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Anthonyjoy23
Relationship
~2.0 mins read
It is called a RELATIONSHIP, not an OCCUPATION,
Relationship is not a Hustle.
You know you don't owe a Man your BODY in a Relationship until he marries you, in the same vain, no Man owes you his WALLET until you are married to him.
To avoid all this plenty talk and see finish,
1) Get a Job as a Lady.
Earn something, no matter how little and be able to take care of your immediate needs.
Seek basic financial independence.
2) As a Lady in a Relationship, no matter how little, buy gifts for the Young Man, even if it is N500 tie or t-shirt, or a sandal.
Once in a while, take him out.. Even if it is Malt N250 and Meatpie N300,
Even if it is N100 recharge card, buy and send him.
If you don't have a Job yet, SAVE FROM the money he gives you, and use it to get something for him. That's Wisdom..
Prove to him that you don't only know how to RECEIVE, you can also GIVE.
Earn your self respect.
3) STOP demanding Money from him as if he is an Atm.
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Sometimes let him see you trying to solve your financial challenges without involving him.
Your birthday is coming, and you are demanding that he should throw you a party, or he should buy you an iPhone 12 as a gift.
Remember, he is neither your Husband nor your Father.
If he decides to throw you a party, fine. His choice..
I'll be blunt with you, ladies who DEMAND Money/Things from their Men are giving their Men something in za oda room... That's what gives them such effontery. This is the gospel truth. But this isn't kingdom Pattern. So use sense to ask him for money.
4) Trash the idea of "His Money is OUR Money, My Money is MY Money"
You work, and you use your own salary for ONLY yourself, or you are saving your own salary, and expecting him to spend his own to take care of you both. You are wicked and selfish.
When you act like this, always collecting, never contributing (financially), you make Men begin to see you as burdens, and demand for something in return for all the financial responsibilities they are saddled with for dating you.
Prove them wrong, don't be a Burden.
Even if you don't end up doing so, show that you CAN carry your weight.
If you don't have at all at all, it's a different case.
If you do, do the needful....
A RELATIONSHIP is not a SOLE PROPRIETORSHIP (for the Man alone) but a COLLABORATIONSHIP.
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Anthonyjoy23
Choice Making
~4.3 mins read
*TOPIC:WHy_You_Should_Allowed_The_Holy_Spirit_To_LEAD_YOU_In_Your_CHOICE_MAKING*.

Most singles don't see the essentiality of involving or allowing the holy Spirit to lead them in their relationship or choice making. 

They flet that is not important or essential. They flet that all they need is to see who they like or who like them. 

Hear me, it is not about who you like or who likes you. It is not about who you love or who loves 🎀💓💓💓🎀you. Relationship or marriage is more & bigger than that. 

During the earthly ministry of Jesus Christ, Judas Iscariot professed to LOVE 🎀💓💓💓🎀 Jesus Christ but betrayed him at last because of money. 

Was his love 🎀💓💓💓🎀for Christ genuine at first? Yes. What happened & why did he betrayed Him at last? 

Let's move on, I will answer the question. He truly love Christ in the beginning but something when wrong at last. 

Lots of single & married , have been murdered,betrayed, frustrated, castigated, disappointed, panel beated, disfigured & buried in the name of love, relationship or marriage. 

Recently, a Ghanaian pastor shot his wedded wife after so many years, they have lived together & professed love for each other. 

Do they like or love themselves at the beginning? Yes.💯💯💯 then what went wrong? 

Let's find out. 

They love themselves at the beginning but *CIRCUMSTANCES, DEMONS, SITUATIONS & THE ISSUES OF LIFE* beyond their control might have *CHANGED* them to see themselves as *ENEMIES*.

No longer husband & wife. They no longer see love but hatred.They no longer call each other pet names but mama OKAY & PAPA JUDE. 

So many people have been *BATTERED & MURDERED* in marriage. Nowadays we hear cases where a husband killed the wife or where a wife killed the husband. 

What actually happened 📍❓ 

A married woman working in a local government with her husband, killed her husband, killed her 3 children & drank poison & died. 

Domestic violence have taken the life of so many people in marriage & relationship 

You see those husbands & wives that started in love but ended in *DOMESTIC VIOLENCE,HATRED, COURT CASES,SEPARATION,DIVORCE* etc. Do they love themselves at first ? Yes. . 

Then what went wrong? 

1, Some allowed their FIRST LOVE 🎀💓💓💓🎀 to fade away. They allowed it to die. They allowed it to decrease instead to increase. 

2 They failed to polish it, nurture it & make it shine regularly. 

3. They are prayerless & sleep a lot. They too relax without praying for the success & sustainance of their marriage. 

The Bible says, that when men *SLEPT, THE ENEMY* came & sow evil seed. 

