I love my girl.

At 23, she was still a virgin.

But when I got tired of waiting for her. Initially, I promised I will never disvirgin her till we are married. 

But I got tired of keeping that promise. I started acting somehow, threatening to quit the friendship and marry another woman. 

She knows I was ready for marriage. So she got scared of loosing me. She begged me to wait till we are married, that she promised her God she will remain a virgin till she gets married. 

But I told her, what's the point, that I will be coming to see her people and marry her before September this year. We fought it, until she finally allowed me. And that was how I broke her virginity.

 And I must confess, this increased my love for her.

To tell you the truth ma, if a great prophet had told me that, I will find myself in this situation I am today, I will call the prophet a pure fake.

On June, I took her to Onitsha, to introduce her to my family. 

Ma, both my mom and sister did not like her. My mom, instantly disapproved her. 

She says, she is seeing something in her eyes that is pure evil. I told her I have been with her for close to 3 years and there is nothing evil about her. That she is even more religious than me. 

But my mom says no. I tried convincing her but she says no, that I should either choose her or the girl. 

I love my girl and I love my mom, but I don't want to disobey my mom and be in her bad book because of a girl.

And if I go ahead and marry this girl, it's going to be an unending fight between a daughter inlaw and mother inlaw.

 I don't want my girl to suffer that fate. She is nice and deserve a home that will love and accept her. If I go against my mother's wish to marry her, happiness may seize in my mother's life. I don't want that for her.

I'm only seeking advise on how to peacefully break up with this innocent girl, without her commiting suicide. I wasn't fair on her

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When Tonya was driving her daughter to school, she was a witness to a shocking car crash. 

The accident was pretty serious, so she got out of her car in order to see if she could help. 

There were two cars involved in the accident. 

One of the cars, an SUV, quickly started to catch fire. 

She immediately checked if there were passengers left in the car and saw an unconscious 14-year-old boy. 

Without hesitating, she pulled the car door open and brought the boy to safety. 

He was brought to a hospital where Tonya and her daughter visited him several times in order to help him recover.

As time started to pass by, Tonya began to notice that her daughter started to go to the hospital on her own account. 

As it turns out, the two teens fell in love with each other and married each other when they had grown up.