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27-year Old Yahoo Boy Arrested For Allegedly Beating His Undergraduate Girlfriend To Death In Ogun State.

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A 27-year-old suspected arrested by men of Ogun state Police Command for allegedly k!lling his girlfriend, one Idowu Buhari, an HND1 Mass Communication student of Gateway polytechnic Saapade.

The spokesperson of the state police command, SP Abimbola Oyeyemi, who confirmed the arrest, said the suspect was arrested following a distress call received at Ode -Remo divisional headquarters, that the suspect, who resides at No 3, Mojubade compound, Eredu Ishara, locked himself and his girlfriend inside his room and had started b€ating the girl and hitting her head against the wall, and all efforts made to persuade him to open the door proved abortive.

''Upon the distress call, the DPO Ode-remo division, CSP Fasogbon Olayemi quickly led his men to the scene where they met the victim in the pool of her blood after forcing the door opened.

The victim was quickly rushed to State Hospital Ishara,but was pronounced d€ad by doctor on duty. ''A statement from Oyeyemi reads

He said the suspect who is an indigine of Enugu state was promptly arrested and taken to custody.

''On interrogation, the suspect, Obeta John, informed the police that he is an internet fraudster, and that certain amount of money from one of his clients was paid into the account of his deceased girlfriend which she refused to relinquish to him.

He stated further that it was the argument over the said money that led to scuffle between them which eventually led to the d€ath of the girl. ''the statement further read

Abimbola added that the state Commissioner of Police, CP Lanre Bankole, has ordered the immediate transfer of the suspect to Homicide section of the State Criminal Investigation Departments for further investigation and diligent prosecution. - LIB

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Skin Treat: Night Time Skincare

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ROUTINE - #SkinTreat - For our skin treatment today, we will be focusing on how to keep hydration locked in into our skin to keep the skin looking so smooth because our skin is a living thing and wetness is freshness!

So what we need is olive oil, skin plumping serum, moisturizer and Vaseline!

We start with oil cleansing and washing it off and afterwards, we apply skin plumping serum over wet skin then apply moisturizer over it and then apply a pea size amount of Vaseline over it to lock the moisture down and you'll be surprised how dewy, radiant and smooth you look by morning!

Our skin is our beauty !

Hope this was helpful?

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Things That Turn Off Your Spouse Sexually

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1. AFFAIRS

Nothing makes your spouse stop wanting to make love to you like finding out you are having an affair. Your spouse will be too disgusted and hurt by you to desire you

2. UNRESOLVED ISSUES

If you keep running away from addressing the issues your spouse is raising, your spouse will struggle to give you his/her body

3. BAD ATTITUDE

No matter how sexy you look and how amazing your sexual game is, your spouse will not want you sexually if you are rude, difficult, disrespectful, entitled and stressful

4. EMOTIONAL ABUSE

If you keep telling your spouse hurtful words and don't seem to care, your spouse will hold back his/her body. It is difficult to surrender your body to someone who hurts you

5. NEGLECT

If you act like you don't bother about your spouse, you ignore your spouse all day and for weeks only to remember your spouse when you are horny; your spouse will not be sexually interested in you, you chose to be a stranger and reduced your spouse to loneliness

6. CRUDE WORDS

If you are the kind of person who uses vulgar language... "I want to "F*ck you", "Give me that p*ssy", "Suck my d*ck"; but your spouse finds this indecent and cheapening of love making, your spouse will be turned off

7. "KNOW IT ALL" MINDSET

Love making is about learning your spouse. If you act as if you know everything about sex and your spouse tries to show you how he/she likes it but you bring your ego to bed; your spouse will switch off

8. LACK OF HYGIENE

Love making involves a lot of body fluids and the use of senses. If you are the type who doesn't shower, doesn't shave to neatness, doesn't brush your teeth, wears the same underwear for days and smells of sweat; your spouse will struggle to desire you

9. POOR VISUAL STIMULATION

If you don't bother about how you look. You care more about how you dress in public but at home you wear worn out branded T-shirts, out-dated underwear, filthy stokin on your head and discolored boxers; your spouse might not be excited for you

10. MOCKERY OF HIS/HER BODY

If you talk badly about your spouse's weight, height, stomach, stretch marks, complexion, curves or lack there of, breasts, legs, penis, vagina, clitoris, butt... Don't expect your spouse to be so willing to give that body to you

11. YOUR EX

If you keep entertaining your ex and not paying attention to the discomfort this brings to your spouse, forget about a healthy sex-life. Why are you allowing your past to affect your present and future?

12. SECRETS

If you don't inform your spouse where you are from, if you keep things from your spouse, act suspicious and become overly defensive with your phone, if you no longer give your spouse information and disappear frequently, your spouse will start to trust you less. Lack of trust is a major turn off

13. ALCOHOL/ DRUGS

If your habits put off your spouse, you come home drunk, misbehave, smell of booze, miraa and cigarettes, lose yourself; this can easily turn off your spouse

14. YOUR FRIENDS

If your friends are the kind that your spouse is uncomfortable with and your spouse is right because these friends are misleading you, using you and wasting your time and money but you are in denial; your spouse might make love to you but not enjoy it

15. SEXUAL SELFISHNESS

If during sex it is all about you and your spouse's needs and pleasure don't matter, your spouse will be so fed up with sex. You might get your climax but your spouse is unhappy. You will notice because your spouse will rarely make sexual advances on selfish you

16. INSENSITIVITY

If you show utter disregard for your spouse's thoughts, feelings, suggestions, ideas and expectations in marriage; your spouse will be so fed up with you. People find someone who makes them feel like a life partner attractive

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You're Gonna Miss Her.

