1. Peace of mind

One of the major reasons guys especially look outside is a lack of peace of mind with their partner. If you as a lady keeps giving him so much headache, he may be forced to look elsewhere.

2. Friendship

Many persons overlook this singular tool in their relationship. However, friendship and companionship with your partner will, to a large extent, drive away thoughts of cheating from them. When they think about hurting you and ruining your friendship, they will not want to cheat.

3. The God factor

Whether you believe it or not, only a man subject to the government and influence of the Holy Spirit will be able to stay away from cheating when every other measure has failed. Pray that your partner will encounter the Lord and align to His ways.

Here are some tips to diffuse a fight with your partner:

1. Take a break

 

Step up and take a break if you notice things getting out of hand. This can be taking a short break to use the restroom, wash your face, take a few deep breaths, and then return to the conversation. The trick is to know when things are getting a little out of hand and to leave before you say anything you'll later regret.

2. Patiently Listen to them

To understand more about what is irking your partner, try to stay quiet and listen to them. This makes it simpler to diffuse conflict in the moment and also prevent argument in the future. This is so because many disputes start on petty issues, but the source of the conflict is very different.

3. Show physical love

Stop and kiss, or even beg for a hug from your partner. A hug and the words, "I still love you" can significantly help to defuse a disagreement. Sometimes just acknowledging that you love each other and want things to work can help settle the case.

4. Get humorous

 

The use of joke to defuse an argument is one of the best ways that frequently works for couples. Even if it looks stupid, there's no doubt that it may help you refocus. Make a joke, make a funny face look or simply do things that will make your partner laugh.

5. Apologize

Apologizing doesn't mean you're going to change your mind about the point of contention. It simply means you are aware that your current behavior isn't the most effective method to handle the situation. Sometimes you just have to say you're sorry for arguing in a harsh way or even for not communicating well.