This is a bit lenghty but worth reading

So many marriages are collapsing daily,let's learn some tips..we learn everyday

Secret 1

Everyone you marry has a weakness. Only God does not have a weakness. So if you focus on your spouse's weakness you can't get the best out of his/her strength.

Secret 2

Everyone has a dark history. No one is an angel. When you get married or you want to get married stop digging into someone's past. What matters most is the present life of your partner. Old things have passed away. Forgive and forget. Focus on the present and the future.

Secret 3

Every marriage has its own challenges. Marriage is not a bed of roses. Every good marriage has gone through its own test of blazing fire. True love proves in times of challenges. Fight for your marriage. Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in times of need. Remember the vow For better for worse. In sickness and in health be there.

Secret 4

To get married is declaring war. When you get married you must declare war against enemies of marriage. Some enemies of marriage are:

Ignorance 

Prayerlessness

Unforgiveness 

Third party influence 

Stinginess

Stubbornness 

Lack of love 

Rudeness

Laziness 

Secretiveness

Adultery

Malice 

Uncontrolled anger

Disrespect 

Cheating 

_Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone._

Secret 6

There is no perfect marriage. There is no ready made marriage. Marriage is hard work. Volunteer yourself to work daily on it. Marriage is like a car that needs proper maintenance and proper service. If this is not done it will break down somewhere exposing the owner to danger or some unhealthy circumstances. Let us not be careless about our marriages. 

Secret 7

Getting married is taking a huge risk. You can not predict what will happen in the future. Situations may change so leave room for adjustments. Husband can lose his good job or you may fail to have babies. All these require you to be prayerful otherwise you might divorce.

Secret 9

Marriage is not a contract. It is permanent. It needs total commitment. Love is the glue that sticks the couple together. Divorce start in the mind and the devil feeds the mind. Never ever entertain thoughts of getting a divorce. Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married. God hates divorce.

Secret 10

Every marriage has a price to pay. Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money that you deposit that you withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate for a blissful home.

So today pray for your marriage and ask God to help us where we are lacking in the marriage.

May God bless our homes

 

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When you see a happy home, it always seem like the woman is in control because you see her handle almost every aspect of the family. In fact, she becomes her husband’s manager. Unfortunately, a greater part of the society will mistake such happy home thinking the woman is using some kind of charm on the man. But what can really cause your husband to want to give you his all and place you above all? Read along let’s find out!

When a woman is humble, she becomes a natural charm to her husband. 

When a woman is submissive, she gets what she desires from her husband.

When a woman is trustworthy, she can control her husband's finances. 

When a woman is hospitable, she can host her husband's meeting.

When a woman is friendly, she becomes her husband's best friend.

When a woman is jovial and playful, she can unlock her husband's sad mode.

When a woman is appreciative, she receives gifts unexpected from her husband.

When a woman is respectful, she can attend her husband's cultural meetings with him.

When a woman is understandable, her husband feels free to tell her even the ugly.

When a woman is peaceful, her husband comes rushing home each time. 

When a woman is tender hearted, she makes a great mother for her kids.

When a woman is slow tempered, she knows when to approach her husband in times of misunderstandings and arguments.

When a woman is vulnerable, she is loved by her husband.

When a woman does not keep secrets from her husband, her husband tells her all of his every moves.

When a woman is prayerful, she becomes a powerful support system to her husband.

When a woman is God fearing, she sets her home on the principles of God the almighty.

When a woman is selfless, her husband relies on her completely.

When a woman is creative, she and the husband can figure out the future together.

Unfortunately when you are not any of these, it becomes so hard for you to enjoy marriage. Seek God's help to become any of the above, you can't do it on your own. Greetings to all submissive women.

A good woman builds her own house.

Remain blessed

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