First and foremost, know that no two sapiosexuals are alike, says sex-positive

Being attracted to intelligence or intellect does not mean the sapiosexual in your life will be turned on by everything that falls in the broad realm of 'nerdy.'" 

An easy way to seduce your sapiosexual is to get to know them for who they are. To do that, Sweet encourages you to peruse their bookshelf, social media feeds, or even their Netflix queue to learn the kinds of content that stimulate them. "Your first instinct may be to drop a hot game of Catan on the first date when, in fact, they'd be way more into chilling with an episode of Carl Sagan's Cosmos," Sweet tells mbg. 

When you can show genuine enthusiasm or curiosity in their unique interests, sapiosexual people will be more inclined to let you in.