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Never Thought That I Would Be So Fluent In Speaking My Mind. I Have Always Thought That I Am Such A Difficult Person With A Ver...

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Nasandra 8 mths 116

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PEOPLE WE HAVE LOST

There Are Days When You Are Just Staring Out Of The Window And You Get A Rush Of Memories Of What Seems Like A Distant Past. As Yo...

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Nasandra 8 mths 64

There are days when you are just staring out of the window and you get a rush of memories of what seems like a distant past. As you are focusing on that single white cloud, you are reminded of all the people who once were a part of your life, but are not anymore.

A wave of sadness runs through your body right? Me too

The people who were once so close to you now leave your messages unseen. They are just contacts on the phone. The feeling of forever that you felt around them was an illusion, like the clouds. They did not seem to move, but in reality, every day, they were gliding one inch away from you. The single world that both of you lived in, was slowly separating into two individual worlds.

Goosebumps. You got lost in thought. You pull yourself out of your head and see that the skies are changing colors and as you look at the sky one last time, with a prayer in your mind.

“Our conversations are not the same anymore. But I promise that if we ever cross paths again, I will do all I can to slow down that moment until it lasts. I will still be here watching you fly past me while you reach greater heights because no matter how apart we are now, you will always be in my mind. No matter where we are on the ground, our skies will always be the same.”

The loss of someone close is a very hard feeling to describe. Most of us just shrug it off saying, “we grew apart” than saying, “it broke my heart.”. Our close ones are meant to offer genuine deep connections, but when they end, they can really shatter the person.

Are things really that simple?

We often take people for granted, only to lose them completely. Days turn into weeks, then months. Then, as luck would have it, you come across something that they have been silently working on. You find the courage to send an encouraging text and impatiently wait for their reply and when you finally get a response back. You are excited. Maybe this is the chance. You open the chat.

“Thank you!”

You are confused and disappointed. It felt like a door closed. You could have pushed yourself to continue the conversation, but the response was an answer. You reached a dead-end. If they wanted to pursue a conversation, they would have. It does not make them bad people. Maybe you weren’t good to them. Maybe things have changed now. Maybe your ‘ship’ has run its course.

If you are missing someone you have lost in touch with and are thinking about reconnecting. Just do it. Apologize. Don’t put it off. We all screw up. We all hurt people sometimes. It isn’t easy and we can’t control them to forgive us. But life is short and people can really surprise you sometimes.

Don’t forget to take a look at all the people around you, are you appreciating them enough?

So while cherished souls are within your reach, appreciate them because you don't know what tomorrow holds. Appreciate the grief. It means that your love for them wasn’t weak. Appreciate the people who held on.

Don’t spend too much time thinking about how things got so bad. Don’t wonder if they still think about you. Don’t wonder if they open your chat and feel empty. Be grateful for those beautiful years you have known them for.

We have all lost people.

We have all had bad people around us or been bad to those around us.

Losing these people can feel like tears running down your cheeks.

But as you look out of your window,

I hope you silently pray for them.

Motivation

IT’S NEVER TOO LATE

Everyone Born On This Earth Has A Unique Purpose, A Special Mission That Only They Can Fulfill. To Unlock Your Full Potential, It ...

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Nasandra 8 mths 59

Everyone born on this earth has a unique purpose, a special mission that only they can fulfill. To unlock your full potential, it is important to first deeply understand who you are and what you are meant to do in life. When you tap into this understanding, reaching your purpose becomes not just a possibility, but an inevitable journey.

Many times, life throws challenges at us, be it tough circumstances, or past mistakes, that might make us feel like giving up. You might think that you have strayed too far from your path or that you are too old to start fresh, but remember, it is never too late. As long as you can tap into what God has placed within you, there is always a way to push forward. As the saying goes, "It's never too late to be what you might have been."

I consider the richest place on earth to be the graveyard. This is not because of the minerals underground, but because so many people are buried with dreams unfulfilled and potentials untapped. Don't let that be you. Why be part of the majority who leave this earth with their greatest contributions unmade, when you could be among the 1% who discover and fulfill their true potential?

If you are already on the journey of self-discovery but feel held back by a lot of challenges, ask yourself if you have really given it your all. Yes, the path to discovering your potential is not an easy one, it demands hard work, perseverance, and a lot of resilience. When you feel stuck, it is often just your response to the overwhelming demands of life, whether from family, work, or personal goals. The key to moving forward is finding balance and managing these pressures in a constructive way.

