Luckily for me ,I had good skills that got me good paying jobs and I was able to save and pay my fees and other bills.I also saved the money required to be in my account for my application for Permanent Residence.

Everything was working out fine. 

Then my siblings told me about MBA and encouraged me to invest. I took all of the 10,000 dollars I had saved and put into it. The idea was to keep the money safe till the time I'd need it while also generating more money from it.

Unfortunately, MBA went down and so did my money. I was left with nothing. Whatever I worked out went into my accomodation and feeding. I applied for the Permanent Residence but was denied on the grounds that I didn't have the required funds in my account. I was asked to go back home and apply again when I have the money. I tried to stay back for a while, but it wasn't easy so I finally decided to come back so I can restrategize and plan my life again.

The loss affected me badly, but I have moved on. If I continue to dwell on it, I won't have the clear mindset to think. I took my lessons, came back home and started from where I left. I have a good plan and I know that with God's help, it will materialize and I'll go back to pursuing my dreams. "

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There's another man seeking for my hand in marriage. I don’t love him. I feel absolutely nothing for him, but two of my pastors said God told them he’s my husband.One pastor already said before that he saw me marry the new guy and was regretting it.

Now, I don’t know if I should go ahead and marry my boyfriend or leave him for the new suitor. I am so scared of making mistakes.

I want to marry right.What if I marry my boyfriend and regret it? I can't stay a day without talking to him for the past 5yrs of the relationship.He’s my business partner. My gossip mate. We literally talk about any and everything.

My question is, has anyone been told by pastors that someone is their husband and they didn’t listen? If yes, did you regret your decision?

If I have to go for the new guy,how do I break up with my boyfriend? I can't survive a whole day without talking to him. After the 2nd pastor said the same thing, I decided to reduce the frequency of our phone calls to see if I can break up from there. Just one day of not speaking to him, it was as if the world was falling apart.I never felt the same till we talked.I got a gist and started calling to gist him forgetting I told myself I wanted us to stop talking frequently.

How do I break up with such a man? What if I finally marry him and regret it? What if I marry the new suitor and regret it too?How do I even marry someone I dislike?

Advice me, please. If you are or have been in same shoes as me, how did you handle it? I don’t sleep at night because of overthinking? "