POISON THAT KILLS MEN

Once upon a time a beautiful girl got tired of her marriage life and wanted to murder her spouse.

One morning she ran to her mother and say to her " mother, I am tired of my husband I can no longer support his nonsense. I want to kill him but I am afraid Law of the land will hold me responsible, can you please help me mother?"

The mother answered:

- Yes my daughter I can help you, but, there is a little task attached.

The daughter asked "what task? I am willing and ready to assume any task attached in order to get him out"

OK, said the mother,

1..You will have to make peace with him, so that no one will suspect you when he is dead.

2.. You will have to beautify yourself in order to look young and attractive to him

3.. You have to take good care of him and be very nice and appreciative to him

4.. You have to be patient, loving and less jealous, have more listening ears, be more respectful and obedient

5. Spend your money for him and don’t get angry even when he rto give you money for whatever

6. Don’t raise your voice against but encourage Peace and love so that you will never be suspected when he must have died.

Can you do all of that?

Asked the mother.

Yes i can. She replied

OK, said the mother.

Take this powder and pour a bit in his every day meal, it will slowly kill him.

After 30 days the lady came back to her mother and said.

Mother, I have no intention of killing my husband again. As of now I have grown to love him because he has completely changed, he is now a very sweet husband than I ever imagined.

What can i do to stop the poison from killing him?

Please help me mother.

She pleaded in a sorrowful tone.

The mother answered;

Do not worry my daughter. What I gave you the other day was just Tumeric Powder. It will never kill him.

In reality, you were the poison that was slowly killing your husband with tension and dispassion.

It was when you started loving, honouring and cherishing him that you saw him change to a nice and sweet husband.

Men are not really wicked, but our way of relating with them determines their responses and feelings towards us.

Women if you can only show respect, dedication, love, care and commitment to your husband he will 100% be there for you. ❤️

I heard of a true life story of two love birds that got married. The wife was very wealthy and influential. She handed everything she had into the hands of her husband because of the love she had for him.

First year into the marriage, the husband said was not ready to start having babies that they should hold on and enjoy some long honey moon. The wife obliged and went to do family planning. 

First year passed, second year and even the third. Every time the wife talked about giving birth, the husband would insist that they should still hold on. 

The wife usually go to visit her husband's family, and she made it a habit to go there with loads of gifts. Once they see her, they know that enough goodies have arrived. 

One of the days she went to her husband's family house, her husband's sister excused her and told her that they should go and talk inside her car. 

The woman said she would like to tell her a secret about her husband (her own brother) but she must first promise that she would not tell her husband about whatever they discuss, and the woman agreed. 

She told her that her husband has another wife somewhere else and the wife already has three children for him. 

She also told her that her husband has put all plans in place to relocate with his secret wife and children in few days time. 

She said her conscience didn't let her keep quiet because she has been so kind to her and the entire family, so she had to tell her the truth and free her conscience. 

The poor woman thanked her sister-in-law and left. When she got home, she went straight into their bedroom and searched everywhere. She found a brief case filled with dollar notes, original documents of her houses, businesses and other establishments, and 5 international passports and air tickets (Her husband's own, the unknown wife and the three children) 

The woman hid the briefcase containing the cash and documents and acted like nothing happened. 

When the husband returned from work in the evening, she served him his food and they went to bed peacefully. 

When the man slept, the woman took his phone and started checking. She found out that all the businesses they established and houses they bought after they got married actually matched with the names of the man's children. As in, the man would suggest that they buy properties in the name of their unborn children, whereas the names he suggested to the woman were the same names of the children he has with the hidden wife. So the man has been using this woman's money to buy properties for his undisclosed children. 

The woman also saw all the money transactions and the country he planned to relocate to, where he would start a new life with his family after they have left her dry and empty...Let's leave the story here.

Please, this is not a fairy tale oo, it is not movie, it happened. It was a lawyer that shared with me, that the case was brought to one of her colleagues. 

Now, the reason why I am sharing this story is because I feel things had gotten out of hand before this poor woman got to know what was going on. If she had checked her husband's phone earlier, he wouldn't have been able to rip her of all her possessions. 

This is my own unpopular opinion:

✓ In marriage, two has become one and what God has joined together, nothing should put asunder, not even phones or any secret. Couples should be "naked" before each other. Nakedness is beyond not putting on clothes. 

✓Couples should be transparent enough to allow their partners touch their phones and other gadgets. 

✓ Any woman who is married to a man who categorically tells her that she must not touch his phone must be very careful. What if the husband and his side chic are planning to poison her and then she moves in and they live happily ever after? 🙄🙄

I really think anyone who has a husband/wife that makes it obvious that his/her phone is a no go area has something serious to worry about. In fact, I really think such person should find how to check the phone because his/her life may be in danger. 

✓I understand that every marriage is unique in their own approach to these things, but then, any man who does not want his wife to touch his phone ought to give the wife a genuine and convincing reason, and this reason has to be true, and both parties must give consent. 

Abeg, nobody should ask me how the story ended oo 🙄🙄🙄 

The focus is on whether or not couples should touch each other's phone.

Please let's hear your opinion, should wives touch their husband's phone and vice versa?

Why or why not?

©John Adesogan