If at some point, someone you’re not interested in asks you out, what would you say? How do you free up their mind away from such thought? Do you rip it off harshly or tread a little more cautiously?

A study show that "when we experience rejection, it activates the same areas of the brain that are activated when we feel physical pain." So, when you think back to the time your crush rejected you in middle school, you’ll re-experience all those emotions much more intensely than when you think about the time you broke your arm.! How does that sound...

 

Rejecting people for whatever reason isn’t exactly fun. Therefore, it’s important to know how to go about it.

Here are 5 pieces of advice for you on how to best reject someone.

 

1. Be Direct: You absolutely do not need beating around the bush when it comes to rejecting someone. Make your decision and be frank with it. Do not sound undecided or confused! You may be tempted to sugar coat what you have to say, but don’t do it!

 

2. Keep It Simple: Do not bother them much with words! There’s no need for a 10-15 minutes speech about why both of you aren’t right for each other. So, endeavour to keep the conversation short. Try saying something like, “I’m honoured, but in all sincerity, I'm not interested in dating, but thanks for asking!”

 

3. Do not Apologize: Apologies are meant for only situations where you've offended a party. In this case, saying sorry isn't necessary as you've only tried to be truthful with them by being straightforward.

 

4. A Call or Text is just Fine:

Face-to-face rejections can be as tough as it get, but they are really the best way to do it. However, In cases where that can’t happen, a call or text is still fair enough. However, the same rules still apply (honesty, directness, as well as, keeping it simple)

 

5. Don’t Mention Physical Traits: Saying words like "you're just not attracted to them” doesn't sound good to the ears. Even if that’s the case, don’t say it! You’re already rejecting them, so try not to add insult on their looks on top of it.

 

Kindly add other ways of politely rejecting someone in the comment box. Thanks

Ladies send nudes to their boyfriends to keep spark alive in their relationships. @LihliqinisoM says she sent her nudes to the wrong person by mistake. She wanted to send to her partner. She doesn't know what to do and how the person is going to react. People think she sent them intentionally. They think she knew what she was doing.

" I sent my nudes to the wrong person by mistake.I'm panicking."

"The same thing happened to me 2020. I sent them to my mom’s friend by mistake." Said @Zama_ Madlala.

"If the person is not using WhatsApp GB, you can still delete them. Unless you waited for a long time. I feel for you. Hopefully they are not bad." kingbishop1st.

"I’m sure he appreciated them. I think you know what you were doing. How can you send naked pictures without checking the name first? Send them to me, let me see how bad they are." Said @ditshegokj.

What's your though guys, do you even think it's a good idea to send your nudes to anyone whatsover?

Source:

"https://twitter.com/LihliqinisoM/status/1563923103880822785?t=Bp78QH2dK3A3iUNFT6qrOw&s=19