1) Do not be in a hurry to ask her for a Relationship. 

 Start with Friendship. 

During friendship, where there is no commitment whatsoever, where you can change your mind without any body feeling cheated, find out basic things like her genotype, her Family background, your denominational differences, her life's aspirations, character etc 

~Don't date someone so you can study them.

Rather Study them to know if you can date them.~

This way if you don't like what you see, you can easily walk away without having taken even one week of her life.

2) Check First, and be sure that YOU CAN (by virtue of Your CAPACTY, Her CHARACTER, and the COMPATIBILITY between you two) and that YOU WILL (by virtue of a CONVICTION) marry her BEFORE you ask Her out for a Relationship.

 NEVER date someone (maybe because of pity or boredom) that YOU ARE SURE you CAN NOT or WILL NOT marry. 

And NEVER DATE someone you're NOT Sure or CONVINCED you can/will marry, Relationship is not a gamble. 

Start as friends, Observe, analyze your emotions towards her, Pray, Wait, but till you are sure, don't ask her out.

Many ladies have been in a Relationship for 5 years and counting, the brother is still waiting to "hear from God".

Is God a mute? 

Whereas the lady is now 34, and she's turning suitors down everyday, and brother hasn't "heard from God" oh, then tomorrow he will now hear from God and break up with her because God didn't approve, and now goan marry a 24 year old lady.

Brothers, Hear First. Be Sure First. 

Don't start relationships and now start looking for convictions later.

 

It feels even worst when Madam needs it and your Johnny is there looking at her like an over ripe banana.

 

Worst still, you manage to gain some strong bone , only to release in two (2) minutes.

 

 

 

Madam may not tell you, because she does not want you to feel bad. But, she will appreciate it, if you can satisfy her for once.

 

Make your woman HAPPY.

 

Treat her well. Satisfy her.

 

Every woman deserves a real man that can satisfy her.

 

 

 

Help her not to cheat on you, whether secretly or with your knowledge.

 

In doing all the above, You don't need to live on drugs. Take care of it naturally, once and for all.

 

Do you know that Bitter Kola and some natural roots blended together can do wonders for you as a man?

 

Bitter kola is one of such fruits which can be eaten raw and still benefit from its high nutritional content. It can help if properly combine with other roots.

 

Eat watermelon and then chew some bitter kola every morning and night, do this for 2 weeks while abstaining, after two weeks, you won't be the same, I assure you.