Of course, we are all human and can’t be good partners 100% of the time. *A good partner, however, will possess most of the qualities I shall be mentioning from today and will generally be someone who is happy with who they are and how they live their lives.* Once self-acceptance established, there is always more to give to others.

*1) They ignore past mistakes*

A good partner puts the past in perspective and doesn’t constantly bring up reminders from the past that serve no valuable purpose in the present. Such as something their partner did months or years earlier. Move on!

*2) They don’t compare*

The partner realizes that each person they date has strengths and weaknesses and refrains from comparing their current partner to their exes – especially unfavorably. Just because an ex was unfaithful does not mean that another partner will be so too.

*3) They understand the idea of ‘give and take’*

The partner is aware that all relationships need both partners to put in effort. It’s all about balance, about the give and take. If one person does all the taking, the imbalance will lead to problems. The person doing all the giving will end up resentful.

*4) They know the importance of time alone*

A good partner understands when they need space and a time out. A healthy relationship involves having interests outside the relationship, and spending too much time together can lead to a feeling of suffocation. Again, it’s all about balance.

*5) They prioritize communication*

The partner places communication as a high priority. Many if not most issues can be worked out if you have the ability to communicate with one another. Being able to talk openly and knowing you will be heard and not ignored or dismissed is vital for the longevity of a relationship.

*To be continued.*

*God bless you.*