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Please I don't know how to write this because I feel so ashamed but honestly; I am dying in Silence. Please hide my ID because I have friends on this Page. 

Am tired of my marriage. Am a 28 year old woman married to a pastor who calls himself a prophet. I have bn in this marriage for three years now without a single child. My husband is fond of asking me to lick his An¥s. It actually didnt start today. He said it is his Fetish, that he likes when I lick him down there. In fact the way he moans and cries when I suck him especially when he wants to cum, he will ask me to lick his An¥s. Yesterday , we were making out as usual and he requested for it.

 As he was about to cam, he farted and poo splashed in my face and mouth. I got up to run to the bathroom, he held me begging me not to stop. I hit his hand and ran inside the bathroom and washed my mouth, brushed my teeth and soaked myself inside the bath tub. Sis since yesterday if I'm breathing ,I will be perceiving poo. If I put something inside my mouth, I throw up bcos it tastes like poo. I havent tasted anything since that time until this very moment. I use mouth wash every minute. I have been thinking about my life since yesterday. What kind of a man will want his wife to be licking his poo. He was even proving entitlement that afterall other girls are doing it for money. 

That there are millions of girls out there that will willingly do it to satisfy their husbands. It was yesterday that he revealed that some of our female congregants including married ones were doing that to him b4 he married me. He said its the only way he can accurately prophesy in chech.

How can I conceive if whenever he wants to come he will withdraw and open his nyash for me to lick? Then waste the sperm on the bed? I have tried collecting some and insert inside my vagina but it seems it's not working. I am so fed up with this thing called marriage. 

I just want to pack my things and go back. I dont even know what to tell my people? We don't have children because he refuses to sleep with me apart fro leaking him inorder for him to pefom shocking miracles in chech. Please Advise me I am confused.

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Pastor Odukoya-Ijogun tells married couples

The mother of three gave this advise while dishing out six important rules of marriage to married couples on microblogging platform 

Pastor Tolu Odukoya-Ijogun, the first daughter of late popular clergywoman, Bimbo Odukoya, has taken to Twitter to advise married couples to have sex regularly.

The mother of three gave this advise while dishing out six important rules of marriage to married couples on microblogging platform, Twitter, on Wednesday, September 5.

Sharing an admonition she received from her father, Tolu asserted that sex is a currency and if one does not spend it at home, they will eventually spend it somewhere else so couples should prioritize sex.

She tweeted,

“When in a marriage have loads of sex. A couple not sleeping is very dangerous. My father once said ‘sex is currency, if you don’t spend it at home you will spend it elsewhere’ Mr and Mrs, spend your currency at home. Truth: sex is like wine, it gets better with time.”

She also advised married couples to stop competing with each other, and also practice forgiveness because unforgiveness is a cancer that can destroy a marriage.

Read the remaining rules below,

“Rule 1: When in a marriage Stop Competing! is not a competition. Her success is your success, His success is your success. You’re both meant to complement each other not compete against each other.

Rule 2: When in a marriage your roles are fluid not fixed … It’s like being in a band… Today you might sing the lead vocals and tomorrow you might be a backup singer… Just do your role well… Your partner is depending on you to deliver…

Rule 3: When in a marriage

you are both there to serve each other. In this side of the world, women are mandated to serve their men… Sir, it is both ways, as I pour into you, your pour into me.. you can’t give what you don’t have… You are BOTH in the service industry.

Rule 4: When in a marriage, yes pick your battles but please argue; constructive disagreements are key to understanding each other better… You are 2 different human beings with working brains, conflict is bound to happen…Sometimes disagree to later agree, we need Passion.

Rule 6: When in a marriage forgive. Unforgiveness is cancer, You need to nip it in the bud before it kills your love. If it’s difficult to let go, simply means you don’t have closure… Keep talking about it. My Mother once said “Marriage is 2 forgivers living together”

Take this serious  it May be of help to you and your  marriage