*WHO IS A PEDOPHILE?*

*A PEDOPHILE IS AN ADULT WHO TAKES PLEASURE IN HAVING SEXUAL RELATIONSHIP WITH MINORS*

. Pedophilia is not written on anybody's face

. A pedophile can leave with you for years and you won't know

. Pedos can  be male or female 

*What are the fruits of pedophiles* ?

They penetrate deep into your heart until you become very comfortable with them

They are usually very friendly with kids

They are always praising the kids they are targeting

They are experts at grooming

They are not in haste

 They take their time to plan and strategize before they act

They are ready to spend on a child what they cannot spend on their wife or any other adult

They hardly show irritation with kids

They are experts at discovering kids love language

 They know how to turn kids against their parents

  They are like chameleon

 In other words they are good pretenders.

 They have no shame and no pity

 That is why a father can molest his own daughter

 And an adult can break into a 6month old baby.

 They are heartless.

The painful and agonizing cry of a child does not move them

When they are before you or just before they have their way with a child, they appear to be the best friends to have

But immediately they get what they are looking for then turn to monsters

*WHERE ARE THEY FOUND*?

 They are everywhere

 They are among the teachers in your child's school

They are among the Sunday school teachers in the church

Your domestic servants are not innocent until they are proven so

 Your colleagues in your working place.

They can be in the public vehicle.

 They are everywhere 

Relatives who spend  some time in your home.

May God help us because one doesn't know who to trust anymore.

 And the worst of it all , some *PARENTS ARE PEDOPHILES.*

*SHOULD WE NOW START SUSPECTING EVERYBODY AROUND US? NO.*

 But importantly, every parents needs an extra pair of eyes.

A parent should be able to see more than meets the eyes.

 A parent should read and understand the body language of a child.

Your primary assignment is parenting.

Your business or official work is secondary

*HOW DO WE KNOW THEM*?

Parenting is not easy task. May God help us.

 Like I do say having children is not as important as watching over them like mother hen.

Watch your child's behavior towards any adult that comes around him or her regularly

Check out for those adults who are always looking for ways to stay ALONE with a child

 Check out for those who like to play ONLY with kids, not that they are naturally very playful but they just like to play with kids.

Be on your guard against any adult that buys unsolicited gifts for a particular child

5. Dig deeper if your husband start picking on your daughter.

 6. If any adult, including teachers in the school suddenly starts taking unusual interest in your child, don't keep quiet 

7. If someone suddenly makes himself or herself  the spokesperson for your child, please be suspicious.

 8. Don't be too comfortable with those young guys who offer to teach your child ALONE without payment.

*THE WORST OF IT IS SOME PARENTS ARE PEDOPHILES.*

How then can we manage this

To manage parents that are pedophiles:

The other parent should be bold enough to speak out on behalf of the child.

There are several government agencies and NGOs that are ready to take up the case of such child.

In some cases the child may be taken away from such parents till they are of age to defend themselves.

 But where the problem lies is that many times the child is intimidated to silence.

You should not parent only your own children.

some mothers may hide in disguise of covering shame for the family.

 If you know of a child that is being abused by a parent or people they are living with please be the voice and speak out on their behalf.

A greater shame or disaster may befall such family if the woman fails to speak up.

*HOW CAN WE PROTECT OUR CHILDREN*?

1. GOOD AND EARLY SEXUALITY EDUCATION

2. INCULCATE  GOOD SELF ESTEEM INTO THEM

3. KNOW AND SPEAK THEIR LOVE LANGUAGE

IF A PEDOPHILE DISCOVERS YOUR CHILD'S LOVE LANGUAGE BEFORE YOU, THEY WILL USE IT TO CAUSE YOU PAIN.

 4. DON'T ALLOW UNNECESSARY ATTACHMENT BETWEEN YOUR CHILD AND ANY ADULT.

5. DO NOT TRUST EVERY ADULT WITH YOUR CHILD

6. TEACH YOUR CHILD TO HAVE SELF CONTROL AND BE SATISFIED WITH WHAT YOU GIVE TO HIM OR HER

7: BE CAREFUL WITH THE KIND OF PERSONS YOU BRING INTO YOUR HOME

8. DON'T BRING A HOUSE HELP INTO YOUR HOME IF YOU DON'T TRUST YOUR HUSBAND

9. YOUR CHILD SHOULD NOT BECOME AN ERRAND GIRL FOR EVERYBODY IN YOUR NEIGHBORHOOD

 DON'T EXPOSE YOUR CHILD THROUGH INDECENT DRESSING

10: PLAN THE SLEEPING ARRANGEMENT IN YOUR HOME VERY WELL

 

*ABOVE ALL, LET YOUR HOUSEHOLD KNOW GOD AND WALK IN HIS WAYS*.

This is to all Parents, especially the mothers.

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An Ijesha Doctor can't find a job after graduation and so decided to open a clinic and puts a sign post outside

'GET TREATMENT FOR

20k - IF NOT CURED  GET BACK 100k.

An Ijebu Lawyer thinks this is a great opportunity to earn 100k and goes to the clinic...

Ijebu Lawyer:

"I have lost my sense of taste"

Ijesha Doctor:

"Nurse, bring medicine from box No. 22 and put 3 drops in patient's mouth"

Ijebu Lawyer: 

"Ugh..this is kerosene"

Ijesha Doctor:

"Congrats, your sense of taste is restored. Give me 20k" 

The annoyed Ijebu Lawyer goes back after a few days to recover his money...

Ijebu Lawyer:

"I have lost my memory. I cannot remember anything"

Ijesha Doctor:

"Nurse, bring medicine from box No. 22 and put 3 drops in his mouth"

Ijebu Lawyer (annoyed):

"This is kerosene. You gave this to me last time for restoring my taste"

Ijesha Doctor:

"Congrats. You got your memory back. Give me 20k"

The fuming Ijebu Lawyer pays him, and then comes back a week later determined to get back 100k.

Ijebu Lawyer:

"My eyesight has become very weak"

Ijesha Doctor: 

"Well, I don't have any medicine for that, so take this 100k"

The Ijebu Lawyer (staring at the cash): 

"But this is 20k,

not 100k"

Ijesha Doctor: 

"Congrats, your eyesight is restored. Give me 20k"

You can't beat an ijesha man.

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*👊👊👊HAPPY MOMENT.👊👊👊*