struggle to come up with a conclusion, apply the SWOT Analysis. Through this, you identify the Strength, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats of that career.

Lastly, Set achievable goals. Your career plan should outline how you'll get to where you want to be, what actions are needed and when, and separated into your short, medium and long-term goals.

Finally, don't forget that career planning is a continuous process.

Dear Readers, It is not too late to revisit and review your aims and objectives throughout your career, and don't feel constrained by the goals you've set - the structure of a career plan should help you map out the route to trying something new.

If you enjoyed this content and found it helpful, leave a comment and don't forget to clap.

Catch you tomorrow!

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STAGES OF PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

~2.4 mins read

Dear friends, it's Week 1 Day 2 of the Triple C 6.0 ContentCreationChallenge

Today we look at personal development in detail and how it affects our everyday life.

"The important thing is that we must be constantly moving forward - yes, the progressive realization of a predetermined goal. And our growth should never end."

- Og Mandino

WHAT IS PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT?

Personal development is said to have broad definitions. It has been defined by different individuals and scholars.

According to Wikipedia, Personal development or self-improvement consists of activities that develop a person's capabilities and potential, build human capital, facilitate employability, and enhance the quality of life and the realization of dreams and aspirations.

When I think about personal development, what comes to mind is the act of being a better version of my current self.

Many times we tell ourselves how we would like to improve in one area or the other. Subconsciously, we are involving ourselves in personal development. Personal development allows you to be proactive.

STAGES OF PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

In life, one has to go through stages; from being a fetus to old age. So also it applies to personal development.

There are four stages of Personal Development.

First, we have Self Discovery. Before I make a decision, I have to find out where I am. In this stage, I make reflections on who I am, what I want to achieve and the person I want to become.

I was always interested in writing but I didn't take it seriously until 2020. The year was marked by unprecedented events- COVID-19, and ASUU to mention but a few.

It rendered a lot of individuals idle as lots of activities were put on hold. I needed to do something with my time and I came across a platform that could pay me for creating content. That sparked the writer in me.

After you have discovered who you are and want to be, you pursue personal growth by enhancing physical and mental skills, competencies, talents, and knowledge to reach your fullest potential. This is the stage of Self Development.

I want to develop my writing skill and so I hopped on the Triple C Consistency challenge. In this challenge, I aim to be a better writer through the guidance of experts.

Next, the act of Self Mastery. This is the ability to recognize, understand, control, and make the most out of your physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual self. It is gained through awareness, understanding, and control over thoughts, emotions, and actions.

As your skills improve and you grow in confidence, you realize your full potential. You become everything you are capable of becoming. This is the stage of Self Actualization.

In conclusion, Personal development involves the dedication to your greatest resources- you. The effort you put into developing yourself shows how amazing the result would be. Don't forget obstacles and circumstances could set in.

However, if you've not started this journey of personal development, it is not late. Make that decision today and take the steps gently.

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INTRODUCTION TO PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

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Dear friends, it's Week 1 Day 2 of the Triple C 6.0 ContentCreationChallenge.

As promised earlier, I'll share a post here for the next 30 days. Throughout this journey, the niche of focus will be on Personal Development.

Now, let's take a brief insight into personal development and what it entails.

INTRODUCTION- PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

Some days it's bliss, other days it's boring.

There are days I wake up with very high vibrations and I am excited to face the day. I make my bed, freshen up, read or watch a movie, text a few friends, have dinner and go to bed.

Other days what? I wake up and lay inert on my bed. I struggle to get up because I must eat. There is little or much activity even when I have to do a lot.

Sometimes it is a mixture of both high and low vibrations. The energy goes low but I pick up at some point. The ability to be active or inactive sway in.

There are some bright sides to this. And this brings us to Personal Development.

My growth journey has been an exacting one. There have been ups and downs, failures and successes. But that is about life- challenging.

I'm here to take you on a 30-day journey through Personal development. Stay with me through this journey because it promises to be an exciting one.

If you are delighted and look forward to learning more, let me know in the comment section. Don't forget to leave a reaction.

Remember to turn on your notification so you don't miss out on subsequent posts.

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Hello friends,

My name is Umenkachkwu Chidiebere Maryanne.

I will be embarking on a journey of consistency by participating in the 30 Days Content Challenge hosted by Triple C.

I will be creating and sharing content here every weekday for the next 30 days.

Feel free to hold me accountable and send me a message any day I don’t share my content or link and ask why.

I plan to stay till the last day of this writing challenge and I hope you help me achieve that.

Wish me luck!.

