HOW DO YOU KNOW WHO TO MARRY AND WHO NOT TO MARRY

I remember many years back deciding who to marry was really a though challenge for.me just like it is for so many youth today, the problem I had then was I am a "Ladies Man" so I had options...but as good as that may sound I know that making a mistake will spell doom for me so how did I settle this problem.

1. Know Yourself : how much of yourself do you know? Do you know your likes and dislikes? Do you know what you can accommodate/ not accommodate In your dream man or woman?

2. Vision : Do you know where you are going in life? If you know where you are going, that is your vision, you will know the right person to take along. If you have the mind to be a public figure and the person you want to marry don't like it ....then you don't need a soothsayer to tell you your choice needs review. I had a friend who told me the woman he wants to marry must be ready to relocate to his state because he had the mind to do politics and I tell you, yours truly got a woman that relocated out of Lagos with him. If you marry a man without vision, you will end up with television.

3. Don't marry a man/woman who doesn't have anyone they hold in high regard. Don't marry a man/woman who didn't have regard for elders. The truth is many women fall victim of this.. When they eventually marry and they have one or two challenges in their marrage, there is no one the husband respect that can talk him to caution. There must be somebody who should be able to caution your partner.

4. Don't marry someone you can't be proud of. Don't ever feel because you are aging the next thing is to marry any Tom, dDck and Harry that comes your way. You will regret it later.

5. Don't marry someone who is stingy. How else can I explain this? Someone who find it difficult to buy gift for you on you birthday, you went on a date together and he is expecting you to pay and this has been the regular thing.

6. Don't marry someone who doesn't respect his or her parents. A man or woman who doesn't respect their parents may not respect you.

7. Don't marry someone with low self-esteem. Someone with low self esteem may not tag along well with you....they read unnecessary meanings to your actions.

8. Don't marry and excessively angry man or woman. An angry man or woman is like a distructive wind.

Well....the list above is not  to be exhaustive but I want to believe I've tried a little...marriage is not a competition don't rush into it.