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TRUE LIFE STORY: The Man Who Suffered For The Sins Of His Wife
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Everything we do in life is greeted with consequences: which may be negative or positive. A popular adage says, whatsoever a man sows, same he will reap.
Here is a true life story. It is one certain Edoba Imafidon who got married to a lovely woman many years ago. They lived in a village called Okokhuo which is located in Edo state, Nigeria. They were both happy couples until something tragic happened.
The wife has given birth to four solid children. One would expect that a woman of her calibre should be a responsible one who would have the experience to counsel younger couples, but the reverse was the case. She started going after other men in a subtle manner, thus, it was unknown to the husband.
Traditional speaking, the consequence for this offence is quit an unfair one. In the sense that, if a woman is into adultery unknowingly to the man, he will have to pay for it with his life if he is not careful. Sometimes, it can start with minor sickness, which aggravates to a major sickness. And this sickness often defile all medical attention. As tine goes on, if the root cause is not known, he will have to go in for it through death.
The above was the case with Edoba Imafidon. He fell sick and died in the 16th of August, 2020.
It was after his death that it was discovered that the wife was promiscuous. Hence, she was driven out of his house.
If evil powers can bring this consequences upon man, what about God. Whatever is wrong is wrong.
May his gentle soul rests in peace.
Here is a true life story. It is one certain Edoba Imafidon who got married to a lovely woman many years ago. They lived in a village called Okokhuo which is located in Edo state, Nigeria. They were both happy couples until something tragic happened.
The wife has given birth to four solid children. One would expect that a woman of her calibre should be a responsible one who would have the experience to counsel younger couples, but the reverse was the case. She started going after other men in a subtle manner, thus, it was unknown to the husband.
Traditional speaking, the consequence for this offence is quit an unfair one. In the sense that, if a woman is into adultery unknowingly to the man, he will have to pay for it with his life if he is not careful. Sometimes, it can start with minor sickness, which aggravates to a major sickness. And this sickness often defile all medical attention. As tine goes on, if the root cause is not known, he will have to go in for it through death.
The above was the case with Edoba Imafidon. He fell sick and died in the 16th of August, 2020.
It was after his death that it was discovered that the wife was promiscuous. Hence, she was driven out of his house.
If evil powers can bring this consequences upon man, what about God. Whatever is wrong is wrong.
May his gentle soul rests in peace.
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TWO QUESTIONS TO ASK YOURSELF BEFORE YOU AGREE TO PREMARITAL SEX
~2.2 mins read
Dear single ladies, just before you agree to that sex outside of marriage, ask yourself the following questions:j
1. AM I READY FOR ANY PREGNANCY NOW?
Oh, you may say both of you can use protection. I agree with you but trust me, one of you will want it real and raw after a while and you cannot be too careful on the wrong path. You cannot be too careful when living in sin. I have had ladies say that after a while, he insisted on having sex without condoms. Of course, it will get to that point. What were you expecting?
Pregnancy outside wedlock is not what you want to carry in your father's house. It is not what you want to bother your parents with. It should not be the trophy you are bringing home for all their labours over you. If you get pregnant in marriage, then it would be a trophy but outside wedlock, it is a dishonour to them.
Pregnancy is a painful journey that requires the presence of your husband to share your burdens. In the absence of a husband, who do you want to turn to? Your parents? You will need somebody to tell you sorry, somebody to stand by you when the challenges of pregnancy come. Your parents won't do that meaning you may have to bear the consequences of your actions alone. Are you really ready for that?
What if the man runs away after discovering you are pregnant? Who bears the medical bills before, during and after delivery? If the delivery is by C/S who bears the cost? Your parents? That will be cruel of you if you expect your parents to do that. I have seen women detained in govt hospitals because the man ran away. They had to be engaged to clean the hospital until they are released by the hospital management except somebody pays their medical bills
So, think it deeply before opening your legs.
2. AM I READY FOR THE CHALLENGES OF MOTHERHOOD OUTSIDE WEDLOCK?
Motherhood is serious business. It is not easy in marriage let alone having to deal with it alone. Ask single mothers what they go through to take care of themselves and a child or children and ask yourself again if you're ready for it. Always count the cost before embarking on any journey.
Don't let any man put you in a family way and run away. If he is sincere about his love for you, he will wait, marry you properly before making you the mother of his children. He will not be in a hurry for sex.
Please, wait and get it right. Your own husband will find you and marry you. Let those looking for pleasure without marriage in view go their way. Don't be enticed by their sweet words because those words are "sweet nothings".
In reality, it is weightier than what I have painted above. So, be wise dear single ladies. May God guide you all even as you keep yourself in Jesus name, amen.
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