One common thing I noticed in some ladies is lack of courtesy and respect. Men loved to be respected and little courtesy counts both in actions and words.

 

 Respect is simply the way you respond, talk and your choice of words when communicating with him. It's very IMPORTANT.

 

If this is your weakness you need to work on yourself and you can become a better version of yourself.

 

Speak with wisdom and carry yourself gracefully and drop any bad habits.

 

I'm not perfect and no one is but there's always room for improvement.

 

1. Can you be ALL I WANT?

A woman naturally needs and seeks her man to be her everything

Her Priest

Her Lover

Her Gist Buddy 

Her Knight in shining armor

Her Friend

Her Husband 

A Father to their kids.

 

2. Can you handle my STRENGTHS?

We all have  gifts, talents, passions, strengths that God has put in us.

Can he handle them or is he the insecure type who will want to suppress the greatness in you because you're a woman?

3. Can you handle my WEAKNESSES?
We all have our weaknesses

No one is perfect 
Some talks alot
Some snore
Some forget alot

He should know these things and if he doesn't care he should patiently willing to help you overcome them with love.

4. Can you IMPROVE me?
He should be able to make you a better woman by virtue of being married to him.

How has that relationship IMPACTED you spiritually, socially, mentally, financially and otherwise.

Are you improving or going down?

5. Can you STAND by me and STICK to me?
If there's no child yet after one year of marriage, will he stand by you or unleash his family on you?

If his family or friends make trouble will he stand up for you?

If there's female children and no male, will he stand by you?

If he sees beautiful and endowed women, some willing to have an affair with him even if they know he's married, will he turn down the temptation?

As you grow older and your body changes due to childbirth, will he stand by you and help you overcome it?


ASK  HIM

OBSERVE  HIM