Long time no see well I wouldn't update about this events today but I hope you people are doing great extensively. Well my simply dairy thoughts is what is simple want to put down today I hope you find solace here.

What have learned so far about life : “it goes on” and that I think is the saddest thing. You know Emotions are contagious. Unpleasant or negative emotions are more contagious than neutral or positive emotions. At the end of it all be positive my friend. You don't have to be too negative to negates things every complexes that are so germane should be trashed out every usefulness being fulfilled, every undue distress being seek and make the ends justify every means and let escalate every undecided things to show our undivided support towards ending unruly utterances and make things great and better.

Life is wide, limitless. There is no border, no frontier. Absorb what is useful, discard what is it useless and add what is specifically your own. Don't let anything initiate you to do or take something useless in everything ensure you make the best of decision, make every aspect of your self counts and ensure you have a life that worth it. Don't be too kind to know evil or be too emotional to be blackmail by some unruly events. Let your self be a priority not too much at others expense don't let that get toouch into you as avalanche of good deeds to your neighbor is also paramount to your sane health.

I know some people who are in love but not together,I know some people who are together but not in love .I know good women that are side-chicks ,hoes that have perfect relationships,good guys that are being cheated on. I know lazy people that got money,givers that are poor ,stingy people who are rich. I know innocent in prison and thieves walking freely. In the end , I think there are no fixed rules in life , just pray for grace.this aspect has got many so confidance and some so derail I believe time and chance would happen to everyone

People will tell you things about the world, ways in which they think you might fail. Some of the things they tell you might be right. However,Failure can be survived. Keep making a list of your best version, and keep ticking items off. Keep learning, keep growing, keep believing and make good things of your self.

Good things happening to other people does not mean that there are less good things available to happen to you. Remember, The lord makes everything beautiful in its own time. And every thing are all make and are wondering made for the goodness of all.

Have you ever found yourself unhappy - simply complaining about everything 'wrong' with your life? I have, many times. Well listen up, here’s exactly what you need to battle the negativity. You need to practice GRATEFULNESS. Be thankful for what you DO HAVE instead of being sad for what you don’t have. All it takes is a change in your state of mind. And you’ll find peacefulness within. I hope that helps.

The fastest runner doesn’t always win the race ,the wisest man doesn’t always get the food he earns , the strongest army doesn’t always win the battle , the smartest man doesn’t always get the wealth ,and an educated person doesn’t always get the praise he/she deserves. When the time comes , good or bad things happens to everyone.

How can we expect life to bless and support when we say one thing, think something else, and feel a completely different way. Get clear about what you want, what you are doing, and why you are doing it.

Try just feeling happy. You can make yourself do it — even if just for a few seconds. Pretend you’re enjoying life and then voila — life will look and feel different. It’s not about faking it. It’s about understanding that only you can control your feelings.

Happiness is good for the body, but sorrow strengthens the spirit.you need much of it to be merry and also to think through events and think about how to be in these salient events Also Remember, I am no teacher; I’m not writing to teach ,I can merely be a signpost for a traveler who is lost. It is up to you to decide on the direction.All I can offer is an experience but never a conclusion, so even what I have written/said needs to be thoroughly examined by you.

1Pet.3.15 - But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, let the scripture be your very best guild and grow in the lord don't allow and give chances to people without sane climes

The heart of a manipulator, is filled with so many conspicuous thoughts in other to over ride every of initial thoughts regarding the other. Manipulors are individual who careless about others but only promote themselves against others in order to fashion the ways things are being done. Every of this kind of people are found in different sphere and corners in lives, we can't do without them . Great way to know them is through careful study of the selfish character alot of them promote.

Below are examples of manipulator and how they could be spotted in every sphere of lives as things may seems to be.

True Narcissists -

 This one goes without saying. Those who are clinically diagnosed as narcissists especially tend to carry with them an inflated sense of their own self-worth, which means they always have a need to validate this belief by making their person superior to others around them. Narcissists harbor dreams of being adored and worshipped by the masses, and they will resort to all sorts of manipulative and unethical behavior to get the adoration they want.