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SELF- CONFIDENCE

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Often times we hear people say "your only limit is you". Ever wondered why?

How far you want to go or how you want to be depends on you. You have to make that decision and act on it. You start failing the moment you begin to have doubts in yourself. You start saying "I can't". When you say this, you've limited yourself and even if you don't quit, you are just giving a try with very few hopes of succeeding.

The moment you are built in self-confidence, you are halfway to success.

A person who believes in himself, even when the journey gets very tough never quits. They are confident to have believed in themselves that they can achieve whatever it is they want to achieve.

With confidence, you can build the picture yourself. You see yourself being successful already, owning houses and cars. It is with confidence that you keep driving even when the road is not smooth.

Self-confidence allows you to see your failure as a reason to keep pushing. You don't give up because you've not attained your goal.

To be confident in oneself is a stepping-stone but being overconfident could be a hindrance. When one becomes overconfident, they tend to ignore the mistakes and critics.

We have strengths and weaknesses so we have to discover our strength as that will be a factor to keep going.

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HAPPY 60TH INDEPENDENCE ANNIVERSARY TO NIGERIA

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Nigeria celebrates her 60th independence anniversary. Judging from recent times we could say that there is nothing to celebrate, but looking at the past and how our heroes fought for this day(Independence) then we can say there is something to celebrate.

We all have a role to play in the growth of this great country but now, everyone fights for power. Ethnicism, nepotism, and tribalism have divided the Nigeria that we were. We keep criticizing the government forgetting that government is of the people for the people and by the people. We only elected leaders to rule us, we must not wait to be told the right thing to do.

Nigeria is blessed with a fertile soil, rich in natural and mineral resources but statistics shows that 50% of the Nigerian population are wallowing in extreme poverty and hunger.

Let us make a Nigeria where COME as Wa, Zo or Bia will not really matter. Love, peace and tolerance should be the common language we speak.

Long live NIGERIA!

Long live NIGERIANS!!

Happy Independence Day.

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BETRAYED BY UMENKACHUKWU CHIDIEBERE MARYANNE

~6.2 mins read

DESCRIPTION

She had the passion to drive, but she couldn’t drive.
She falls into the hands of Alex who she thought would teach her how to drive. Little did she know that he had other intentions towards her?

Alex needed a woman who he could use to satisfy his sexual feelings. So, when Anna told Andrew of her interest to learn how to drive, he quickly referred her to Alex. Jacob finds out that Alex had an affair with Anna who was his girlfriend.

Duration: 5 minutes in length.

CAST OF CHARACTERS:

4 actors (3males and 1female)

ANNABEL: (Anna) A young girl in the University. She just got into a relationship and was trying to balance her life with her academics and relationship.

JACOB: Anna’s boyfriend who had little faith about their relationship.

ANDREW: Anna’s friend.

ALEX: A friend of Andrew.

SCENE ONE

(Lights up in Andrew’s house)

(Annabel [a 19year old] sits and presses her phone. Andrew [a 24year old] enters.

Andrew (sits next to Annabel): Hey Annabel, what’s good? Been a long time we saw each other.

Annabel: I know right! I’m good, everything is alright. Good to see you too.

Andrew: How are studies? I heard your department has started Continuous Assessment Test.

Annabel: Yeah, studies are fine. As regards the Continuous Assessment Test, you know we follow the time-table of law school, so our scheme is faster than the other departments.

Andrew: I know. What do you do for fun?

Annabel: I press my phone all day.

(They both laugh, and then have nothing to say. Annabel goes back to her phone. Andrew breaks the silence…)

Andrew: Don’t you have interest in anything?

Annabel: Well… I do. I have interest in driving, but I don’t know how to drive.

Andrew: oh! That’s cool. I would love to teach you, but I don’t own a car. How about I link you up with a friend of mine?

Annabel: Are you serious? Wow! (Stands up to give Andrew a hug) thank you so much.

Andrew (dials Alex’s number): Hey man, what’s up?

Alex’s voice (coming through the phone): I’m alright bro, hope no problem?

Andrew: No bro. A friend of mine wants to learn how to drive. Would you spare time to teach her when she’s ready?

Alex’s voice: Sure bro! I gat you.

Andrew: Aright man. I would give her your contact to hit you up when she’s ready.

Alex’s voice: Sure. Stay safe.

(Alex hangs up the phone)

Andrew: Check your whatsapp (picks up his phone to send the number). Text or call him later.

Annabel (stands up to leave): Thank you so much.

