Duru A young lady identified as Vanessa Jules is heartbroken after finding out that her boyfriend got her mother pregnant In an emotional video, Vanessa narrated how she found out about the sad development while on a trip to Mexico The lady said she got hurt by her mother who happens to be the most important woman in her life.

A young lady, Vanessa Jules, has lamented on social media after she discovered that her mum was not only having an affair with her boyfriend but is now pregnant for him. A heartbroken Vanessa made a series of videos on TikTok detailing how she found out about the affair and what she did next. Vanessa feels betrayed by her mum's action. 

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1. AFFAIRS

Nothing makes your spouse stop wanting to make love to you like finding out you are having an affair. Your spouse will be too disgusted and hurt by you to desire you 

2. UNRESOLVED ISSUES 

If you keep running away from addressing the issues your spouse is raising, your spouse will struggle to give you his/her body 

3. BAD ATTITUDE

No matter how sexy you look and how amazing your sexual game is, your spouse will not want you sexually if you are rude, difficult, disrespectful, entitled and stressful 

4. EMOTIONAL ABUSE 

If you keep telling your spouse hurtful words and don't seem to care, your spouse will hold back his/her body. It is difficult to surrender your body to someone who hurts you 

5. NEGLECT

If you act like you don't bother about your spouse, you ignore your spouse all day and for weeks only to remember your spouse when you are horny; your spouse will not be sexually interested in you, you chose to be a stranger and reduced your spouse to loneliness 

6. CRUDE WORDS 

If you are the kind of person who uses vulgar language... "I want to "F*ck you", "Give me that p*ssy", "Suck my d*ck"; but your spouse finds this indecent and cheapening of love making, your spouse will be turned off

7. "KNOW IT ALL" MINDSET 

Love making is about learning your spouse. If you act as if you know everything about sex and your spouse tries to show you how he/she likes it but you bring your ego to bed; your spouse will switch off 

8. LACK OF HYGIENE 

Love making involves a lot of body fluids and the use of senses. If you are the type who doesn't shower, doesn't shave to neatness, doesn't brush your teeth, wears the same underwear for days and smells of sweat; your spouse will struggle to desire you 

9. POOR VISUAL STIMULATION 

If you don't bother about how you look. You care more about how you dress in public but at home you wear worn out branded T-shirts, out-dated underwear, filthy stokin on your head and discolored boxers; your spouse might not be excited for you 

10. MOCKERY OF HIS/HER BODY

If you talk badly about your spouse's weight, height, stomach, stretch marks, complexion, curves or lack there of, breasts, legs, penis, vagina, clitoris, butt... Don't expect your spouse to be so willing to give that body to you 

11. YOUR EX

If you keep entertaining your ex and not paying attention to the discomfort this brings to your spouse, forget about a healthy sex-life. Why are you allowing your past to affect your present and future?

12. SECRETS

If you don't inform your spouse where you are from, if you keep things from your spouse, act suspicious and become overly defensive with your phone, if you no longer give your spouse information and disappear frequently, your spouse will start to trust you less. Lack of trust is a major turn off 

13. ALCOHOL/ DRUGS

If your habits put off your spouse, you come home drunk, misbehave, smell of booze, miraa and cigarettes, lose yourself; this can easily turn off your spouse 

14. YOUR FRIENDS

If your friends are the kind that your spouse is uncomfortable with and your spouse is right because these friends are misleading you, using you and wasting your time and money but you are in denial; your spouse might make love to you but not enjoy it

15. SEXUAL SELFISHNESS 

If during sex it is all about you and your spouse's needs and pleasure don't matter, your spouse will be so fed up with sex. You might get your climax but your spouse is unhappy. You will notice because your spouse will rarely make sexual advances on selfish you 

16. INSENSITIVITY 

If you show utter disregard for your spouse's thoughts, feelings, suggestions, ideas and expectations in marriage; your spouse will be so fed up with you. People find someone who makes them feel like a life partner attractive 

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