Something you didn't do or something you did but just realized you would have done better?

Daily in our lives, we deal with problems and uncertainties, which often make us think that if we didn't have to deal with all if these problems then the quality of our lives would have been better.

"Oh if my car hadn't developed a fault there's no way I would have been in a public transport and if I hadn't been in that bus there's no way that awful woman would have disrespected me like that" someone might think. But we tend to forget that offenses are a part of everyday life and picking one is our deliberate personal choice because in all, we still have the power to choose what offends us and what to ignore.

Again, we tend to look away from ourselves and say the other person is the problem not us. The best way to improve your life is to improve your relationship with the world around you. Until you change the way you see things nothing changes in your life.

Some people always wear a gloomy face and the moment you look at them you want to ask them what is wrong. They always have one problem or the other, of they are not complaining about this, they are complaining about that and they are wondering why they are not getting promotion at work. 

Truth is no matter how much you know and better than everybody in the house, your inconsistency would deprive you a promotion. Nobody wants to put an inconsistent person in charge of his business.

One quality of successful Managers is their ability to work under any condition and putting their work first before how they feel. Your attitude should reflect your goals and not what you're going through or what you're feeling presently.

People should be able to look at you and be encouraged to keep pushing because everyone knows nobody has it all going together do the way you carry your discomfort should motivate people around you to carry theirs and keep moving anyway.

The productivity of your life would increase as soon as your attitude towards life changes because life has a way of giving more of whatever you give to it. That's why when you sow a seed of maize you are sure that in the next 2-3 months you can get a bag of maize, so if all you sow is worry, complains and sad stories about a sad life then you are sure to harvest a bag of more worries and pity at the end.

Live everyday positively. To get anything you want out if life, you must first make yourself a person who can get that thing and prove yourself deserving of it. You cannot say you want a car when you don't know how to drive or even have a liscense to drive. You cannot say you want a wife when you don't know what it means to be a husband nobody wants such man. You could spend the rest of your life saying nobody wants to marry me but are you someone that can be married?

To improve the quality of your life starts with personal development and personal development starts with developing the right attitude.

It's worst for the middle-class because there's nothing there for you, since you're not too rich to afford some of the things you need and neither are you too poor to benefit from charity. 

When I was in secondary school, the intelligent students get head boy, head girl , and all the heads position, then the very rough students gets labour prefects, game prefects, etc. The students in the middle gets nothing because they are not too good to get the head boy position neither are they too bad to get the labour prefects position.

The first way to win is to take away middle from your mind. It's either you're good or bad, hot or cold, rich or poor, tall or short, fat or slim, married or single. There are no in betweens.