GO FOR

THOSE WHO WANT WHAT YOU WANT

Every single human has a reason and need for a relationship. These reasons differs with people.

° Some people clearly want sex,

° Some just want your company,

° Some clearly want a short term stuff,

° Some clearly want to love you truly and get married,

° Some just want pity maybe cos of previous heartbreak or crucibles of life experience.

Now, it becomes a disaster when you accept someone who is not wanting what you want in a relationship.

^ You'll hurt yourself when you need love that will lead to marriage, but you end up accepting a person who needs a quickie.

^ You don't want premarital sex but you're dating someone who believes in premarital sex, someone who wants it anytime.. you're holding unto them cos you claim you love them, you'll end up hurting yourself.

^ You want casual sex, and you're going for a person who wants commitment? you'll end up not getting your expectations fulfilled.

The needs of your partner in the relationship must complement yours, if it doesn't then love shouldn't matter. What you want should be what your partner is willing to give.

✓ If you want sex, and she isn't willing, let go of her.

✓ If he wants a short term affair, and you want longterm commitment, let go of him.

Love doesn't modify our wants and priorities.

You'll only get fulfilled in a relationship when your partner wants what you want and when they want what you want, It'll be very easy for them to fulfil your wants.

• Stop planning long term goals with short term people!

A lot of girls will say, "That guy dumped me after 5years of being with him and being loyal and faithful".. actually, that wasn't the guy's need in the relationship, automatically he placed no value on your faithfulness, because that's not what he asked for.

Now, people won't be always bold to say they want to waste time with you, they might not be bold to say they want just sex, all of them will come in the name of Love. It takes an observant person to take note of such.

Don't fall in love that you are blind to reality!!!

Love is not all that matters when other important matters haven't been settled.

You'll only and always be appreciated when you meet a person who wants what you are capable of giving

A lot of girls complain that guys walk away from them simply because they refused giving them Sex, Some have even turned into Sex toys just to keep their man

Let me be very blunt here........

Sex might not be the reason these guys walk away!

Remove sex from a relationship and see that most girls don't have anything else to offer their man!!

No Extra Oil at all!

And the EXTRA OIL here is CHARACTER!

Most girls do not have extra Oil to sustain any Relationship while many brag about self Worth and some useless Virginity they threw to the dogs even before they started developing breasts....

Aside Sex,what do you have to offer to a man?

Can you support him Spiritually?

Can you Support him Physically/Financially?

How about Mentally?

All you do is Demand Money for Bags , Shoes , Clothes , and Outings ,

Making him spend unnecessarily

What are you even bringing to the table???

Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan

about his future???

Has he ever seen you as Someone he can Confide in?

Try to be a Woman that a man will Always regret losing for the rest of his Life .

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man!

Build your man to your Taste and stop looking for a ready made husband when you are not a ready made wife.