When will Most Mothers start knowing that there is Teenage masturbation, lesbianism and homosexuality amongst teenagers , Teenage pregnancies and abortions,Infact Teenage sex and every form of exploration and exploitation that comes with it?

Or you just turn a blind eye, fortify them with all the basic things they need at home and in school, move them to a boarding school, hand them over to Masters and mistresses who inturn hand them to school mothers and school fathers who in most cases introduce them to lesbianism and homosexuality, when they return all you are after is lesson upon lesson, you forget that morality and proper training goes a long way in character moulding which helps as a solid foundation as they grow older and mingle. You get a lesson teacher or take them for silly vacations where they get exploited and even enjoy it the more.

I am not against leisure, social outings, career or whatever but have time for your kids, make them your friends and confidante, guide and guard them through all facets of life. Most of you were victims of sexual exploitation from friends, close family relatives, househelps, pastors, Teachers, School mothers and fathers etc.

Why deliberately walk your kids through those Sandy bricks that broke you? That privacy you crave and stress you seem to dodge will soon Dawn on you. Kids grow too fast. Raise them well. Do not transfer responsibilities to anyone.

Fathers and Mothers, Start paying attention to details.

MY FATHER'S ADVICE TO ME WHEN I WAS

SEARCHING FOR A WIFE.

My son, I will be very raw and sincere with

you. Do not worry about the size of a woman

buttock or breast but worry about the size of

her heart and brain. Worry about the size of

her love and endurance. Because after 5 or 10

years, it will not be about the breast or

buttock. As you can see, your mum now has a

flat chest and almost flat buttock but we still

live together happily, I still love her and she

still love me.

Be careful of a woman that loves money. I

mean the woman that talks ‘every time’ about

her hair, clothes, shoes, bags panties and

make-ups. Marriage is not all about these

things. Without makeup, clothes, shoes and

panties a good marriage will still stand but

without love, no marriage can stand.

When I got married to your mum, I didn’t have

a car or house of my own. I was not even

educated, but I had dreams and she

appreciated and supported me. Any woman

that does not support your dream is not worth

thinking-a-minute about. There are women

that will see your dreams better than you, you

are lucky if you find one.

My son, open your ears very well, there is a

kind of woman you should avoid, do not make

a mistake to marry this kind of woman or you

will regret it. I mean a woman that always has

bad things to say about everyone. If you see

this kind of woman, run away. One of the

worst kind of woman you can marry is the one

that complains about everything. If you buy

this, she says you should have bought that, if

you do this, she said you should have done

that. Please stay away! Most women enjoy

talking but the one who talks for two hours

and listen for two minutes is a potential

‘bomb’. Be wise

Be very careful of a pretending partner. A

pretending woman is not hard to know. She

will always know everything about everything,

she will be careful. Just close your eyes and

open your heart and you will see! No woman

is perfect. If you see a woman who believes in

your dream, who respects you, who is

committed, and who is not all about herself

alone then don’t let her go.

But remember, you must not be a wayward

man. I have trained you!

If you find a good woman but you are a bad

man, you won't have a good marriage!

I won’t pick a wife for you but I have given

you my advice. When you find her, bring her

for my blessings.

May you find a woman that will increase you

not decrease you.