She needs advice.

 

I graduated from catering school last December (I actually trained myself for the 2yrs I went there) because I'm not my parents favorite child I guess. 

 

Since January, I've been trying to find work in a fast food so I can save up and start my own business, I wanted to work for 6mnths or 1yr to raise capital depending on my salary.

 

I do get small small cake or pastry work that I do for people and I use the small earnings I get there to take care of myself and other things. 

 

May ending of this year, my elder sister who happens to be my parents favorite child asked called me and asked me what I want to do. I told her that I'm looking for job so that I can save up and start up my own business. She told me to look for a business I want to do so that she can support me, cos she has some money with her instead of me going to work for someone. I was beyond happy. 

 

I had the idea of starting my own mini restaurant business but it's costly and people in my area go very far to get food to eat. 

 

I first told her that I want to learn how to make closure, she told me that it's stressful and not lucrative (she sows wigs and sells weavon too) but if that's what I want that she'll support me. I asked her to give me sometime to come up with something else and 2days later I decided to tell her about the restaurant business.

 

 That was on Friday. The Sunday of that week, she asked for my business plan which I gave her and 1wk later she came to my room and said "I've gone through your plan and I don't see any future in the business you want to do" I can't support you in it cos it's not what I want you to do, come and learn how to sell weavon, I've already spoken with the lady that will teach you for 2mnths. Just give me your permission and I'll pay for your learn, after the learning, I'll pay for your shop at main market and buy goods for you, if the business starts moving, we'll talk about how to share the percentage of the business.

 

After 3days she called me and asked me of I've decided to start the business she told me about and I told her that I've not decided over it.

The next day she told my parents about it and they all supported her that I should enter into hair business but I refused and insisted that I want to start my own business. 

 

There's nothing they didn't say to me, my mum carried the matter on her head and told me that if I want to start the food business, that I should find where to stay. 

 

They downgraded me and my idea.

The worst part is that my sis told them that she's starting the business for me, if I start making money, I'll use it to take care of myself without telling them the part where she said I'll have to share the PROFIT WITH HER.

 

The main point here is that my sis posted hair in her social media handle and the guy she's dating now saw it and bought from her. Since then they've been taking, he wants to establish my sis so he sent her money to open shop and she wants me to leave whatever I want to do and start the business. Like she wants me to live her life for her.

 

I've made enquiries about the hair and it's not a lucrative business here. Unless na wholesale you dey do. 

 

She has called all my siblings and all of them are supporting her, even the ones owning me among them don't want to give me my money because they believe I'm going to use it to start the food business.

 

My dad gave me one week to make up my mind to start the business and since then I've been trying to force myself to accept the offer but I just get depressed and I've told many people about my intention of opening my food business, even without opening it yet, I have customers asking when I'm starting. 

 

l have a friend who stays in Abuja, when I told him about it, he said "I'm coming back to Onitsha August and till I go back September, you'll be the one to make my breakfast, lunch and dinner".

 

I don't know what to do, I don't have up to 100k with me and my mind, spirit and body is fighting against the hair business.

 

I need advice on what to do. I know that in the future my sis would convince my parents to be giving her half of the earnings from the shop and I don't want to live my life at the mercy of anyone.

 

Copied From Anuka Ike Justice Court On Facebook.

They fit pass you for road simply because of their shyness. They can stay indoors for weeks without minding. 

Very calculative, clingy, little touch of hot temper, romantic with one they love. They hardly fall in love but once they fall, it's over they don't joke with that person. 

They hardly cheat. Before you see them,Dem don see you(so sensitive). They can read people's mind before you could say it, they rarely have friends and associate in any activities, always not comfortable staying in a place full of people, always staying alone.

They hardly talk in the midst of people but talkative when they are with their lovely one.

People usually sees them as too proud people but they are not. 

They can endure alot but don't push them or take them for granted because once they decide, you have lost them kpatakpata.

They are too emotional. They don't easily forget bad things someone did to them.

They hardly share their problems to anybody or ask people for assistance no matter what they are passing through.

You won't easily observe the kind of person untill you get closer to them.

They are unpredictable and stubborn????!

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