You can also out your heart in the comment section it's a big world, big enough to contain us so no pressure.

So now let's talk.

Facts say that there are more men than ladies in the world though I'd like to argue that because almost at every place I've found myself, every church hall, every conference, every classroom, just name it, the ratio of men to women is always or close to 1:2 so I don't see how men would be more than women in the world.

But then my concern is with all this men in the world, why is it hard for a girl to choose?

If you've had sisters or female friends you must have heard them say "I can't find a man". Everytime I hear that I want to ask if all the make folks I've been seeing around them are butterflies, I mean are they not men , how could you say you can't find a man ?

But you'd never understand that if you're not a female and even as a female you'd have to get to a stage of your life to understand the scarcity of the male specie.

Yes, argue that men are everywhere but we all know what we want and it is the kind of man a woman wants that is scarce.

Hey, notice I didn't use need I used want and it was intentional. Because if you check the men around us look like everything we need but it is that particular taste or flavour that we want that is missing and that is why a lady would ignore all the toasters and keep looking.

These wants are not the same in every woman that is why you see that a man who was rejected by one woman goes ahead to marry another woman and she adores him and celebrates him so much that you'd probably be wondering if he is not thesame man XYZ rejected.

Now some women see men as a source of survival and a woman like that would never settle for a man who cannot meet her needs no matter how nice and caring he is, infact nice and caring to her is being able to provide for her. Such a woman would settle for the man with the biggest purse whether he is tall or short, dark or light skinned , hairy or not etc doesn't bother her. It has been proven that 88.9% of women who suffer domestic abuse are married to men who are their "everything" now such a woman isn't a gold digger because everyone has a right to make their own choices and face the consequences of their own actions.

Some women want a man who would give them the Tender love and care, they don't care about how much money he has provided he's always available to massage their backs and rub their feet. You want to say impossible right? Maybe you should ask yourself how come about sugar mummies and women having affairs with men they literally take care of. Most intelligent women fall in this category, facts say so don't look at me.

Some women want a family man. Just someone she could raise good human beings with. She is not asking for her own satisfaction but trying to make sure her children are in safe hands in a healthy environment that is full of love.

Different women want different things anyway. So it's actually a pool of men but every woman is hunting for her own golden fish.