*SLEPT* in this aspect means, *PRAYEELESSNESS,SPIRITUAL LAZINESS & WEAKNESS*. 

When singles & married ones *RELAXED & hope *EVERYTHING* will work out itself in their relationship or marriage, the enemy will take *ADVANTAGE* of that to work against the relationship or marriage. 

When men and women in relationship, in love or in marriage are prayerless, they enemy will come & take away their love and *PLANT HATRED*. They will take away their joy and *PLANT DISRESPECT, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ETC* 

By then, the couples that started in love will become to *ACCUSE,SUSPECT & HATE* each other. They will begin to plan evil against each other. They will begin to curse & lay false accusations against each other. In the beginning, it was not so. 

Singles, there are some people now that profess love to you, that circumstances, demons & life challenges will change to hate & fight you in future & that is why you have to allow the holy spirit to lead you now to avoid such people because they will destroy you in future. 

Now they are good but circumstances can turn them into  LION'S & TIGERS in future. You need to avoid them 

*WHY SHOULD YOU ALLOWED* *THE HOLY SPIRITTO LEAD ME IN MY CHIOCE MAKING*? 

1. To avoid choosing the wrong person. 

2. To avoid choosing someone that will profess love to you NOW but BETRAY OR MURDER you in FUTURE. 

3. So that you will choose the RIGHT PERSON. 

4. So that you won't choose another person partner . 

5. So that you won't choose a *SATANIC or DEMONIC AGENT* that will FLOG you at night and join you to cry in the morning. 

6. So that you will choose your *DESTINY HELPER , VISION BUILDER* & not a vision killer or destroyer. 

7. So that you will ENJOY your marriage on earth not *ENDURING IT*. lots of people are enduring instead of enjoying. 

Marriage was made to be Enjoyed not Endured. 

8. So that God will protect your marriage & make it successful. 

*WHAT_DO_WE_DO_TO_OVERCOME_ENEMIES_TRAP*? 

1. Totally submit yourself, choice marriage & relationship to the Holy Spirit & allowed Him to direct you. 

He will never direct you to someone that will love you today &  betray or murder you in future. 

God choice is the best. He sees your hundred years from now. He knows your end from the beginning & will never lead you to the wrong person. 

2. Choose prayerfully, wisely, carefully & purposefully. 

3. Don't focus only on spirituality , consider other aspects. Character, compatibility etc. 

Most importantly let The Holy spirit leads you. Love, wealth alone can't  SUSTAIN your marriage, you need GOD. 

*Bishop Dr Sam Ibezim*
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Anthonyjoy23
The Power In You.
~1.7 mins read
We were born with nothing nor even value. But we could add value to our lives and create extraordinary things if only we truly learn and make use of the power which God has deposited in us naturally.
*You are born to win, lead, successful and supersede everything which God has created here on Earth. But you can't achieve all those things that I have mentioned above without you understanding who you are. If you truly want to create impact to the world, first discover yourself and your potentials which God has deposited in you.*
As far as life is concerned, there is nothing here on Earth is hard or simple to do, it all depends on how you handle the situation that is at hand. Even if you want to do the most hardest in the world, if you truly committed and serious about it, it will still become the most simplest thing to do. And the same thing is still applies to the simplest thing. *Even the most simplest thing in the world, if you don't serious about it while doing it, it will still become a difficult thing to do*. So it's all about your determinations and commitment that will give the outcome of your work.
*Do not let your visions and aspirations to be abandoned, if you truly put your dreams into actions and actualize them, the world around you will benefit from them and as a result, your name will never be forgotten again. Because you have impacted lives with your dreams and actions. Be a person of confident, charisma and bring your mental pictures into the reality of life so that other people would benefit from you.*
No matter how difficult the road seems to be, try and trespass on it to the end in order to achieve your gold that is waiting for you. *If you truly know the worth of success, you will realize that giving up is never an option for you.* So stay motivated and believe in yourself that one-day your mental pictures will turn to reality.
*Therefore, go and make it happen, the world is waiting for your story and your contributions. There's no limit of what you can be in life, unless you singlehandedly place a limit for yourself. So do not let that power to die inside of you, because you are a legend to the world.
*Beautiful afternoon
               
       
 
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Anthonyjoy23
To All Ladies
~2.1 mins read
*To all ladies*.
*Married and Singles* 
*Young and adult*
*Listen up ladies*


Don't be the wife that stands by her husband in times of problems, rather be that wife that gets  problems out of his way,why stand by him in solidarity when you can kneel & do the needful?
#ThePrayingWife

He called you & said; Honey, I just lost the contract that we invested all our savings on.
Don't start shouting; What?
How manage?
What happened?
Oh my God!