(They both exchange hugs)

(Lights out)

SCENE TWO

(Lights up in Alex’s apartment. Alex is seen approaching Annabel with a glass of juice)

Alex (Hands her the glass of juice): Here, have it.

Annabel: Thank you.

Alex: So, tell me a little about yourself. I would love to know you better.

Annabel: I am Emmanuel Annabel; I am a student of the Faculty of Law. I hail from Mbano LGA of Imo state. I am the last of four children. I am a Christian. I love pressing my phone (chuckles).

Alex (nods in excitement): That’s impressive I must say. Nice meeting you.

Annabel: Thank you. Nice meeting you too.

Alex: So, let’s get ready for the day’s activities.

(Alex gets dressed and they both leave the house for a drive).

(Lights out)

SCENE THREE

(Lights up in Jacob’s apartment. Jacob was out for some work. Annabel is lying on the bed and feeling bored….. Annabel takes her phone and dial Jacob’s number.)

Annabel: Hello babe. What’s up? I just called to let you know I’ll be going out soon.

Jacob: Okay. Where are you going and how long would you be out?

Annabel: I want to go see a friend. I wouldn’t stay out for long.

Jacob: Alright. Don’t forget to lock the house properly and don’t stay long.

Annabel: I won’t. Bye. I love you. (She hangs up the phone).

(Annabel leaves for Alex’s house. She had informed him earlier that she’ll be coming over).

(Lights out)

SCENE FOUR

(Annabel and Alex is seen driving round town. They return to Alex’s house after about five minutes drive.)

Alex: I must say. You are very amazing. Within a space of five days you learnt how to drive perfectly.

Annabel: Thank you! It’s something I’ve always wanted to learn, so I had to put in my all.

Alex: Great! Well, there’s something I’d like to tell you.

Annabel: I’m all ears (wondering what it could be).

Alex: You’re like the coolest girl ever! I really like you.

Annabel: I like you too- you’re all kinds of pretty.

(Silence as both stare at each other. Alex moves closer to Annabel and they could feel the contact of their skin).

Annabel (breaks the silence): I really like you. That’s all, I have a boyfriend and I wouldn’t want to hurt him.

Alex: Does it matter? Just do this once and I promise never to disturb you?

(Alex placed a kiss on her lips as the back of his fingers caressed her cheeks. She slowly smiled. They shared a very long, passionate kiss and soon they were under the covers).

(Lights out)

SCENE FIVE

(Jacob’s apartment It was a hot Thursday afternoon, they returned from school after a manic day. Anna entered the kitchen to fix something for them to eat. The events of all that transpired at Alex’s place about twenty-two hours ago were still fresh in her head. Jacob was suspicious when she returned last night. He said she smelt different. Anna knew what he was driving at, but she waved it.

Jacob was with Anna’s phone and he was disturbed. He felt the need to go through her messages; maybe he could find something there.

He was scrolling through her whatsapp and he saw she had a recent conversation with Alex. She mentioned last night that she went to see Alex. He opened the conversation and found out that Anna and Alex had an affair.

He was furious. He called out to Anna and ordered her to stop what she was doing. Anna trembled in fear. What if he had found out? She murmured).

Anna: Babe! You called.

Jacob: Don’t babe me (pause) how could you? Why did you have to do it? (He slams the door).

Anna: What are you talking about? (Pretending not to know what he was talking about).

Jacob: Oh please! Don’t pretend or act like you don’t know what I’m saying. What happened at Alex’s place yesterday?

Anna: (heaved a long sigh): well… what actually happened (she began to stutter).

Jacob: I don’t think you have anything to say to prove yourself right. You did it willingly. Unless you have cooked up lies. Who knows? You might have plans but didn’t expect me to find out sooner. My instincts were right after all! I’m sorry to say, but I can no longer continue with this relationship. You’ve betrayed my trust. Only God knows how long this has been going on. Well, it’s over now. You can do as you please.

Anna (sobbing): Babe, I’m sorry. I can explain. Please just hear me out.

Jacob: keep your explanations to yourself. I’m done.

(Jacob walks out on her while Anna continued crying)

(Lights out)

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WHY I HATE MEN

YOU SHOULD BE A MICHAEL BECAUSE WHY NOT?

STAGES OF PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

INTRODUCTION TO PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

SELF- CONFIDENCE

HAPPY 60TH INDEPENDENCE ANNIVERSARY TO NIGERIA

BETRAYED BY UMENKACHUKWU CHIDIEBERE MARYANNE

CAST OF CHARACTERS:

SCENE ONE

SCENE TWO

SCENE THREE

SCENE FOUR

SCENE FIVE

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