A LETTER TO MY DEAREST DAUGHTER

My dear girl, I wish I could tell you to protect your body in diginity and to let you know nudity doesn't make you pretty. 
Like the adage goes, "Too many cooks spoil the brot" Your body is like a fresh apple and too many hands make it ugly. That you are beautiful doesn't mean you should offer your body for sale and your pearl is meant for just one man..Your husband
I wished to tell you not every man you should allow crawl into your body, but I'm sorry if I'm actually telling you this late! My baby, your worth is priceless.

Be careful of the friendship and relationship whose intentions are cryptic and cunning., so you don't get carried in clouds all-around. You are more precious for just one night stand and a man who loves you just because of your skin colour doesn't understand what true love is!

As a responsibility, I will teach you how to stand firm, and not stoop low! So you don't have awful stories to tell. Don't let the foxes outhere have you for meal nor gnaw on you, beacuse they will deny knowing you when the awful deed is done. Since love comes with responsibility.

Don't allow any man put you in the family way when you aren't ready!

For the men out there, remember that every girl you see also belongs to a family and don't mess with her future. She might as well be somene's wife. So before you disregard or disrespect a woman remember someday you will be a father having a daughter too!

Son, real men don't rape women. 
A man who rapes should have his DNA 'cleaned' like dust.

And back to you my daughter, don't get comfortable with a men who disrespects you and don't disrespect your self before any man. 
Your nudity doesn't make you beautiful, for where lies the beauty of a flower without its petals??

Control yourself ìn every thing. Control your tongue so you give birth to peace and don't you ever gossip about your neighbors and let your feet not be quick to your neighbor's house.

Much wisdom embedded in 1st Corinthians 13-4_8 of the holy scripture. You must have to learn the verses by heart.

Give your heart to God before any man. Learn to be strong and handle your emotions and never give your heart out to a man out of pity.

It's okay to be in a relationship but I will teach her how to love like an angel with wisdom.

Work on yourself with knowledge and wisdom so you don't become a bad mother to your children. Don't approve any man's proposal when you are not ready because emotions are never stable.

It's okay to grow but don't grow too fast when you are still a child!

Your body is like a circle, too many hands that touches you makes it difficult for you to find an angle.

It's okay to mingle but don't tangle.

Your Loving Mother.

like a pen when life Whisper's pay attention and listen carefully!
Like a pen! Someday maybe morality will be perfect poetry! like when fashion is our passion gives us a new identity! like meeting good people you have different perception about life! like Bad character makes other people suffer greatly A damage society is as a result of the negligence of entire villagers!! Like seeing evil and keeping quiet we are opening a Pandora's box to bring chaos!! like Lost of humanity begins when we lost conscience of protecting one another... like society tells us to be like this and be like that and you be like this and they say "not like that"! like not looking for validation. like a sense of shame will be less reaction to emotions and living in harmony with one sense, to protect our dignity like loving one another and promoting unity among brotherhood like having a sense of our own uniqueness give us a right control of our image!! like covering each others shame and nakedness like sometimes when life whispers pay attention carefully listen.. like when life is like that! you can make it like this. like thats your pen!!