Just tell him; it is OK Darling, we will find the lost contract and go on your knees,
get the contract back 4 him!
*ThePrayingWife*

You married a Pastor?
Don't wait until scandal has eaten him up b4 standing by him,
 stay at d gate!
No Jezebel should get your king!
*ThePrayingQueen*

After years of marriage, nothing changed positively in your home? Then retreat, get on your knees, as a wife, you are a good thing & whoever finds you walked into favor with God.
*TheWailingWife*

Deborah was not just a wife, she was a prophetess, a judge & a warrior.
*WarriorOnKnees*

Even if you think you married an idiot "in your ignorance", don't die lamenting.
Get on your knees and restore his head back to factory setting.
You can't be wrong twice!
 *TheWailingWife* 

Its is good to package so that he won't cheat, 
It is good to cook well so that he won't look outside,
It is 'gooder' to be submissive so that he adores you, but it is 'goodest' to kneel on his behalf until you ward off danger.

As a wife, slay in the kitchen,
Slay in the bedroom,
Slay in your dress sense,
Slay in your intelligence,
But *slay more on your knees.* 

*Be your husband's prayer alarm*.

Until your son says; I want a wife as my mother, you didn't get it right as a mother!
*TheVirtousWife*

No matter how romantic you are, if you are not romantic in the place of prayer, get ready for rheumatism.
*GetOnYourKnees*

Woman, you are not just a wife and a mother, you are also a minister!
Let your lips be painted with prayer not the lipstick!
If you know the power of praying the word, you will keep your territory under intense heat.

Be your husband's retreat center.

Be a good woman indeed!

You will not fail as a woman, mother and wife in marriage in Jesus name. Amen

Send to every woman.
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Anthonyjoy23
Holy Spirit And Power
~2.7 mins read
*In my country, Nigeria, Ibo men are looking for money... And they have it...*

*Yoruba men are looking for education...*
*And they have it...*

*Hausa men are looking for power...*
*And they have it...*

*But the Hausa men are controlling both those with money and those with certificates...*

*A man in power can control a man with money and with degrees...*

*You can hate a man with power...*
*But you are still under him...*

*You can speak grammar more than him...*
*But you are still under him...*

*Just one decision he will make can affect your source of money...*

*If he gets angry and effects a policy, all your degrees might be useless in your hands...*

*That is why all Jesus promised His disciples was not money or scholarships...*

*But He said: "And ye shall receive power..."*

*Because He understands that there are powers...*

*Don't just pray for promotion in the office ..*
*Pray for promotion in the school of Power...*

*They can raise your salary, yet, a 9-year old girl with demonic powers can be controlling how you spend the salary...*

*Your father might have ended the way he did because of powers that fought him...*

*What your family is passing through might be because of inherited powers ...*

*Thank God for your degrees and business ideas...*

*But ma/sir, look for the Power of God ...*

*As you go to church  don't ask God for money as usual ...*

*Cry to God for His Power...*

*How far could the Apostles have gone in life without the endowment of the Power from on High? ...*

*Can you see why Jesus told them not to move an inch without the power?...*

*Don't you think that what you are going through in that business or marriage is because you went in without the power of God?...*

*You need the Power of God...*

*If you are reading this, God might be depending on you to change the condition of your family...*

*School degrees and business ideas might have failed...*

*Can you cry to God for His power this day? ..*

*Unless you are not tired of so many negative things playing out around you...*

*If they told you that you have no battles after Calvary, they did not tell you the whole truth...*

*After being born again, the real battles began...*
*And it won't stop until we leave this earth...*

*Jesus has gone to the Cross to purchase our victory...*

*But with that, we must enforce our victory in the place of prayer...*

*If we fail in the place of prayer, we have failed everywhere...*

*I am in the mood to cry to God this day ...*
  *listen my friend, you need power for service(Act 1:8) and even in family,* *husband will try to exercise his power*. 
*Can you spare some minutes or hours to cry to God this day?*

*If He heard the Apostles, I am sure that today, He can also fall upon us by His power...*

POWER IS ALL WE NEED
 *If you are ready.*
*Then, let us pray for God's power.*🙏🙏

    🥝 *SHALOM!*🥝
  *If what is written here is truth and I permit you to send it across the globe*.
   ðŸ¤ðŸ”¥
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Anthonyjoy23
Great Minds
~0.5 mins read
*1. Nothing makes life sweeter than making people happy*
*2. The people you help today become your  soldiers in the battle of life tomorrow*
*3. To invest in properties is good but to invest in people is far far better.*
*4. Try to make money, but try also to make people great.*
*5. Your greatest trophies are the tears you wipe away from people's faces not the things you acquire.*
*6. Your greatest achievement should be raising achievers.*
*7. People will defend, stand by you & honour you when they realise you value them*
*8. Don't let an ingrate stop you from making others Great.*

*GREAT MINDS*
*WE THINK ALIKE.*
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Anthonyjoy23
Conflicts&God's Will
~3.1 mins read

Topic : *Conflicts & God's will.*

         *What Is Conflict?*

Conflict simply means *misunderstanding, disagreement or fight*

*What is God's will*😐❓
God's will simply means *his Choice & his best for us*

In relationship or marriage,God has his best for us . His best choice, his best partner. 

