When going into marriage, you have to be very watchful so that you won't fall into the wrong hands.

Just as a good marriage can be a source of strength and happiness to you, a bad marriage can completely destroy you. That is why it is important to look out for these 9 habits when making your choice of a life partner.

Perfectionism is a personality trait characterized by high expectations and standards. A relationship with a perfectionist may not work out because of the impossible standards he's set for you.

As a result, he may eventually isolate himself from you when you start complaining so as not to inflict his standards on you. This sort of relationship can become lonely and draining. It might even start affecting your self-esteem because nothing you do is ever good enough.

You would know if your man is still love with his ex when he still talks to her always bring her name in conversation stalks her online, still has her stuff.

Marrying a man like this is not advisable, because he might end up comparing you with her when you make certain mistakes. This can lead to problems in your relationship because nobody likes to be compared with someone else.

First question we'll ask ourselves is how to know if your partner is narcissistic. 

Here are ways to know:

-He has a grandiose sense of self-importance

-He needs constant praise and admiration.

-He has a sense of entitlement.

-He exploits others without guilt or shame.

-He frequently brings down, intimidate, bully or belittle others.

If you marry a narcissist, while you may not be physically abused in the relationship, your heart will be broken 10,000 times.

A man who is close to his mother is not a mama's boy in a negative way. A mummy's boy is rather overly attached to his mom, and might go ahead to please his mom at expense of the relationship/marriage.

Being married to an addict is not easy, and I'm sure you're not ready to deal with the pain of having an addictive husband. He might be addicted to drugs, alcohol, smoking. This could also make him abusive, and you'll always come second place because his addiction comes first. Also, you might start struggling financially because of the money he spends on his addiction.

Cases of abuse are on the rise daily. Staying in an abusive relationship can affect you in every aspect. It could break you down emotionally, and mentally. Such environment will not even be good to rear kids.

A lot of people go into relationships carrying some emotional baggage, and eventually make their partners pay the price for it.

If he is always suspicious of any person that come close to you, and constantly accuse you of cheating even when you are not doing anything bad, then you should think twice. He might eventually start abusing you because of his insecurity.

Cheating can break you emotionally and mentally. It can cause you great sorrow. Most cheaters are serial cheaters so you might have to deal with it throughout your married life.

When you marry a pushover, you might end up being the one making all the decisions in your marriage. Then it will be such a burden for you.

Asking interesting questions that are personal, but not too intrusive is one of the best ways to associate with a girl if you like her.

Note: if it's a situation whereby you don't know the girl, quickly introduce yourself if she smiles or says thanks because you asked a nice question or complimented her. That will boost your confidence and help you to know what to do next.