Taking care of your mental and physical health is very important on this journey. Make sure to set aside a little time each day for yourself, even if it is just a few minutes to relax, read, or enjoy a hobby. Spending more time with yourself helps you discover more about who you are. This not only recharges you but also keeps you grounded and focused.

And remember, once you reach your full potential, the responsibility doesn’t end there. Share your achievements with the world. Inspire others by showing them that no matter the odds, reaching one's full potential is not just a dream but a reality that can be achieved.

Don’t limit yourself by your circumstances. Rise above them, and strive towards the fulfillment of your true potential. Like Nelson Mandela once said, “It always seems impossible until it's done.” So, why not start today? Make that decision to give it one more try, to push a little harder, and to believe a little stronger in your ability to achieve greatness.

I BELIEVE IN YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Health

DREAMS

When I Say Sleep Is Important, It Is Not Just About Getting Some Shut-eye. Believe It Or Not, It Is During Sleep That We Unlock Th...

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Nasandra 8 mths 25

When I say sleep is important, It is not just about getting some shut-eye. Believe it or not, it is during sleep that we unlock the door to another world, a magical realm found only in our dreams. Here, anything is possible, and each night becomes an adventure that can uplift, inspire, and heal us. Let me help you show what your dreamland looks like.

You see, Dreams are like secret messages from our subconscious, a place where our deepest thoughts and feelings come to life. They can affect us in so many ways, and especially good dreams can have a positive impact on our mental health. Let me take you through how these nighttime stories are more than just random scenes, they are a powerful part of our emotional wellbeing.

When you wake up from a good dream, don't you feel a sense of happiness lingering through the day? Maybe you dreamed of standing on a mountain peak, the air cool and crisp, or perhaps you were applauded by thousands for an incredible performance. It whispers in your ear, "Look what can happen! Look what you can do!" This boost can be especially significant when you are facing challenges in your waking life. These dreams boost your spirit. They whisper, "Anything is possible!" This encouragement, even if it comes from a dream, can significantly lift your mood and increase your confidence.

Now, imagine the wild rides our dreams take us on. In dreams, there are no limits, no rules or restrictions. You could be a dragon-taming knight or a star-traveling explorer in one night! This is your mind playing with ideas, stretching beyond the everyday reality into realms of limitless possibilities. This stretching is not just fun, it is vital. It helps you think creatively and solve problems in real life in ways you might not have considered before.

Dreams are also like personal theaters where you can experience things you have never really done. Say you have always wanted to explore a lush forest. In your dream, you might find yourself walking through a dense, green woodland, feeling the cool breeze on your face and the soft moss beneath your feet. The beauty of nature surrounds you, filling you with a sense of peace and wonder. These experiences, while imaginary, can enrich your mind, giving you a taste of adventures.

And you know what more? Good dreams can be soothing for your mental health. They allow you to process emotions in a safe space. Perhaps in your waking life, you are dealing with a tough situation and you have no one to talk to. Then, in a dream, you might find yourself having a heartfelt conversation with a person and reaching for closure. This doesn't just stay in your dream, it helps you heal in real life too.

So, next time you lay your head down to sleep, remember that you are not just resting your body . You are also tuning into a deep part of yourself that knows your fears, hopes, and joys. Embrace the journeys you take in your dreams. They are more than just nighttime tales, they are opportunities for joy, creativity, and healing. They are your mind's way of telling you stories that can change your life, comfort your heart, and spark your imagination.

So tonight, as you close your eyes, remember that a beautiful adventure awaits in your dreams, one that could bring a little magic into your waking world. Sweet dreams, and may you find in them the inspiration and strength you seek.

Motivation

ARE YOU FEELING OVERWHELMED?

Am Sorry If You Feel This Way But It Is Ok To Feel Overwhelmed. It Is Ok Not To Understand What Is Happening In Your Life, It Is O...

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Nasandra 9 mths 17

Am sorry if you feel this way but It is ok to feel overwhelmed. It is ok not to understand what is happening in your life, it is ok if life is throwing a lot of challenges at you. It is absolutely ok. Everyone feels this way at a point in their life. Sometimes it feels like you have a lot on your plate and it feels like you lost hope in life but you know what there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Till you see this light why not acknowledge how you feel. Remember it’s okay to not be okay. You probably feel as though your world will come crashing if you acknowledge how you feel. But I promise, it will come crashing on you if you do not acknowledge how you feel. It doesn’t mean you are weak if you shed some tears or if you admit you may need a little help, it just means you are human and humans have the right to express their emotions irrespective of gender so why not express those emotions and not suppress them?