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You're gonna miss her when it’s 2:30 in the morning and you wake up from a bad dream, and she’s no longer there.

You're gonna miss her when you are no longer getting the random text messages telling you she loves you.

You're gonna miss her when you’ve had a bad day at work, and no one will listen to you talk about it like she did.

You're gonna miss her when you see her laughing with her friends, knowing you’re no longer the reason she has that smile on her face.

You're gonna miss her when it’s cold at night and the only things you have next to you is your phone and a few tangled sheets.

You're gonna miss her when you wanna cry and be in her arms again, but she doesn’t even glance at you when she passes by you on the street.

You're gonna miss her when you see her dancing and you’ll remember all the times she wanted to dance with you and you told her no.

You're gonna miss her when you find yourself talking about her all the time, and you’re not even on her mind anymore.

You're gonna miss her when the alcohol doesn’t get rid of the thoughts of her smiling in the moonlight on a cool winter night.

You're gonna miss her when she doesn’t answer your messages or phone calls anymore.

You're gonna miss her when you realize no one genuinely cared for you as much as she did.

You're gonna miss her when you go to reach for her hand and it’s no longer there.

You're gonna miss her when she doesn’t send you selfies and videos of her being goofy anymore.

You will miss her late at night when you’re laying there alone and you realise you have no one to talk to.

You're gonna miss her laughing that cute little laugh of hers that could stop and warm up anyone's heart having a bad day.

You're gonna miss it all.

But by the time you realise how much you miss and cared about her more than you’ve ever cared about anything, it will be too late.

She will be in the arms of another, giving them the love she gave to you.

She will be sharing that laugh with them and putting her soft lips on theirs.

She will be cradled in another’s arms

having new “our songs” with them and experiencing new places together.

That is when it’ll hit you the absolute hardest when this beautiful, once in a lifetime girl with the heart of gold, is long gone.

So take my advice and remember.... to take care of her, because life doesn't bless you with a good woman twice.

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The "Deluge Scene"

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This painting is called 'Deluge scene '

You see a person trying to save his father and completely ignoring his wife and kid (son) who are closer to him.

The wife represents the present life, the son the future and the grandfather on the other hand represents the past, which the man clings. Thus losing his present life and future. A perfect metaphor of what many go through on daily basis.

Scene of the deluge, 1827 by Joseph Désiré (1797-1865)

Apotheosis of knowledge

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The Secret That Lasts A Lifetime

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I interviewed a couple last week that just had their 60th wedding anniversary and I asked them one question.

"How does a beautiful couple like yourself keep such a healthy marriage for over 60 years?"

She told me, "Wait right here young man" and she went back to their bedroom and pulled something from a weathered roll top desk.

It was an old worn out Bible.

She said "This right here is what has got us through everything life has thrown at us for the past 60 years".

She went on about how it completely changed their lives and it taught them numerous things that should be a staple in all relationships this day and age, no matter how long you and your significant other have been together.

She said.....

We learned how to forgive each other.

We rebuilt trust when it was broken.

We always listened to one another.

We apologized for things when we were wrong.

We always made time for each other.

We learned how to communicate.

We always put one another first no matter the circumstance.

We never stopped dating each other.

We always told each other "I love you" before we went to bed.

We always prayed for each other daily.

We never made permanent decisions based on our temporary emotions.

She said... "This is just a few things the Bible has taught us".

I decided to ask her one last question.

I said, "After 60 years, are you worried about what tomorrow brings?"

She said something I'll never forget.

She said, "I trust the next chapter of our love story, because I know the author.

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Some Secret Of Successful Marriage

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This is a bit lenghty but worth reading

So many marriages are collapsing daily,let's learn some tips..we learn everyday

Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness

Third party influence

Stinginess

Stubbornness

Lack of love

Rudeness

Laziness

Secretiveness

Adultery

Malice

Uncontrolled anger

Disrespect

Cheating

_Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone._

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages.

Secret 7

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

So today pray for your marriage and ask God to help us where we are lacking in the marriage.

May God bless our homes

🙏💝🌷💝👏💝💰💝💌🌷🙏

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Elina_elin

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Consider adding more value to yourself as the year is running out..

Learn new things ,learn new skills,monitize the ones you have learnt,it's what you know how to do that will make way for you.

Learning is continuous,you are not too old to learn anything you want to learn.

Think about it

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27-year Old Yahoo Boy Arrested For Allegedly Beating His Undergraduate Girlfriend To Death In Ogun State.

Skin Treat: Night Time Skincare

Things That Turn Off Your Spouse Sexually

You're Gonna Miss Her.

The "Deluge Scene"

The Secret That Lasts A Lifetime

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