Shyness is a feeling of emotional and social

Causes of shyness

1. Subjection to ridicule or insult:

When a child is subjected to ridicule at a young age he might be low spirited or feel dejected and as a result of that he might grow to become a shy person.

2. Hereditary:

According to scientist, the major cause of shyness is hereditary, so if any of your parent tells you that they were shy when they were growing that might be a pointer to why you're shy

3. Weight at child birth:

According to recent studies it was discovered that children with low weight at child birth tends to be shy but those who have normal weight will grow to be a shy_free child.

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1. Avoid bullies:

As a shy person you often want people to compliment you, and your body also respond to any insult fast. And all this things are the works of a bully. So as a shy person you should avoid bullies

2. Don't advertise your shyness:

Avoid advertising your shyness, as a shy person you don't really need to make people know you're shy, because the main things you should do is to try to cover your shyness not to expose it. So it is possible that it is only those who are close to you that will know that you're shy. Because shyness is not as visible as you think it is.

3. Make friends with social people:

As a shy person it won't be reasonable for you to associate yourself with shy people because all of you are shy, and there is no one that is social so your group tends to be boring, but if you associate yourself with social people you'll just find yourself cruising under their tempo.

4. Don't be a bad dresser:

The fact that you're shy does not give you room to be a bad dresser, people already know you're shy don't double it with bad dressing. As a shy person learn to dress well so that what you lack socially you'll gain with your dressing. You can read my article top ten ways to lookore handsome to see how to dress well.

5. Know your strength:

Don't always think that you're useless. To know your strength you can ask your close friend or relative to list those things they think you're good at. So when you've known your strength you'll know what thing you can do and what you can't so that you will avoid disgrace which might break your heart.

6. Learn to appreciate those who like you:

As a shy person you'll often find people who like and wants to care for you. This people also have feelings so you must not hurt their feelings learn to cherish them back.

7. Try practicing inter-personal relationship:

To get used to speaking with people you must first practice it. So when you're walking on the road you can start with basic greetings, then from that wherever you go you can start basic conversation on cheap but meaningful topics like where are you from, what do you wish to become in future etc.

8. Avoid criticizing yourself:

As a shy person sometimes you tend to be the greatest enemy of yourself, you might begin to say bad about your dreams and ambition without even putting it into action. So learn to stop criticizing yourself.

9. Make sure you practice your 5 Magic words:

How sweet will it be for a boy to be shy but is well dressed and is also very respectful. People love people that are respectful. At any small instance learn to say sorry,please, excuse me, thank you and pardon me.

10. Avoid bad character:

As a shy person, one thing you don't knows that people often Percieve shy people to be innocent and they often have that trust concerning them. So any time you break that trust, there's a tendency that they might never trust you again.

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