If you feel like you can’t do it alone, if you feel like you can’t handle the situation, if you feel like there is no peace or happiness in your life. Let me tell you that this is not true, don’t let this thought bring you down. Just remember that all the solutions to all the problems lie within YOU and not just that even the peace, happiness and love you seek is found within YOU. YOU are stronger than you think. Even though it might feel like you're facing everything alone, remember that you have the strength within you to overcome these obstacles.

God will never give you what you can’t handle.

The problems you face in life actually determines your capacity to handle them. I believe that you have the capacity and capability to face what you are going through now.

Yes, you are right! Am not in your shoes but trust me when I say you can overcome it, YOU definitely can.

Don’t let pain or even your situation change the person you are.

DO YOU STILL FEEL OVERWHELMED?

Ok then, think of the gentle breeze that sweeps over the ocean's surface, it's like a reminder that your problems won't last forever. Just like how the sea breeze helps calm the waves, with time and taking care of yourself, your troubles will start to fade away. Remember, tough times don't stick around forever. Just like the tides come and go, your strength and resilience will guide you through the rough patches.

One last thing my dear, Be mindful of what you consume. What are you drinking and eating? What are you giving your mind to? When times are tough you tend to look for distractions to keep your mind off it so you end up consuming excessive alcohol or smoking excessively or even consuming excess sugar but are all these worth it? It’s definitely not, you end up losing yourself and lose your purpose on earth. If you find it difficult to do it for yourself then do it for your loved ones, for those who genuinely care about you and for those who love you.

So, remember you are ONLY allowed to feel overwhelmed with love, joy and peace and nothing else because that is what YOU deserve and YOU deserve much more.

Hang in there a little longer.

[HUGS]

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MAGNETIC MINDSET

Did You Know, That Your Mindset Plays A Huge Role In Shaping Your Life? When You Think Positively, You Tend To Attract Positive O...

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Nasandra 9 mths 91

Did you know, that your mindset plays a huge role in shaping your life? When you think positively, you tend to attract positive outcomes. On the other hand, dwelling on negative thoughts can lead to negative results.

Everything in the universe, including YOU, is made up of energy. Energy vibes attract similar vibes. So, when you are radiating positive energy through your thoughts and feelings, you are essentially putting out a cosmic order for more positivity to come your way. It is like tuning into a radio station, if you are tuned into the good vibes frequency, you are more likely to attract situations and people that match that frequency. By aligning your thoughts and feelings with what you desire, you are tapping into the energy flow of the universe, making it more likely for those desires to manifest.

So, if you want more success and happiness in your life whether it is in your health, finances, or relationships, adopting a positive mindset is key.

Imagine your thoughts are like magnets. When you think about something a lot, whether it's positive or negative, it's like you are sending out a signal to the universe. And guess what? The universe listens! So, if you keep thinking about something you really want, like finding a new job or meeting someone special, the universe might just help make it happen. It's all about focusing on what you want, believing it's possible, staying open to opportunities and also working towards it.

Here is the thing, it is not just about putting all your mind to something, you have to have a positive attitude, believe in yourself and work towards what you have in mind, you tend to notice more good things happening around you. This won't just stop with you but has an influence on those around you. This kind of energy you carry has the ability to influence others' state of mind. You will notice that people will become happier around you, you can influence the way they think in a more positive way, you can give out peace and calmness to those around you, etc.

So, when you are emitting positive vibes, you are not only attracting positive things for yourself but also uplifting the energy of the world around you. It is like being a light in a dark room. Your positive energy can ripple out and affect others, creating a chain reaction of good vibes. That's why staying mindful of your thoughts and feelings is so important in the spiritual sense. By consciously choosing positivity, you are not only shaping your own reality but also contributing to a more positive collective energy.

The same way, if you are always thinking negatively or doubting yourself, you might miss out on opportunities or attract more of the stuff you don't want.

Always remember to keep your thoughts positive, visualize what you want, and work towards it. You might be surprised by what you can attract into your life!

Remember, success isn't just luck, it is about the way you think and approach life.

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