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Mercy20
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WHEN A MAN LOVES YOU!
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WHEN A MAN LOVES YOU!
When you meet your original husband, you will know. One of the ways to know is that he would not want you to suffer, or stress you, he will put on the helmet of sacrifice on your matter.
When I met my wife, I entered night bus like 3 times from Lagos to calabar to visit her when I couldn't afford a flight ticket conveniently.
And when I show up to town, I had variety of gifts for. What she didn't know was that I had the option of coming by air with that money without buying her anything meaningful, but I rather chose to use the flight money to get her lots of beautiful things, then sit in a bus for 12hours on a road trip, with all the risk involved.
One of the things that strengthen that decision was the fact that the things I bought for her where the things I knew she needed badly, so I was willing to take the bus just to see her happy. I couldn't tell her this, sometimes she didn't know I came with a night bus, I just show up gbraaaaaaaa like Father Christmas that took the morning flight. If she knew she wouldn't have allowed me do it for her, it's why I didn't tell her.
But you see, I couldn't have been able to put myself through all that I was only going for the sex and flex, there are lots of pretty girls in Lagos if sex was the alpha. I would never have had the freedom to make those sacrifices if I wasn't 1000% sure I was going to marry her. No man can subject himself under such conditions for a woman he isn't convinced he wants to marry, except something is seriously wrong with him upstairs.
My sister, forget, when a man truly loves you, a new mumu is born. The most visible signs you will see from him are signs of sacrifice, in different areas that concerns you. Some you will find out, some you will never know.
He will not want you to labour.
He will not want you to stress over anything.
He will not want you to suffer.
He will endure a lot in silence for your sake.
Those days I will trek home from work just to save that bus money to buy airtime, because we usually talk for about an hour every night. I was doing it happily, without any pressure, because I desperately wanted to nurture and preserve our long distance relationship at all cost. I have found my wife, nothing else can change it.
I defended her publicly.
I defended her privately.
I defended her before my family.
Because I have found my wife gifted to me by God, every other contrary opinion were just rumours to me.
This is the second visible sign that a man loves and wants to be with you at all cost, he will defend you before every court that rises against his love for you.
Forget all this talk about a man coming to say he cannot continue because his mother doesn't like you, or his siblings doesn't approve of you, or his Prophet said whatever, those are boys, not men.
A man who has heard from God concerning you will defend you, before his family and before satan. As a matter of fact, it's a man's responsibility to make his mother and family like you, even if he will step on a few nerves subtly, he will do it, because in you is where his treasure lies.
Any man who ends a relationship with you on account of family disapproval is still a boy, and you should do a special thanksgiving in church that God finally revealed to you the level of the man you were about to marry, such a man will remain subject to his family even in the marriage.
When a man loves you? He will make it obvious through sacrifices and through his unwavering desire to fight for you at all cost.
This two things will never be missing in a man who truly loves and wants to marry you, look out for it.
... and please evolve in wisdom sister Eliza.
Apostle
Mercy20
2 yrs
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Mercy20
KITCHEN TIPS
~1.0 mins read
KITCHEN TIPS
1. Never store Onions and Potatoes together because both produce a gas that causes either of them to spoil quickly.
2. Put two or three orange leaves in your hot palm oil on the fire. Let the leaves turn black before removing it. By then your palm oil becomes pure groundnut oil also giving your food a nice taste.
3. To avoid feeling a peppering hotness on your hands after cutting pepper with bare hand scrub your hand with salt and red oil then wash it.
4. If you happen to over salt a pot of soup, just drop in a peeled potato. The potato will absorb the excess salt.
5. If your Soup or Stew goes sour while warming it, add little piece of Charcoal and remove after warming, the taste will come back.
6. Never put citrus fruits (oranges, lemon, lime, etc) or tomatoes in the fridge. The low temperature degrades the aroma and flavor of these fruits.
7. When storing empty airtight containers, throw in a pinch of salt to keep them from getting stinky.
8. If your salt is becoming lumpy, put a few grains of rice in with it to absorb excess moisture.
9. To reuse cooking oil without tasting whatever was cooked in the oil previously, cook a 1/4" piece of ginger in the oil. It will remove any remaining flavors and odors.
Hope you learnt something
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Mercy20
2 yrs
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Don't Marry Who You Can Only Pray With And Not Play With.
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Don’t marry who you can only PRAY with and not able to PLAY with. Many believers are too difficult to relate with. Many even behave like the lion of the tribe of umudora village 😒
You can’t play with them.
