If we are observant enough, we will notice that most of time, one's plans or schedules don't go the way one might want it to go.Someone might face tribulations and hardship for a whole lifetime despite the consistent hard work and many efforts put in place.

A person might wonder why all of those disheartening occurences are happening to him or her in life.Let me enlighten you today. Every occurrences has a reason for occurring. It could occur as a result of something that you have done in the past or something that you are still doing.

Meanwhile,there are some die hard behaviors that attract demons and evil spirits to human beings on a daily basis.For instance, a comedian attracts people who love joke. So what you use your body for, will attract its lovers.

The same way comedians use their body to perform jokes to attract comics lovers, You as a person can also do indulge in something that will attract evil spirits to yourself.

1. If you are someone who enjoys cursing other, kindly detest from such. Doing that builds a bond between you and the demon you invoked to curse someone. What that demon likes about you is your cursing behavior. So the evil spirit is likely to always be with you, expecting more from you. Sometimes, you invoke curses on people without your intention to do so. It is the spirit. It always finds jobs of that sort for you.

The most disheartening part is that, this spirit keeps expecting more from you. So if you don't do it anymore, it turns against you and your entire family members, causing harms and others. So detest the habit of cursing.

2. People who always masturbates is also building a bond with an evil spirit. The reason is that, even if you lay with a woman, there is automatically a bond between you. The same thing happens in spiritual realms. The side effects of masturbation on your life is that, it affects you financially. You could be getting money alright, but you will lose it again on useless things. Before you know it, you are poor again without even knowing how you used the money.

3. Charms (Juju)

If you are someone who loves indulging in Juju, especially those women and guys who use spiritual powers on their partners. Keep it at the back of your mind that, it is a deal between you and unseen evil spirits. They will always keep their eyes on you wherever you go. If you do something that they don't like, they will harm you. How do you know what devils like and what they don't like. It is better you desist from those things before the worst happens to you.

In recent times many relationship and marriages have failed, partners no longer last in marriage as it used to be in the olden days. Sometimes you hear a marriage of 12 years crashed because of one reason or the other or you hear a family or relationship where partners fight each other. The question is 'why is this happening?'

In this article, we will be focusing on women and why they mostly take their partners for granted? 

Some women may be decent but later turn disrespectful due to some negative influences while some are disrespectful right from the home they come from.

Some ladies are very rude to their partners and always take them for granted. My dear be careful of who you are bringing home as a wife or girlfriend. Some of these ladies are poorly brought up because of the incapability of their parents to raise them properly or the environmental influence of where she grew up. If a child is poorly brought up, it will affect the way she acts or behave. It is better to date this type of girls to see if they can change but if you can't change her don't take her in as a wife, if you don't want to experience serious heartbreak.

My dear, mind the type of friends your woman keeps, this may be the reason she is taking you for granted. Negative friends corrupt good minds. A girl may be decent and respectful but keeping bad company will affect her character and attitude towards you. This may even get worse to an extent of not regarding you as her husband or boyfriend. If you want to enjoy your relationship and stop your partner from taking you for granted, watch and control the level and kind of friends she keeps.

Yes! You might be asking, 'How am I the problem?' My dear, sometimes the male partner contributes to this problem, someone may be asking 'How?', if you are a type of man that always do what your wife says because you want to please her or you always submit yourself to whatever decision she makes. You might be thinking you are caring for her but in the real sense you are spoiling her and losing your dignity as a man and head of the family. Let her care for you too, love is not one sided but should be expressed by both partners in a relationship. Learn to say 'no' to her especially on things you really can't do or beyond your capability, this will make her regard you as her husband or boyfriend and the respect both of you share will be retained.

You will agree with me, that most women love expensive lifestyle. If you are married or befriended such a woman be sure to always load your bank account and pocket with money. This is one of the major reasons most girls take their man for granted. My guys, please don't love a woman with your money because when the money is no more, you will regret the relationship. Learn to control how you spend on your woman so not to get their attracted to an expensive lifestyle. If you don't have money to spend, don't go extra mile to please her rather tell her there is no money. This will teach her to manage her resources properly.

My dear, don't force love on someone, if a person or woman doesn't love you let her go rather than trying to please her, because she will surely take you for granted. Any woman who love you will respect you and care for your feelings. There are many women out there, she is not the only fish in the ocean. Let her go and find another that will love you for who you are.

Article by Vitalisblog

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