Marriage is a life time race. Marriage is not a contract or appointment that can be terminated at anytime. I have seen many marriages living in tears, regrets and even got separated. What causes that? The foundation is faulty. Any successful marriage, check the foundation. I have see a lots of young people who are eager to get marriage but they don’t know the secrets for a successful marriage. By the mercy and help of God I have interacted and preach amidst single brothers and sisters. Young people love relationship talk and can ask funny questions.

Singleness is a period of preparation and planning. Your better marriage start when you are still a single. Remember, it is tomorrow that define today. Right from the time of relationship there are things to do and ought not to do.

Before thinking to say “I do” you must acknowledge that life teaches that change is inevitable. The earth constantly moves and shakes; clouds rise and form, spill and evaporate; plants sprout, take root, and invade the landscape. People change too. This is the fact of life. Any good relationship acknowledges that individuals do not remain the same over a period of time. We change in appearance, outlook, and in our knowledge of the world around us.

Before two people being to plan for a wedding ceremony, they should first stop to acknowledge and explore this reality of change. Before you plan for a wedding, plans for your marriage. It surfaces quickly once a man and woman begin sharing the same, squeezing from the same toothpaste tube, and coming home to mixed piles of dirty clothes. Love shared during courtship may be quiet different from the love shared in marriage.

Soon you will be standing before many witnesses and you’ll make some promises of lifetime. But before then, there are secrets or basic things to know before getting married.

Concept of Marriage

Marriage is an institution ordained by God. It is the only institution that was established before sin came into the world. Marriage is a lifetime journey till death.

“Marriage, a legally and socially sanctioned union, usually between a man and a woman, that is regulated by laws, rules, customs, beliefs.”

WHO TO MARRY

As a single, who to marry should always be your prayers and daily reflection so you don't end up regretting. There are things to put in consideration which is beyond physical attraction. Have you ever ask yourself what type of person will I marry? Can you just get married to anyone? That’s why this book title 6 secrets to know before getting married. Before you get married, make sure you are at a place where you are comfortable in who you are. Know your best qualities and the things you can improve upon.

According to the words of Ayo Daniel, “become the person you desire to marry: Everyone has an ideal picture of a spouse, based on the frame of reference from their circle of influence. There is no doubt we can be inspired by living examples of thriving marriages, but the truth is marriage takes determined efforts. Everyone who desires to marry a godly, loyal, committed, loving, kind and compassionate spouse, should aim at becoming one themselves.”

As earlier stated above, choosing a life partner is a big decision and not one to take lightly. When choosing a man or woman to marry, ask yourself reflective questions and evaluate what you want. Know your own responsibilities and role in creating a happy relationship and recognize that it’s up to you to create the relationship you want. “Feel comfortable in who you are and make efforts to share each other’s families. Talk about your differences and any potential problems that may arise if you do become married.”

Now let’s look some secrets on who to marry:

1.     Marry A Believer

2.    The person you know

3. Someone you trust

4. Someone you love

5. Consider the family background

6. Who to marry should not be secretive

7. Maturity

8. Should have the same vision

9. Know the person temperament

CONCLUSION

I will like to conclude this article by calling on young people especially single brothers and sisters to carefully take note of the above secrets before getting marry.

Marriage is a pleasure aspect of life and a lifetime journey. Marriage was ordained by God for a man and woman to become together as husband and wife. To love and to cherish till death separate them. If you know the secrets your marriage will not have challenges. 

Friends, many marriages today are in tears and living in regrets. Singleness is a period of preparation and searching for the right person. Therefore as a single, take time through prayer to find a better partner for a better home. 

If you have been following and reading my articles you will realize I have been discussing on relationship matters because I do really want to build solid and lasting relationships and marriages. Many relationships and marriages are in tears and shambles.

To live with someone is very simple and easy if you can be able to study what your partner likes and dislikes. That's why this article is calling the attention of readers to know how to become physically attractive to your partner. Therefore, sit and cross your fingers while I explore some steps bellow.

Here are nine steps that may help you improve your physical attractiveness:

1. Take care of your physical health: Maintaining good physical health can help you look and feel your best. This includes getting enough sleep, eating a healthy diet, and staying hydrated.

2. Practice good hygiene: Good hygiene is important for maintaining a clean and attractive appearance. This includes brushing your teeth, washing your face and body regularly, and keeping your hair clean and well-groomed.

3. Exercise regularly: Exercise can help improve your physical health and can also help you look and feel more attractive. Find an exercise routine that works for you and try to make it a regular part of your routine.

4. Dress well: The way you dress can have a big impact on your overall appearance. Choose clothes that fit you well and suit your body type.

5. Get a good haircut or hairdo: A good haircut can do wonders for your appearance. Consider finding a hairstyle that suits your face shape and hair type.

6. Use makeup and grooming products appropriately: If you choose to use makeup and grooming products, it's important to use them in moderation and to choose products that are appropriate for your skin type and tone.

7. Practice good posture: Good posture can help you look and feel more confident and attractive. Stand up straight, pull your shoulders back, and engage your core muscles to help improve your posture.

8. Invest in fragrance: It's important to remember that physical attractiveness is subjective and that there is no one "right" way to be attractive. Focus on taking care of yourself and feeling confident in your own skin, rather than trying to meet some arbitrary standard of beauty.

Your fragrance communicates attractiveness to women on a carnal level. Find a daily-wear bottle of fragrance that blends with your natural body chemistry.

It’s the kind of shopping you have to do in person because we all have an individual-specific scent profile.4 This means a cologne that works wonders for you might smell horrible on me, and vice versa.

9. Acquire knowledge: Many partners love it when their spouses are intelligent and well-read. You don’t have to be knowledgeable in all aspects; All you need to do is be well-informed to hold meaningful conversations. 

Learning how to be more attractive involves understanding that problem solvers are charming because they have critical thinking skills.

relationship gets older, every spouse wants to be treated as Cinderella or Prince Charming. However, some partners do not put the needed effort to retain their appeal and charm over time. They forget to focus on how to be more attractive to their partner.

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