You can’t relate with them.
Jesus will punish them na when you do that. You can’t tease them. You can’t joke with them. My dear, don’t marry such fellow, run run for your dear life.
Marry who you can play with as much as you can pray with them. Marry who you can socialize with as much as been spiritual together.
All day is not spirituality and behaving spiritual all the time. There has to be balance. There as to be spice (play and being naughty) to one another.
Marry a playing booboo.
Marry a praying and playing babe.
This will preserve your happiness.
This will preserve your days.
This will give no room to secrecy.
This will give room to openness.
This will give more room to bonding and intimacy.
You cannot be doing man of God and woman of God in marriage up and down
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Mercy20
2 yrs
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2 Seed That Can Help Flush Out Worms From Your Stomach.
~0.8 mins read
Most people around the world are suffering from excess worms in their body and they tend to take different kinds of concoctions in order to get rid of these worms from their bodies. According to an article written by healthline, I will list some seeds you need to take on a regular basis in order to get rid of worms in your body without any side effects.
1. Pumpkin seeds are some of the seeds you need to take on a regular basis in order to get rid of excess worms in your body. Pumpkin seeds are highly enriched with different kinds of anti-bacterial and anti-fungal nutrients which can help to flush out excess worms in your body without any side effects. Pumpkin seeds are also rich with different kinds of nutrients that can help to nourish your body.
2. You should also try your best to take a reasonable amount of papaya seeds on a regular basis because they contain different kinds of antibacterial properties that can help to flush out all sorts of worms from your body naturally. So, you should try your best to take more papaya seeds from time to time.
What are your thoughts on this?
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What Problem Are You Solving?
WHAT PROBLEM ARE YOU SOLVING?
The Human Race Is Full Of Diverse Kinds Of Challenge For Diverse Reasons. It Could Be Spiritual, P...
Mercy20
2 yrs
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Mercy20
What Problem Are You Solving?
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WHAT PROBLEM ARE YOU SOLVING?
The human race is full of diverse kinds of challenge for diverse reasons. It could be spiritual, physical, emotional, social, finance or otherwise. The beautiful thing about it is that the solution to human problems lies with human.
Amazingly we pray to solve these problems, I do not underestimate the place of prayer but we must understand that God in his uniqueness has made it that someone somewhere has the solution to the problem of another. The beauty of it is that the more problem we solve the more beautiful the world becomes and relevant we to humanity.
If you're not solving any problem here, you have no business been here, you are just occupying space and wasting resources that others that are solving problems will need to help solve more problems and make the world a better place.
Often times people wonders why some people seem to be more relevant or celebrated than the other. The simple truth lies in the level of problem they are solving for the society they find themselves.
A number of people wants to be like them but not willing to do what they do. Do you even know that most of those solutions cost them a lot, yet they make it available.
The reason a lot of us are not solving problem is that erroneous belief that we do not have anything. So many believes they need to have money to be able to solve problem for others. But if you look inward you will see that thing that is unique to you that another needs to be better.
Solving problem for other starts from your immediate environment, your family, home, neighborhood and the larger community. Simply taking responsibility for little little issues around you is empowering yourself for bigger platforms.
If you give out values, values will flow back to you. If you want to justify the purpose of your existence, solve problems.
Mercy20
2 yrs
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Mercy20
2 Things You Can Do To Flush Away Gas From Your Stomach Without Taking Drugs
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Stomach gas is an uncomfortable scenario that occurs as a result of the accumulation of toxins or trapped gas in the stomach. It is usually accompanied by sharp pain, cramping, swelling, tightness, and even bloating. However, medical scientists have found out that adopting certain lifestyle changes can help flush out trapped gas from the stomach and prevent complications.
In this article in line with a publication on "Medical News Today", we shall be looking at two things you should do regularly to help you get rid of the stomach from your body without using pills. They include.
Add apple cider vinegar to the water
This is one of the most powerful and effective ways to get rid of stomach gas. According to a study, consuming apple cider vinegar aids the production of stomach acid and digestive enzymes. Which may also help to alleviate gas pain quickly and keep your stomach free.
The method of preparation is that, add a tablespoon of vinegar to a glass of water and drink it before meals to prevent gas pain and bloating. Please don't forget to rinse the mouth with water, as vinegar can deteriorate tooth enamel.
