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Adebimpe The Facebook Girl. Part 3
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Just after 2mins of her kissing me, she stopped and went straight to my kitchen, as she was going, she said, “baby, I don’t want to travel empty stomach so as not to collapse in the busâ€. Chai, wetin I go do?. The rehearsals are gone, the boldness to
frown at her is gone, I don’t even know if I should confront her about her facebook messages, what if I do, what will be her reaction?. A lot of thoughts was just running through my head.
She located my noodles carton and started cooking while we started conversation
Me: bimbe, what went wrong between you and your cousin?
Bimpe:. Don’t mind that my uncle jaree, I told him that I’m returning today and that he should give me money but he refused saying he doesn’t have money.
Me: thinking in my mind that “so this girl is expecting me to pay the return T.fare again?â€. really?, why will he do that to
his kid sister?
Bimpe:. He said I should wait till wednesday but I insist that I’m returning today which is sunday
Me: that’s bad of him oooo. Did u offend him before now?
Bimpe: no ooooo. He is just a stingy relative. If not that I mistakenly spoke with him about coming to Akure to see
someone which Is you, then he insisted that I must come to his place, in fact, he called my mum that I am coming to his place so there is nothing I can do about it than to
lodge at his place
Me: eeyah. That’s family bond. Family will always want to be together. But wait, which area in this akure is he living?
Bimpe: somewhere around ijoka.
Me : then I remembered the address I saw
in her facebook chat was exactly ijoka. Sunday bustop to be precise. Baby, that is just 40mins journey from here ooo. Won’t I get to meet my in-law facially?
Bimpe: I told you we aren’t in good terms. Infact, I insulted him this morning and left there with anger, so its not ideal for now, maybe during my next visit.
Me: ok
Bimpe: baby, its 10:20am now and I should leave around 12pm so as to get to PHC earlier. So what do u keep for me. Won’t you buy provisions, cosmetics and cloth for your baby?
Me: I frowned and said BIMPE! U are very wicked and a bad person, infact, I’m not happy with you, I should tell you this * I have made up my mind to tell her she is a cheat, prostitute and a scammer*
Bimpe: shocked, she came closer, placed hand on my head, takes it down to my chest and plants a kiss on my mouth. Then she asked “what’s my offence my husbandâ€
Me: ****with this little kiss and the soft touch from her palms plus the seductive way she used the tip of her
bosom to rub my back, my brain was formatted again**** Bimpe, I
was sick since yesterday which I told u about, u can’t even ask about my health,
all u can do is to ask for provisions, its unfair ooooo. dats all I could utter, I don’t know what sealed my mouth.
Immediately, she sat on my laps, rubbed my head with her hands, pressed her bosoms on me harder and said “I’m sorry babyâ€. I still wear a frown wondering why I lost the courage to
confront and rebuke her. She noticed this and kissed me passionately this time. Its was romantic that I enjoyed it. As we were kissing, my hand locate
her shirt button, I was about to loose it, she said “stop stop stopâ€, the indomie should be burning by now, I
need to go and check it. She stood up from my laps and went to the kitchen
leaving me with hard on. I said to myself again… Chaii onihaxy, u must be the greatest fool of the first order.
Just as I sat down sadly on the bed nursing my hard-on. She called me from the kitchen to join her in eating the noodles. I went to meet her in the kitchen. After finishing the noodles, I
went back to sit on the bed while she sat at the other edge of the bed.
BIMPE: baby, I will miss you, if not for my cousin. I would have lodge at your place
ME: its no problem.
BIMPE: hope you will also give me something to give my friends at school because they will be expecting
ME: ok, dat reminds me. Now that your cousin refuse to give you money, how will you get to PHC?
BIMPE: oh baby, I know you won’t watch me been stranded in Akure. After my cousin, u are the only person I have here. Please help me
ME: but today is sunday and banks doesn’t open, how do I do it?
BIMPE: ****she suddenly wear a sad face and started shedding
tears**** pls onihaxy. I beg of you, pls use your ATM and help me, I have a test of 4 unit course tomorrow morning
please.******continue with the sad face****
ME: instantly, I felt pity for her, I felt her pain, I thought of her test. I just don’t know where the MR nice guy in me came from. I replied her that “don’t worry, I will try and get something from the ATM.
