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Anthonyjoy23
Relationship
~2.4 mins read
It is called a RELATIONSHIP, not an OCCUPATION,
Relationship is not a Hustle.
You know you don't owe a Man your BODY in a Relationship until he marries you, in the same vain, no Man owes you his WALLET until you are married to him.
To avoid all this plenty talk and see finish,
1) Get a Job as a Lady.
Earn something, no matter how little and be able to take care of your immediate needs.
Seek basic financial independence.
2) As a Lady in a Relationship, no matter how little, buy gifts for the Young Man, even if it is N500 tie or t-shirt, or a sandal.
Once in a while, take him out.. Even if it is Malt N250 and Meatpie N300,
Even if it is N100 recharge card, buy and send him.
If you don't have a Job yet, SAVE FROM the money he gives you, and use it to get something for him. That's Wisdom..
Prove to him that you don't only know how to RECEIVE, you can also GIVE.
Earn your self respect.
3) STOP demanding Money from him as if he is an Atm.
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Sometimes let him see you trying to solve your financial challenges without involving him.
Your birthday is coming, and you are demanding that he should throw you a party, or he should buy you an iPhone 12 as a gift.
Remember, he is neither your Husband nor your Father.
If he decides to throw you a party, fine. His choice..
I'll be blunt with you, ladies who DEMAND Money/Things from their Men are giving their Men something in za oda room... That's what gives them such effontery. This is the gospel truth. But this isn't kingdom Pattern. So use sense to ask him for money.
4) Trash the idea of "His Money is OUR Money, My Money is MY Money"
You work, and you use your own salary for ONLY yourself, or you are saving your own salary, and expecting him to spend his own to take care of you both. You are wicked and selfish.
When you act like this, always collecting, never contributing (financially), you make Men begin to see you as burdens, and demand for something in return for all the financial responsibilities they are saddled with for dating you.
Prove them wrong, don't be a Burden.
Even if you don't end up doing so, show that you CAN carry your weight.
If you don't have at all at all, it's a different case.
If you do, do the needful....
A RELATIONSHIP is not a SOLE PROPRIETORSHIP (for the Man alone) but a COLLABORATIONSHIP.
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Anthonyjoy23
Choice Making
~4.3 mins read
*TOPIC:WHy_You_Should_Allowed_The_Holy_Spirit_To_LEAD_YOU_In_Your_CHOICE_MAKING*.
Most singles don't see the essentiality of involving or allowing the holy Spirit to lead them in their relationship or choice making.
They flet that is not important or essential. They flet that all they need is to see who they like or who like them.
Hear me, it is not about who you like or who likes you. It is not about who you love or who loves 🎀💓💓💓🎀you. Relationship or marriage is more & bigger than that.
During the earthly ministry of Jesus Christ, Judas Iscariot professed to LOVE 🎀💓💓💓🎀 Jesus Christ but betrayed him at last because of money.
Was his love 🎀💓💓💓🎀for Christ genuine at first? Yes. What happened & why did he betrayed Him at last?
Let's move on, I will answer the question. He truly love Christ in the beginning but something when wrong at last.
Lots of single & married , have been murdered,betrayed, frustrated, castigated, disappointed, panel beated, disfigured & buried in the name of love, relationship or marriage.
Recently, a Ghanaian pastor shot his wedded wife after so many years, they have lived together & professed love for each other.
Do they like or love themselves at the beginning? Yes.💯💯💯 then what went wrong?
Let's find out.
They love themselves at the beginning but *CIRCUMSTANCES, DEMONS, SITUATIONS & THE ISSUES OF LIFE* beyond their control might have *CHANGED* them to see themselves as *ENEMIES*.
No longer husband & wife. They no longer see love but hatred.They no longer call each other pet names but mama OKAY & PAPA JUDE.
So many people have been *BATTERED & MURDERED* in marriage. Nowadays we hear cases where a husband killed the wife or where a wife killed the husband.
What actually happened ðŸ“â“
A married woman working in a local government with her husband, killed her husband, killed her 3 children & drank poison & died.
Domestic violence have taken the life of so many people in marriage & relationship
You see those husbands & wives that started in love but ended in *DOMESTIC VIOLENCE,HATRED, COURT CASES,SEPARATION,DIVORCE* etc. Do they love themselves at first ? Yes. .
Then what went wrong?
1, Some allowed their FIRST LOVE 🎀💓💓💓🎀 to fade away. They allowed it to die. They allowed it to decrease instead to increase.
2 They failed to polish it, nurture it & make it shine regularly.
3. They are prayerless & sleep a lot. They too relax without praying for the success & sustainance of their marriage.
The Bible says, that when men *SLEPT, THE ENEMY* came & sow evil seed.
*SLEPT* in this aspect means, *PRAYEELESSNESS,SPIRITUAL LAZINESS & WEAKNESS*.
When singles & married ones *RELAXED & hope *EVERYTHING* will work out itself in their relationship or marriage, the enemy will take *ADVANTAGE* of that to work against the relationship or marriage.
When men and women in relationship, in love or in marriage are prayerless, they enemy will come & take away their love and *PLANT HATRED*. They will take away their joy and *PLANT DISRESPECT, DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ETC*
By then, the couples that started in love will become to *ACCUSE,SUSPECT & HATE* each other. They will begin to plan evil against each other. They will begin to curse & lay false accusations against each other. In the beginning, it was not so.
Singles, there are some people now that profess love to you, that circumstances, demons & life challenges will change to hate & fight you in future & that is why you have to allow the holy spirit to lead you now to avoid such people because they will destroy you in future.
Now they are good but circumstances can turn them into LION'S & TIGERS in future. You need to avoid them
*WHY SHOULD YOU ALLOWED* *THE HOLY SPIRITTO LEAD ME IN MY CHIOCE MAKING*?
1. To avoid choosing the wrong person.
2. To avoid choosing someone that will profess love to you NOW but BETRAY OR MURDER you in FUTURE.
3. So that you will choose the RIGHT PERSON.
4. So that you won't choose another person partner .
5. So that you won't choose a *SATANIC or DEMONIC AGENT* that will FLOG you at night and join you to cry in the morning.
6. So that you will choose your *DESTINY HELPER , VISION BUILDER* & not a vision killer or destroyer.
7. So that you will ENJOY your marriage on earth not *ENDURING IT*. lots of people are enduring instead of enjoying.
Marriage was made to be Enjoyed not Endured.
8. So that God will protect your marriage & make it successful.
*WHAT_DO_WE_DO_TO_OVERCOME_ENEMIES_TRAP*?
1. Totally submit yourself, choice marriage & relationship to the Holy Spirit & allowed Him to direct you.
He will never direct you to someone that will love you today & betray or murder you in future.
God choice is the best. He sees your hundred years from now. He knows your end from the beginning & will never lead you to the wrong person.
2. Choose prayerfully, wisely, carefully & purposefully.
3. Don't focus only on spirituality , consider other aspects. Character, compatibility etc.
Most importantly let The Holy spirit leads you. Love, wealth alone can't SUSTAIN your marriage, you need GOD.
*Bishop Dr Sam Ibezim*
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