Drink tea
Consuming herbal tea like ginger, chamomile, anise, peppermint, and garlic aid digestion and reduce gas pain fast. The compounds present in most herbal and natural tea can help cleanse the stomach, liver, and colon and remove toxins like gas.
Mercy20
2 yrs
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Mercy20
In Case Of A Snakebite, Do This Immediately To Save Your Life.
~1.3 mins read
It’s tough to tell whether or not a snake bite is dangerous. If you’re bitten by a snake, this article will tell you what to do, including how to administer basic first aid.
It’s also worth noting that snake bites can trigger anaphylaxis in certain people. In the ‘anaphylaxis’ section below, you can learn more about how to handle severe allergic reactions.
If you think you’ve been bitten by a snake, follow these steps:
Remove yourself from the area where the bite occurred right away. If the snake is still attached, use a stick or a tool to get it to release. To avoid drowning, sea snake victims must be relocated to dry land.
Remove any tight jewelry from around the bitten area of the body (e.g., rings, anklets, and bracelets), as these can cause injury if swelling occurs.
Non-venomous snakes are responsible for a large number of snake bites. Even so, the risk of death from most venomous snake bites is not immediate.
To keep the limb still, use a splint. Go to a location where transport is available to take them to a medical facility using a makeshift stretcher.
Never use a tourniquet that is too tight around the arteries.
Only bites by neurotoxic snakes that do not cause local swelling are recommended
In some cases, applying pressure to the bite site with a pressure pad may be sufficient.
Traditional first-aid methods, herbal medicines, and other unproven or dangerous forms of first-aid should be avoided.
When a snake bites and injects venom into a wound, this is called a venomous bite. Snake venom contains chemicals that cause other animals to be stunned, numb, or die. Pain, swelling, bruising, or bleeding from a venomous bite are all symptoms of a venomous bite.
Mercy20
2 yrs
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Mercy20
SECRET OF A WOMAN. (A MUST READ FOR ALL MEN)
~2.6 mins read
SECRET OF A WOMAN.
(A MUST READ FOR ALL MEN)
At one time, a newly married young man was shouting at his wife and his father called him aside and said to him, 'We only shout at people our shouts or threats can frighten. But not to your wife.
The way you are shouting, you are giving away your power to your wife. Your threats make her stronger. Most men believe that when a woman is threatened, she gets subdued, but women are not changed with fear.
A woman may stay quiet when a man is threatening and shouting at her but she is not sitting down inside her. She is evaluating the man's weakness and how to subdue him rather.
Cast your mind back to those days men used to beat their wives flippantly at slightest provocations, today most of those men are older and they are suffering consequences
Those women their husband were beating years back are the ones enjoying the marriage with their children today, the mothers have their children's sympathy, the men are at the receiving end.
Let it become clear to men that the way into a woman's heart is not to try to threaten and subdue her. God spoke to men and said, 'Husbands, love your wife'. Do you need an elaborate explanation of this scripture? Love makes women weak. When you truly love a woman and show it, she will submit to you without qualms. But when a woman has sensed that she is just like your toy, you just want to use her or you are domineering and controlling, the spirit of rebellion takes over her. She might not physically stand on your way but she is plotting coup against you and one day, you will sit and watch her and her children force you to follow their rules or die quicker.
Almost all the great and fierce kings you know died before their wives. They lived all through their lives threatening their fellow men and wives. They were able to kill most of their strong fellow men but all the women they threatened stayed alive. Women know how to survive against men.
The 'lion' in men does not scare women or get them to submit to you, it is love that conquers a woman, not force or threats. This might subdue fellow men, but not your wife. Women naturally know how to survive pains. They can walk to the fearful serpent and make their demands. They have resilient spirit.
There are things women fear but not the lion inside men. They can submit and respect their men so foolishly that you imagine that there is no gut inside them. They have guts men don't have, love your woman into submission.
Men don't have compatible or cordial relationship with women by showing the lion inside them. God knew women before us and begged that we show love than threats. He gave men the formula, recipe for a blissful, joyous and fulfilled homes, LOVE YOUR WIFE!
This formula of loving your wife will help you win her. When a woman is loved, you break all her guts and she stays in your hands. A woman can do anything to stay with a man who is honestly in love with Her.
Talk gently to your wife, love her, pet her, don't shout at her, and you will win her and make your points!
Do not arrogantly display your weakness as a man by shouting.
May the Lord give you more wisdom and understanding in Jesus name
Apostle
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