Bimpe was so happy that she kissed me
again, this time it was
more romantic and passionate. I locate her shirt button again. This time, she didn’t resist, I press on to her bra, dipped my hand into it, located her Tips, I was squeezing and pressing. I traced my hands down to her abdomen, still doing the kissing. Just as I was about unzipping her trouser, she said “STOPâ€, I refused but she removed her mouth and shifted a bit
BIMPE: baby, don’t you think its too early for us to have sex?. We are going to get married and enjoy ourselves till eternity, why should we rush?. And besides, this is our first date dear. Please. ******she wore this innocent girl look*******
I just wore a straight face and refuse to say anything. She noticed that I am unhappy. So she came closer again and kissed me. She started rubbing my chest, I was happy thinking she is
ready to play. Just as I was about pressing her bosoms, she held my hand and say, “baby, pls hurry to the bank
because of time, I will surprise you when you are back. Immediately I heard the word suprise, I suddenly smile and
became restless. I dashed into my wardrobe, picked up a shirt. Picked my ATM card. Just as I was about
stepping out of the room, her phone was ringing.
frown at her is gone, I don’t even know if I should confront her about her facebook messages, what if I do, what will be her reaction?. A lot of thoughts was just running through my head.
She located my noodles carton and started cooking while we started conversation
Me: bimbe, what went wrong between you and your cousin?
Bimpe:. Don’t mind that my uncle jaree, I told him that I’m returning today and that he should give me money but he refused saying he doesn’t have money.
Me: thinking in my mind that “so this girl is expecting me to pay the return T.fare again?â€. really?, why will he do that to
his kid sister?
Bimpe:. He said I should wait till wednesday but I insist that I’m returning today which is sunday
Me: that’s bad of him oooo. Did u offend him before now?
Bimpe: no ooooo. He is just a stingy relative. If not that I mistakenly spoke with him about coming to Akure to see
someone which Is you, then he insisted that I must come to his place, in fact, he called my mum that I am coming to his place so there is nothing I can do about it than to
lodge at his place
Me: eeyah. That’s family bond. Family will always want to be together. But wait, which area in this akure is he living?
Bimpe: somewhere around ijoka.
Me : then I remembered the address I saw
in her facebook chat was exactly ijoka. Sunday bustop to be precise. Baby, that is just 40mins journey from here ooo. Won’t I get to meet my in-law facially?
Bimpe: I told you we aren’t in good terms. Infact, I insulted him this morning and left there with anger, so its not ideal for now, maybe during my next visit.
Me: ok
Bimpe: baby, its 10:20am now and I should leave around 12pm so as to get to PHC earlier. So what do u keep for me. Won’t you buy provisions, cosmetics and cloth for your baby?
Me: I frowned and said BIMPE! U are very wicked and a bad person, infact, I’m not happy with you, I should tell you this * I have made up my mind to tell her she is a cheat, prostitute and a scammer*
Bimpe: shocked, she came closer, placed hand on my head, takes it down to my chest and plants a kiss on my mouth. Then she asked “what’s my offence my husbandâ€
Me: ****with this little kiss and the soft touch from her palms plus the seductive way she used the tip of her
bosom to rub my back, my brain was formatted again**** Bimpe, I
was sick since yesterday which I told u about, u can’t even ask about my health,
all u can do is to ask for provisions, its unfair ooooo. dats all I could utter, I don’t know what sealed my mouth.
Immediately, she sat on my laps, rubbed my head with her hands, pressed her bosoms on me harder and said “I’m sorry babyâ€. I still wear a frown wondering why I lost the courage to
confront and rebuke her. She noticed this and kissed me passionately this time. Its was romantic that I enjoyed it. As we were kissing, my hand locate
her shirt button, I was about to loose it, she said “stop stop stopâ€, the indomie should be burning by now, I
need to go and check it. She stood up from my laps and went to the kitchen
leaving me with hard on. I said to myself again… Chaii onihaxy, u must be the greatest fool of the first order.
