So do you ever look at some clothes and wonder who will buy them? 

 

What made you think nobody will buy them, because you don't like them right?.

 

A person's wardrobe has a lot to say about who they are. The way you dress talks about your individuality.

 

There are people who do not not care if Gucci starts selling shoes for as low as $1 they still wouldn't buy if it's not what they like. And these are the very opinionated people, the I don't care who is doing it I still wouldn't do it kind of people. When you're working with this kind of people, if they do not see your idea as productive, they'd rather drop a resignation letter than support you.

 

There are those who follow trends. If everyone is wearing it, they like it already. When you're working with this kind of people, they will support you even if they do not see your vision. They are just glad to be part of the project. And if it succeeds fine and if it doesn't fine.

 

What about the slayers. Those people you can never catch unfresh. Always have their high waist on, their make up on, their hair done. This kind of people cannot deal  with not getting enough attention. They want you to comment on their looks all the time. Just say something to them to make them feel good about themselves and you'll see productivity like never before.

 

Then the last set of people I want to talk about are those who have routine clothes, you can tell it's them coming from a distance because you've seen those clothes for so long that it's hard to imagine them in other clothes. This kind of people do not care about anything. They are not interested in your party or whatever get together you're organising don't waste your invite.

When you're working with this kind of people. They are always the first to come and last to leave.

 

Which one if them are you?

When things go wrong they blame every other person aside themselves. They blame the system that it wasn't designed to favour them, they blame their parents for not giving them the best lives. They blame their relatives for never coming through for them, they blame their schools, they just go on dividing this pie chart that reveals how everyone and everything is responsible for their life. But they refuse to look at the center. They never hold themselves accountable for anything.

My heart breaks for you that you had to survive a broken home to grow into who you are, I am saying sorry to you because of the trauma it left on you but then you didn't have to repeat the same pattern by bringing in another person into your life when you have not completely healed.

So when you start breaking hearts and inflicting pain on these people you start to blame your childhood trauma when obviously it was your choice not to take care of yourself first. Not to fill the empty parts of you and mend the broken parts of you before trying to fill up another person.

How can you blame the system for your failure?

Okay since you already know that this is what the system is, the most bizarre thing to allow happen is to let it fail you. How can you explain to us that you knew the plate of food was poisoned and still went ahead to eat it and tell us not to think that you wanted death for yourself?

Exactly, since you know the system so well, what measures did you take to make it work for you?

What I am asking is what did you do differently?

Before you blame them ask yourself what you had done differently from your father. What have you done differently from your teachers, what have you done differently from the previous generation that failed you.

That's the problem, we keep thinking and talking about what we could have done if we were this or that. But the real talk here is now that you are you what are you doing differently.