*God Don't just want us to be in a relationship, he wants us to be in the best relationship with the best fiance or fiancee*

He don't want us to get married but desires that we married the best
Conflicts management is necessary in relationship or marriage. 

So many singles have lost their God's ordain husband or wife to be because of unresolved conflict. 
Lots of singles have lost their potential husband or wife to be because of unresolved conflict.
Unresolved conflict can hinder God's will for  you.As a single, God may send your husband or wife to be but unresolved conflict can make both of you not fulfilling God's will for your life
You can't be in a relationship or marriage without conflict or misunderstanding.it is inevitable. 
You can't avoid conflict but you can manage it & always resolve it.Misunderstanding that most of us encounters in our relationship or marriage is an indication that we are humans & can make mistakes. 

Being in a relationship is not the problem but managing conflict & resolving  it is what matters. 

Most people encountered conflict but their inability to resolve it ended their relationship or marriage. 

*THE RESULT OF UNRESOLVED CONFLICT*

1. It can hinder God's will for not fulfilling in your life, relationship or marriage. 

2. It makes you to lost potential fiance or fiancee. 

3 It can make you to lose valuable things. 

4. Unresolved conflict can block your blessings. 

5.it can deny you access to divine revelation that will enhance your relationship or marriage & make it successful.
*CAUSES OF CONFLICT IN RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE*

1, lust of the flesh.sex before marriage. 

When your person is pressurizing you for sex, it can cause misunderstanding. 

2. Disrespect can cause conflict. 

3. Lack of submission 

4. Satan and his demons can cause conflict in relationship or marriage to set the two parties apart.
5. Disobedient can cause conflict. 

6.Hatred can cause conflict. 

7. Unforgiveness can cause conflict
8. Dating the wrong person can also cause conflict. 

9.Inability to be submissive & take advice can cause conflict. 

10. Excessive anger can cause conflict. 

11. Always want to win every argument        can cause conflict.
12 . Cheating your partner. 

13. Inability to change your bad habits can cause conflict.
14.Being self-centered & selfish can cause conflict. 
Always want it to end your way & when it didn't, it becomes double wahala
15. Being Proud can cause conflict.
*THINGS THAT WILL HELP YOU RESOLVE CONFLICT IN RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE*

1.Don't be proud, be humble. 

2. Don't let your ego be bigger than your relationship or marriage. 

3.Don't be too pompous to say *I was wrong, am so sorry, please for give me*

4. Respect each other & bear one another's burden. 

5. Always put your relationship/marriage in prayer. 

6. What you won't like your partner to do to you, don't do it to him or her
7. Don't go to bed without resolving your issues. 
8. Have a forgiven heart and forgive always.
9.Don't do anything that will contradict the scripture & use it as the only divine manual for a successful relationship or marriage.
10. Understand your partner weakness & strengthen him or her. 

Never you use your partner weakness against him or her.

Finally, an unresolved conflict can break relationship or marriage. We have so many broken relationship & marriage nowadays because of unresolved conflict. 
May God give you the wisdom to resolve conflict & secure your relationship or marriage in Jesus name.
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Anthonyjoy23
Smart Guy 🤣😱
~1.0 mins read
Smart Guy!!! 🤣🤣🤣😱😂😂😂

He promised her 20k last week as they were chatting on WhatsApp. She came to Abuja to visit him and stayed two nights. On d 3rd day she's leaving she demanded for the 20k he promised her. He told her that he was leaving for Minna ASAP. That he had an unexpected but urgent engagement. He gave her his ATM Card to withdraw all she wanted (Knowing fully well that he had just 5k In his Account).
As soon as she kissed him goodbye, he quickly left the house knowing she would come back to him crying. As he was driving past Zuba, his colleague in the office called him on phone saying; "Paddy mi, you don see the alert? I Just dey comot from bank oooo! I don pay that 100k wey I bin owe you into ur account, Thanks a million!
Meeen........... See Sweat!!! as he got the alert! Confirm 100k Credited into his account. He was almost paralysed as the money entered. He tried calling her phone.... Switched Off.
Tried SMS, PING!!! PING!!! No Delivery. The Next minute.......... Alerts:
20k Debited,
20k Debited,
20k debited,
20k debited,
20k debited. Leaving only d last 5k.
He couldn't recollect what happened to him, but he regained consciousness on a hospital bed. Now they are asking him what happened?
What Will he tell them??? 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

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