Just as I sat down sadly on the bed nursing my hard-on. She called me from the kitchen to join her in eating the noodles. I went to meet her in the kitchen. After finishing the noodles, I
went back to sit on the bed while she sat at the other edge of the bed.
BIMPE: baby, I will miss you, if not for my cousin. I would have lodge at your place
ME: its no problem.
BIMPE: hope you will also give me something to give my friends at school because they will be expecting
ME: ok, dat reminds me. Now that your cousin refuse to give you money, how will you get to PHC?
BIMPE: oh baby, I know you won’t watch me been stranded in Akure. After my cousin, u are the only person I have here. Please help me
ME: but today is sunday and banks doesn’t open, how do I do it?
BIMPE: ****she suddenly wear a sad face and started shedding
tears**** pls onihaxy. I beg of you, pls use your ATM and help me, I have a test of 4 unit course tomorrow morning
please.******continue with the sad face****
ME: instantly, I felt pity for her, I felt her pain, I thought of her test. I just don’t know where the MR nice guy in me came from. I replied her that “don’t worry, I will try and get something from the ATM.
Bimpe was so happy that she kissed me
again, this time it was
more romantic and passionate. I locate her shirt button again. This time, she didn’t resist, I press on to her bra, dipped my hand into it, located her Tips, I was squeezing and pressing. I traced my hands down to her abdomen, still doing the kissing. Just as I was about unzipping her trouser, she said “STOPâ€, I refused but she removed her mouth and shifted a bit
BIMPE: baby, don’t you think its too early for us to have sex?. We are going to get married and enjoy ourselves till eternity, why should we rush?. And besides, this is our first date dear. Please. ******she wore this innocent girl look*******
I just wore a straight face and refuse to say anything. She noticed that I am unhappy. So she came closer again and kissed me. She started rubbing my chest, I was happy thinking she is
ready to play. Just as I was about pressing her bosoms, she held my hand and say, “baby, pls hurry to the bank
because of time, I will surprise you when you are back. Immediately I heard the word suprise, I suddenly smile and
became restless. I dashed into my wardrobe, picked up a shirt. Picked my ATM card. Just as I was about
stepping out of the room, her phone was ringing.
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From Nigeria To Libya And Europe: The Risks On The Journey
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Many Nigerians have died trying to reach Libya, and many more have died crossing the Mediterranean Sea to Italy. Below you will find the main dangers for irregular migrants at each step of the long and risky journey from Nigeria to Libya and onwards to Europe.
Migrants have to travel through several different countries and experience many dangers along the way to their destination in Europe. For Nigerian migrants, Libya is often a dead end, as the crisis in 2017 revealed. Yet, there are other serious risks one should be aware of. This is life-saving information.
What migrants go through in Niger
In 2017, Niger passed anti-smuggling laws and is actively fighting smuggling, with the help of the European Union (EU), which is training their security forces. In 2016, the security forces arrested nearly 300 smugglers and confiscated 170 trucks used to transport migrants in Agadez. This has resulted in smugglers increasing their prices and more kidnappings for ransom.
A shop owner in Agadez confessed that since migrants now have to hide in ghettos, “they cannot check the local market prices so we can charge them double or even three times the price.â€
Migrants sometimes have to hide in compounds in Agadez, the migrant transit town, to avoid being arrested. They often run out of money there, as Agadez is expensive for migrants.
Those who do not speak French, like Nigerians, are particularly vulnerable. One teenage Nigerian girl reported having to work as a prostitute in a migrant compound in Agadez in order to save money. It took her 18 months to earn enough to leave.
There are very few jobs in Agadez, because migrants have to hide from the police and do not speak the language. Nigerian migrants get stuck in Agadez with no money to either move forward on their journey or to go back home. If they want to leave, they must rely on family support.
A dangerous journey across the Sahara Desert
There may be more migrants dying in the Sahara Desert than at sea. The Sahara Desert is a huge ungoverned region, and there are many criminal gangs and bandits who attack and kidnap migrants or rob them of their belongings.
