I love my girl.

At 23, she was still a virgin.

But when I got tired of waiting for her. Initially, I promised I will never disvirgin her till we are married. 

But I got tired of keeping that promise. I started acting somehow, threatening to quit the friendship and marry another woman. 

She knows I was ready for marriage. So she got scared of loosing me. She begged me to wait till we are married, that she promised her God she will remain a virgin till she gets married. 

But I told her, what's the point, that I will be coming to see her people and marry her before September this year. We fought it, until she finally allowed me. And that was how I broke her virginity.

 And I must confess, this increased my love for her.

To tell you the truth ma, if a great prophet had told me that, I will find myself in this situation I am today, I will call the prophet a pure fake.

On June, I took her to Onitsha, to introduce her to my family. 

Ma, both my mom and sister did not like her. My mom, instantly disapproved her. 

She says, she is seeing something in her eyes that is pure evil. I told her I have been with her for close to 3 years and there is nothing evil about her. That she is even more religious than me. 

But my mom says no. I tried convincing her but she says no, that I should either choose her or the girl. 

I love my girl and I love my mom, but I don't want to disobey my mom and be in her bad book because of a girl.

And if I go ahead and marry this girl, it's going to be an unending fight between a daughter inlaw and mother inlaw.

 I don't want my girl to suffer that fate. She is nice and deserve a home that will love and accept her. If I go against my mother's wish to marry her, happiness may seize in my mother's life. I don't want that for her.

I'm only seeking advise on how to peacefully break up with this innocent girl, without her commiting suicide. I wasn't fair on her

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We crave and desire it, and it takes up the majority of our thoughts throughout the day even in seniors.

1) Improved mental and physical health. 

2) Burns fat, releases endorphins, and reduces anxiety. 

3) Increases life span. 

4) A form of exercise that helps regulate hormones. 

5) Strengthens relationships. 

6) Helps Keep Your Immune System Humming. 

7) Boosts Your Libido. 

8) Improves Women's Bladder Control. 

9) Lowers Your Blood Pressure. 

10) Lowers Heart Attack Risk. 

11) May Make Prostate Cancer Less Likely. 

12) Improves Sleep. 

13) Eases Stress.  

While the desire may be strong on both sides, it is true that men and women are not as well-equipped for sexual intercourse in old age. 

Men may have lower levels of testosterone, preventing sustained erections, while women may have lower levels of estrogen, decreasing lubrication. 

However, these are all things that can be remedied with or without pharmaceuticals. 

Eating a healthy diet and staying active can go a long way in increasing libido. 

However, despite not having any concern of becoming pregnant, there is still a concern of getting a sexually transmitted infection. 

It was reported that, in the majority of long-term care facilities, elderly residents are having a lot of sex. 

Since talking about sex with the elderly is pretty much taboo, many of the problems that plague the younger demographic are also seeing a resurgence in the elderly population. 

Gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis are just some of the infections running amok in some of these senior homes, where sexual education is nonexistent. 

So, for anyone finding themselves in a situation like this, practicing safe sex to prevent the spread of STIs falls on your shoulders.