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What I Saw In Leon ....The Message
~2.6 mins read
..we were still trekking when I decided to open the sms that Leon sent, full of joy n anticipation dat at least he's back to his senses...I began to read the msg... ..""Not the emotional moment, kisses we shared under the moonlight, the night walks and every part of us being clingy were all lies.......Jeeezzz was all I could say at that moment still not putting my head to what was about to come my way.....I kept on reading......""I never felt anything deep/strong enough to want to hold onto, I only used you as a pawn to get over my worries nd anxiety, and in all it never made my heart flutter it only gave me peace for the moment... Jesus Christ what is Leon blabbing for goodness sake...this guy really called me a pawn????like wtf and at this jane was distracted n asked me what it was and I said ntin n kept on reading d shattering message...
Yes, you were  good and loveable, pretty with every basic quality every guy needs but certainly not for me tho..like I earlier said you were only a PAWN to end my worries, anxiety and depression,, and at that you sure did a great job...THANKYOU and GOODBYE.
       Leon😎...
 
Holy shit!!!!!! You can imagine the guts Leon has??my God I'm finished it was at this point I knew I was a total mess to have wasted a year and half months of my life with an ingrate named Leon💔😢......tears formed in my eyes and I just let them fall😢😩broken and in pain I increased my pace without a word to jane who kept asking what the problem was.... walking on the pathway heading to my room memories; beautiful memories flashed through my mind I just wanted to stand there n cry some more for not being vigilant enough to the kind of person Leon really was but looking around I really didn't want to create a scene, so I just walked a little faster n entered my room, swollen eyes, red face, tired n hungry I just let myself on the bed and that was it.....I slept..
 
Days rolled,I managed to attend classes without concentrations, moody face , absent minded almost all the times... didn't want to stressful anyone with my problems tho....one evening after class jane followed me home with the plates of food she bought on the way hoping I would tell her about the message body ... anyways to Jane's suprise I ghosted👻 her and began to eat because that was all I could think of, I needed to eat because I had to execute the plans I've mapped out for the "SMART LEON"...after eating I zoomed out went outside to sit and just viewing the environment nothing on my mind, I looked through the window and saw jane arranging the bed and placing stuff in order because I haven't taken care of the room these few days....      Few minutes later I zoomed in again I lay on d bed jane understanding my actions then calculated in her mind that maybe a breakup has occurred...she just kept on starring at me,and I kept rolling my eyes🙄🙄then she popped up a sweet question 😌she calls me dimmy so she said D "WHAT'S THE PLAN" at this question I sprang up immediately but really didn't want to say the plans yet...I only let out a DEVILISH smile🤭and she smiled back at me....
    It was time for the six months IT backing it up with a defense project so I didn't want to let my guard down so I focused on it....................to b continued 🤭...
 
Heeey readers thanks for reading 🤭🤭..... Follow up for the next action PAYBACK TIME 😂
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4 Things Men Should Know About Women
~1.8 mins read
So today we'll be looking at what our dear men ought to know concerning we women...what we like and what we don't..

1.We appreciate the little things:Believe it or not, when it comes to impressing us, you don’t have to go big or go home. This applies to all things, because what we’re really looking for is thoughtfulness. Kind words, meaningful touch, small acts of service- your love is best communicated in the details. When my boyfriend walks in the door with a beautiful flower he picked along the way, it melts my heart more than 10 dozen roses ever could- because he thought of me in the most unexpected moment. The little things often say the most.

2. Don’t mistake our tears for weakness. Early on in our dating relationship and Dave had to get used to my tears. Growing up with all brothers conditioned him to the idea that tears equal sadness- so seeing my tears of anger, excitement, frustration, and joy took some getting used to. And that’s not to mention “that time of month” tears, “just having one of those days” tears, and “I have no idea why I’m crying” tears. Men, as you learn to understand these tears, remember that they are not a sign of weakness- but a sign of strength. The strength to be real, vulnerable, and genuine. The strength to be passionate and compassionate, and the strength to actually feel.

3.The worst thing you can do to get us to calm down is to tell us to relax. In fact, there’s probably no other word that could get us more riled up! What is it about the word relax that drives us so looney? Not sure, but most women I talk to feel the exact same way. Whether it’s “relax” or some other hot button word- remember to always handle us with care.

4.We want to be your partner – not your mother. Women have the unhealthy tendency of taking care of the men in their lives – and then resenting them. The truth is, we were made to nurture, but in marriage and in healthy relationships, that nurturing needs to be played out in the context of a give-and-take relationship. We want to serve, yet we also need to be served. We want to give, but we also need to feel that we’re receiving. We want to be able to take care of our man, but just as much, we want to feel that he’s taking good care of us.

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