The journey through the desert can take weeks. The terrain is difficult, and the temperatures are very high during the day so cars can break down, leaving migrants stranded in the desert.
In this situation, or if cars get lost, migrants can die of starvation and from the heat. Sometimes migrants suffocate and die in the back of trucks and their bodies are not discovered until the truck is unloaded in Libya. People also die falling out of overcrowded trucks. Migrants regularly report passing dead bodies on the journey.
There have been numerous official reports of hundreds of corpses being found in the Sahara. The number is likely to be higher, but nobody knows, because the desert is so large and has no roads. Many migrants’ bodies become buried in sand and are never found.
“On our way from Niger to Saba, our vehicle had a breakdown in the desert. We were with two Nigerian women in the vehicle, and the driver told us all to come down and push the vehicle. The women said they were women and the sun was hot so they should be excused. The driver stabbed both of them to death.â€
A migrant returnee said.
Recently the military have started patrolling the main routes to the Libyan border, and there are thousands of cases of migrants being abandoned in the Sahara by drivers who fear going to jail.
Libya: a dead end for many Nigerian migrants
Libya is a very unstable state with no single government. Migrants are regularly arrested and placed in detention centres, many of which are under the control of militias and armed groups who see migrants as an easy way to make money.
Mohammed, a migrant, was held captive in Libya and tortured in a detention centre. The militia called his parents regularly to ask for money, but they could not afford to pay. He managed to escape after two years.
There is very little food or water in Libyan detention centres, and migrants are regularly beaten, raped and murdered. Some die of starvation and poor health. Detention centres are also overcrowded, and migrants sometimes have to sleep standing up.
If the detention centres or migrant warehouses become too full, or if migrants do not have enough money to pay their smugglers, they risk being sold in slave markets and forced to work. Many women have ended up in sex slavery.
Overall, nearly 50% of Nigerian migrants that Seefar spoke to had witnessed murder in Libya and nearly all had either experienced or witnessed physical assault and beatings.
A risky journey across the Mediterranean Sea (Libya to Italy)
It is difficult to get on a boat in Libya as the beaches are patrolled, and migrants are regularly arrested. With support from the European Union, there is an increasing number of Libyan coastguards trained to stop smuggling boats in the Mediterranean Sea. Once they are at sea, many boats thus have to return to Libya, and migrants are placed in detention centres again. Migrants have paid money to agents for access to a boat, but the agents take their money and disappear.
Smugglers often lie about the length of the journey and do not tell migrants that the boats are overcrowded, unsuitable for long sea journeys and are at risk of sinking.
In 2017, one in 36 migrants died attempting to cross the Mediterranean, and since 2014 16,850 migrants have died during the crossing. Many of those were Nigerians.
Smugglers have shot migrants on the beach in Libya if they refuse to get on the boat, and the Libyan coastguard has also shot at migrant boats transporting Nigerians.
Travelling in Europe can also be risky for irregular migrants
“Journeys to and through Europe for refugees and migrants remain fraught with danger,†said Pascale Moreau, director of UNHCR’s Europe Bureau. European border controls are extremely strict. At each border there is a high chance of being arrested and returned to Nigeria.
Smugglers hide migrants in trucks and the boots of cars. Sometimes migrants get trapped and die there. Often migrants have to cross difficult terrain on foot, including mountains, forests and rivers, for many days with no shelter and during winter, in very cold and harsh weather.
Nigerian migrants can return safely
An increasing number of irregular Nigerian migrants now choose to return. Thousands of Nigerians have been repatriated to Nigeria from Libya so far under the International Organization for Migration’s (IOM) voluntary return and rehabilitation programme, which is being implemented in collaboration with the European Union (EU).
Alhaji Mustapha Maihaja, the Director-General of the National Emergency Management Agency (NEMA), said they are collaborating with IOM to ensure that Nigerians stranded in Libya were brought back home. “We are here to ensure that they are well received. We feed and give them money to enable them get back to their respective destinations,†he said.
An increasing number of Nigerians return to the country or decide to stay given the risks and price of irregular migration. Find out more about Nigerians returning home: https://www.themigrantproject.org/migrants-nigeria/
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