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So Today I Want To Talk About One Of These Food I List...
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So today I want to talk about one of these food I listed above.. The almighty CUSTARD
Please and please mothers and mothers to be, do not give your babies custard
Please stick your pap/ogi/akamu And also Tom brown is very healthy
Please read the above pictures for more information on custard
Personally, I don't even like it as an adult so even before I knew about this I never gave my son.
I remember after I had him, a friend visited and custard was among the gifts she bought for me. I gave it out cos I really don't like the taste and smell. When I now read about it, I was thankful that I did.
Our kids deserve very nutritious food especially at that tender age when their brains are still developing. The more natural the food, the better. I hope I remember and have the time to share how to make Tom brown cereal in the comfort of your home. That one is nutrient filled for both adults and children alike.
Imagine feeding your baby just corn starch and coloring in the name of custard. Corn starch is made from that transparent back of corn, like the one on beans when you soak it to wash that we usually throw away.. May God help us in this journey of motherhood. Please share and educate other people around you about this cos I know custard is very popular in most homes in Nigeria
Please this isn't to scare anyone, if you've been using it before now, it's not your fault. But please now you know, kindly look for an alternative for the sake of health benefits.
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Ayoayanfe
Setting Priorities
~5.9 mins read
Setting priorities
While In the hospital months ago, I shared same space with a man who have been admitted and was in there for over 5 months.
On the second day of my admission, We started to get along. We discussed, share thoughts; we spoke about many things.
He clocked 43 a day before my arrival. He has 2 kids, who all lives outside the country. He is Separated.
I saw your wife, he said to me. You are a blessed man. He told me he observed her while I slept. I smiled. Told him she is that good.
I asked why he is separated. He said long story. I told him not to worry.
On the third day, i noticed no one visited him yet. So I asked If no one would come check him up. He said two of his cousins and some of his friends used to, but they got tired. He chuckled.
I told him 3 days is a long time not to see any of our love ones. He answered that it’s been over 2 weeks he saw anyone, though they called.
He said he can’t blame his cousins and friends because all of them have families to look after. He only blame himself because he has failed in setting his priorities right.
He told me, he was returning from an event when he had accident 5 months ago; leaving him in coma due to serious head and leg injuries.
He was rejected in about 2 hospitals before he was later accepted when getting to the third.
It must be very serious, I said. He replied, very!
He told me, his wife left him years ago after she got to know he has a ‘love child’ outside their marriage.
He has since then been alone.
He told me, he was seeing another lady which he had in mind to remarry but since the accident, she never showed up. I asked if the lady is aware. He said, from the very first day he was taken to the hospital. Then why haven’t she showed up, I asked. He said, my situation after the incident must have been too much for her. She must have jumped ship.
I asked if his wife is aware of his accident also. He said he believes! She has an informant that do tell her things. She has friends here you know.
I asked if she has called him. He smiled. I was wondering why he smiled. Then he said no. She can’t call me. About a year ago, when something similar happened, she didn’t call. When I lost my mother, she didn’t call. So, she won’t call.
What about your kids, do you speak with them often. He said no. I haven’t speak or seen any of them in 3 years now. I do not even know how they look now. She hides them from me. I don’t have her number, she changed contact.
I told him, she must be really pained and deeply hurt for her to completely cut herself and the children off away from him.
I told him, I am not to judge him but for a woman who is married with 2 kids to completely do away from her husband... it must be because she had her trust shattered.
She must have trusted you very much you know, I told him.
Sometimes, a shattered trust is a no love.
Some women who are aware of their husband’s infidelity have no trust in their man. And when things like this happens, they don’t get hurt that much because they know their husbands, and they are most prepared for it. But when you live a hypocrite and plaster saint life; making your partner believe you are committed, whereas, you are a deceiver. Then this is what happens.
But you know, there is nothing God can not do. I said to him.
I shared with him a story of a separated marriage of 13 years and how God amends it, bringing both the husband and the wife back again.
He looked thrilled.
I told him, A life without God is a no life. Likewise, a marriage without God’s presence, is a marriage exposed to crisis.
You can’t be cheating on your partner and expect God to help keep your marriage. God himself separates himself from us when we err. So, your wife is right to stay away from you.
But you can start with God. When your ways are pleasing to him, then you can get it right.
You will need to stop engaging in every ungodly things. Keeping woman friends when you have your wife, breaking promises and living a deceitful life.
God can amend your shattered lives and restore it back completely; but that’s if you are ready to give him a chance in your live.
If you can repent, ask God for forgiveness and live a change life afterwards. You will see how God will remold your life.
I asked if I can pray with him. He couldn’t utter a word. He nodded his head affirmatively.
I prayed with him and I told him, if he will be truthful to himself. God will make a drastic change in his life.
I went to God in prayer. I told him, God, you must prove yourself yet again. ‘Oju ogbodo ti mi’ Romans 10:13 says, “For whoever call upon the name of the lord, will be saved.”
Can anything be too hard for you to do God?
Father, save this man and let him feel your incomparable presence. Turn around things and remold every broken ‘vessels’ in his life.
I have made him believe that only you can put meaning in his shattered life. I made him believe that only you can restore is lost home. God, in your mercy and power, please restore back his home and your name will be glorify.-These are my prayers.
I left the hospital on the 5th day. He was so emotional. I was too. Maybe because we usually do have our morning and night prayers together. He isn’t even a Christian.
We kept checking on each other and he also told me, few people came to check on him and I was glad to hear that.
A week after, he rang me. And he told me to guess what. I told him I can’t, that I am bad ‘at guessing’.
He sounded all smiles as he told me his wife called and for the first time in 3 years, he spoke with his kids. He couldn’t contain his joy.
I asked when she called, he said hours ago. In his words, She said she called to ask after my health and she also allow me speak with my children.
As he was talking, I was busy thinking of the beautiful next step he will take.
I believe God has started working. He reached to the woman afar off and he touched her.
This is just the beginning.
I am happy and grateful to God.
This story of my new friend is embedded with few morals to pick.
As you read, pick a lesson or two and see if your life needs a change. Most especially, having God as the bedrock of your life and in your marriage.
Be blessed!
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