Narcissists are so full of themselves and would always promote their self at any given opportunity without the care of others. Their self carry pride wouldn't care about others in a means of satisfying their selfish intrest at the sense of waylaying others life is an unproductive means.

True Sociopaths - 

Those who are clinically diagnosed as sociopaths often appear intelligent and charming, but their downfall is impulsiveness. Since sociopaths tend to lack the ability to feel any kind of remorse, they take advantage of these dark personality tactics to build relationships which are superficial and not genuine since they’re only doing it for their own benefit. 

Socialpaths would do well to show much intelligence quote and when one is not careful you do their biddings in all things the aspect of being so care free may be an of unscrupulous paths, this individual weild such power and uses it at well on others they consider as inferior.

The Selfish People - 

Anyone with a hidden agenda that benefits themselves before others have the potential to resort to these dark manipulative tactics if the outcome for them is a win. 

A selfish individual will all always have a path to their own deeds, they want everything for their personal uses and they keep away things from others this individuals consider everything for themselves and may even deny other their needs. Some would even have excess but still determine to keep only to themselves than gives to others.

The Politicians - 

To get the votes that they need, and to get the masses to vote the way they want them too, politicians are guilty of resorting to dark tactics of persuasion as a means to serve their end. The most deceitful kind of manipulator as they would only believe they had done the best for people intrest were as their personal beliefs would always supersede what ever actions they would take. 

Even every politician may seem or profess to have the people at heart but they showed that this incident is not that much of a thing the government can do everything they try to persuade people to submission and make so much promises that people tend to believe whilst making their own mark in the senario .

The Lawyers - 

Some attorneys will stop at nothing if it means they get to win their case, even if it means they have to resort to dark tactics to do so. Lawyers are people who carry so many pride as most consider their own take on the pursuit of justice even at the expense of their clients.

The Salespeople -

Just like attorneys and politicians, some salespeople can be so focused on nothing but making a sale that they have no qualms about resorting to manipulative tactics to coerce a buyer into doing what they want. A sales representative or a person can persuade someone to buy what they don't need so as to earn their commission they are people who those different kind of things which would make buyers to buy products, they claim their product would meet peoplea demand and so many people would be so disappointed to find out who and how fast what they bought is useless to them . The idea of any sales person is to make sales and earn income, they do not actually care much about how their customer/consumer would feel when they find out about how the good maybe useless to them . However these people have prepared every line of defence off hand to tackle any kind of backlash and would never accept responsibility for anything.

The Leaders - 

Not all leaders are there to inspire, and some rely on manipulation to get others to comply with their demands. Some leader do not care to delegate their duties and functional excessively, they find ways to quickly avoids some blames so that they might not be held to culpable of their action , they find ways to delegate in the sense of inspiration or process of learning this is some so many source of manipulation.

The Public Speakers -

 Not all public speakers can be trusted, and there are some out there who will resort to manipulation if it means there’s an opportunity to sell more products to do so, this people will do so much psychological damage they would install some fears, beliefs or manuals in their speech , they would say a lot of persuasive words about how best their product or their ways are they are difficult kind of people who done seem to have any kind of empathy than to sell.

Well everyday and everytime I come across a manipulator I check and check then smile , some of them our our parents, our teachers, friend and acquaintances, our boss or staff government or anyone or even our child or partners . Manipulators main purpose is their self and they have a lot of traits and time to play their cards very well in any congestion of arena to conduct mischievous activities. 

And to every manipulator reading this the world those not revolve around you the feelings of others should not be toy with, everyone has a deal but supersede yours those not make you the best of the brains, the effect of things should be careful sorted out and see everything has time plays out to get yourself. Always think of this before you prey on your next victim I would I feel or act when this other person do this to me ?. Then digest that you don't know you may meet the greater manipulator who would even manipulate you the more.