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Ayoayanfe
~2.9 mins read
*DO WE STILL HAVE WOMEN LIKE HER?*
Phone Rings
(Wife Picks up)
Wife: Hello Atanda mi .
Husband: Yes Wuraola mi, get ready we going out today.
Wife: Hmm where exactly are we going? Besides am kind of busy today.
Husband: Stop whatever you are doing and prepare yourself for our special date.
Wife: Alright Ife mi.
Husband: Sharp, I will be there in 30 minutes time.
Wife: Ok, bye.
Husband: Cool(he dropped the call)
...............
In 30 minutes time he arrived at home as per promise.
Husband: Anybody home??? (Knock! Knock!).
Wife: (peeps through the window) Ade Ori Okin mi (come in).
Husband: Baby what's wrong with you? You haven't prepared yourself yet?
Wife: Of course, not until you tell me where exactly you are planning on taking me.
Husband: What's the date today?
Wife: 30th of January.
Husband: Great! Today is my pay day besides I got a salary increment, so I want to go and spoil you big time. Now hurry up go and take a quick bath.
Wife: No my love, am going nowhere with you.
Husband: What does that suppose to mean?
Wife: My love, Ade Ori Okin mi ti ki se ti eye keye, Atanda mi.. I know you love me, but that
shouldn't be reason for you to be spending extravagantly on me.
Husband: what is wrong with that? You are my woman,my first love,mother my children and I have all the right to spoil you rotten.
Wife: My love, last time I checked your young brother was chased from school because of unpaid balance. You know you are the only one your family depends on. That house your mother lives in, is in a dilapidated state and it needs to be
renovated.
Husband: (listening attentively)
Wife: Instead of spoiling me, use your salary to support those that entirely depend on you for their well being. To me those people comes first, moreover I don't love you because of your money, I love you for who you are.
Husband: But bae..........
Wife: (cuts in) But bae nothing, now hurry up and go and pay the school fees for your brother and help other in serious need as much as your salary can support. If they will be any amount remaining, you can come and share it
with me. I see a husband in you not a bank account.
Husband: (tears drop) What more can I ask from God? He has blessed me with a wonderful woman.I Love you so so much my wife, you are one in a million. I see a true and genuine wife in you not a slut or the so called Slay Queens of our generation.
Wife: I love you too my husband. Ife mi.. Ade Ori Okin mi.. Olowo Ori mi...
Husband: Come here(he spread his arms for the hug)They shared a warmth hug...and the Husband sat with the wife to plan how they could spend the money wisely in an effort to help those in genuine need of their help.
Now That's Real Love
The Question is:
*DO SUCH WIVES STILL EXIST IN THIS WORLD?*.... I leave the men to confirm while we ladies have a rethink...
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Ayoayanfe
~2.6 mins read
WHAT IS YOUR CHILD'S FEEDBACK OF YOU?
I had a two days training with the boarding students of a particular school, and it was sad to note that most of the children wish their parents knew better.
Believe me when I say I heard many of them say to me "I wish God will change my parents or give me another parents."
"I wish my parents would spent time with me so that I can share my struggles with them."
"I wish my parents were not judgemental, I would have not been addiction to these negative habits."
"I wish it was not just my academics my parents are paying attention to, I would have been a better teenager."
"I hate going back home after school. My parents make me feel they love me based on my performance. Meanwhile, my friends love me unconditionally."
"I wish my parents will learn about the struggles, challenges and pressures we face today as teens."
"My parents make me feel like as stranger in their house. They make me feel like " I have to pay for their love for me."
These and many more were the feedbacks I got from these students.
A 14year old girl said to me, "My parents are very proud of me. They know that I am the nest student in my class, best in sports and best in board games, but they don't know that I am also the best in Pornography and handling the penis of my school mates."
She said, "I give them what they want, and show them what they want to see, but I am struggling with negative addictions and they don't care to know about that."
I spoke with the school owner about it and she decided to create a parenting training programme for the parents in her school. She went further to engage me on a training for her staff.
We have also started a "Character & Moral Development Programme (CMDP) for the students.
Dear parents and educators, please listen to what I want to say:
1. Today's system is very new to you and your children, it will take time for you to unlearn, learn and relearn how to relate with it.
2. Your child have not lived as long as you have lived and their brains are not as developed as yours. While it's taking you time to understand them, it is taking them more time to understand themselves and their environment.
3. We have come into a new generation called "Generation Z", and sooner than we think we will be meeting another generation called " Generation Alpha". If we don't learn how to get it right with this generation, we will struggle with the next.
It is a very good thing to pay attention to the educational development of your child. But while this is done, we are having a big problem. We have left character and moral development to chance.
We have to Arise as parents. We can't be shouting, hoping that our children will become better.
If we don't create the right systems, we will loose our children to pornography, terrorism, wild life and other social vices.
Remember, Terrorist don't pray for the people under their care to become terrorists, they create a system and employ or train the right personnel's to get the job done.
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