I have heard of cases where a "suppose virgin" doesn't bleed on her Wedding night. The disappointment the man would fell will be nothing compared to The pain and frustration she would feel afterwards. Here emphasis is not on self acclaimed virgin that use fingers or cucumber etc. To masturbate..

Most men sees blood as the only way to ascertain if a girl is virgin or not. But that is not necessarily so.

Before you condemn that virgin, here are the reasons why she didn't bled:

1. Some girls are born without a hymen;

2. The hymen may tear naturally when a girl

plays sports or engages in any physical activity;

3. The hymen is not always smooth but tends to

be perforated and that the perforations may get

bigger and cause the hymen to break once a girl

menstruates;

4. The hymen can be broken by the use of

tampons;

5. The hymen may be very small or very elastic

so that no breakage occurs at all (some women

even become pregnant while their hymens are

still intact);

6. A hymen may not bleed when broken

Given these facts, it is extremely sad that

women all over the world are still expected to

bleed on their wedding nights as proof that they

are virgins and that they often pay severe

consequences if they happen not to bleed,

possibly being shamed and humiliated, instantly

divorced or even killed. To avoid such disasters,

women have resorted to various tricks to ensure

that they bleed, including the use of animal blood

in their private parts or even cutting themselves,

while wealthier women often get gynecological

exams before marriage and do hymen-repair

surgery in the event that no hymen is found.

There is so much confidence in the idea that an

intact hymen proves virginity that the trend in

many countries now is to have one's daughter

"officially certified" as a virgin by a clinic. This is

so embarassing for the girls that a number of

them (most notably in Turkey) have committed

suicide rather than be touched by strangers in

this bizarre, invasive manner.