Life and living get better when there is a system created on autopilot. It will bridge the gap of analog life. 

Nobody has the full time to do everything by himself. 

©️ Ikechukwu Nwofoke

 

And I want to understand

 

This guy knew for yearsss that he couldn't invest in the relationship.

 

This guy knew for years that there was no future.

 

This guy knew he was scared of committing 

 

This guy knew.... This guy effing knewww

 

What did he do instead?

 

He checked out

 

He shifted and focused his energy in his own future and left her to waste her time and invest her resources on him. 

 

How wicked can one be? A person you claim to love?

 

Lol

 

Make it make sense.

 

"did you even notice that we didn't say I love you alot"

 

Lol

 

I just saw two people, one was in the relationship and the other was outside the relationship and observing the relationship and looking for faults.

 

Look at them

 

You will see a genuine woman, that invested her all in a man for good six years. You will see a woman who was recounting it and then you will see a man creating content. Looking for reasons and sugarcoating jargons and making sure the content comes out fine and beautiful. 

 

It's very painful

 

I'm so many things but I don't know how to waste time with what is not going to yield fruit.

 

If I realize that we can't work in the future, I'm saving you the stress and that's love.

 

I felt very bad for that lady.

 

She really loved someone who just used her.

 

She gave her all

 

He definitely couldn't get rid of her because she was instrumental to his growth and that's why he kept mute. 

 

And she was there? Looking at a guy who played her. A guy who used her and she's still talking about "twin flames" abeg! Abeg!!!!

 

If you know you can't be with someone on the long run.

 

Allow them go

 

Tell them on time

 

Don't be this wicked abeg.

 

It's easy to say "build your own future"

 

But, people build together and there's nothing wrong with it. It's even beautiful.

 

I will say "know when you are no longer in the picture and move"

 

Per attention to when they stop saying "we" and start saying "I" 

 

She probably saw the hints and lived in self denial. She didn't want to believe that it was happening.

 

This is painful