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Anthonyjoy23

End Sars!End Police Brutality!!
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For those who haven't been harrased or brutalized by the police before let me share one of my numerous encounter.
I remembered driving to Abuja with one of my pastors around 5am. We got to a police check point around Berger. After showing them valid ID and uptodate car documents.
We were still arrested and taken to the station.
When asked why are we been arrested?
One of the police said to me "*BECAUSE YOU LOOK LIKE A YAHOO BOY*" and he was still threatening me saying he will show me.
Our luggages was thoroughly searched
Our laptops and phones were collected and thoroughly checked.
After checking for hours and couldn't find anything to use against us. They asked us to pay some certain amount of money before we can leave the station.
In my own country, I was harrassed, threatened and extorted by the police without committing any crime.
This is a war against police brutality and illegal killing.
I am a Tech Expert, I am not a CRIMINAL
#endsars NOW!
Enough is Enough
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Anthonyjoy23

Conflicts&God's Will
~3.3 mins read
Topic : *Conflicts & God's will.*
*What Is Conflict?*
Conflict simply means *misunderstanding, disagreement or fight*
*What is God's will*ðŸ˜â“
God's will simply means *his Choice & his best for us*
In relationship or marriage,God has his best for us . His best choice, his best partner.
*God Don't just want us to be in a relationship, he wants us to be in the best relationship with the best fiance or fiancee*
He don't want us to get married but desires that we married the best
Conflicts management is necessary in relationship or marriage.
So many singles have lost their God's ordain husband or wife to be because of unresolved conflict.
Lots of singles have lost their potential husband or wife to be because of unresolved conflict.
Unresolved conflict can hinder God's will for you.As a single, God may send your husband or wife to be but unresolved conflict can make both of you not fulfilling God's will for your lifeYou can't be in a relationship or marriage without conflict or misunderstanding.it is inevitable.
You can't avoid conflict but you can manage it & always resolve it.Misunderstanding that most of us encounters in our relationship or marriage is an indication that we are humans & can make mistakes.
Being in a relationship is not the problem but managing conflict & resolving it is what matters.
Most people encountered conflict but their inability to resolve it ended their relationship or marriage.
*THE RESULT OF UNRESOLVED CONFLICT*
1. It can hinder God's will for not fulfilling in your life, relationship or marriage.
2. It makes you to lost potential fiance or fiancee.
3 It can make you to lose valuable things.
4. Unresolved conflict can block your blessings.
5.it can deny you access to divine revelation that will enhance your relationship or marriage & make it successful.
*CAUSES OF CONFLICT IN RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE*
1, lust of the flesh.sex before marriage.
When your person is pressurizing you for sex, it can cause misunderstanding.
2. Disrespect can cause conflict.
3. Lack of submission
4. Satan and his demons can cause conflict in relationship or marriage to set the two parties apart.
5. Disobedient can cause conflict.
6.Hatred can cause conflict.
7. Unforgiveness can cause conflict
8. Dating the wrong person can also cause conflict.
9.Inability to be submissive & take advice can cause conflict.
10. Excessive anger can cause conflict.
11. Always want to win every argument can cause conflict.
12 . Cheating your partner.
13. Inability to change your bad habits can cause conflict.
14.Being self-centered & selfish can cause conflict.
Always want it to end your way & when it didn't, it becomes double wahala
15. Being Proud can cause conflict.
*THINGS THAT WILL HELP YOU RESOLVE CONFLICT IN RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE*
1.Don't be proud, be humble.
2. Don't let your ego be bigger than your relationship or marriage.
3.Don't be too pompous to say *I was wrong, am so sorry, please for give me*
4. Respect each other & bear one another's burden.
5. Always put your relationship/marriage in prayer.
6. What you won't like your partner to do to you, don't do it to him or her
7. Don't go to bed without resolving your issues.
8. Have a forgiven heart and forgive always.
9.Don't do anything that will contradict the scripture & use it as the only divine manual for a successful relationship or marriage.
10. Understand your partner weakness & strengthen him or her.
Never you use your partner weakness against him or her.
Finally, an unresolved conflict can break relationship or marriage. We have so many broken relationship & marriage nowadays because of unresolved conflict.
May God give you the wisdom to resolve conflict & secure your relationship or marriage in Jesus name.
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